how should I advise my friend?
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my very good friend is very hurt & disappointed...
recently, her genital area seems to be infected but yet she does not want to seek medical treatment despite my continual persuasion...
however, her bf, knowing her condition very well just told her to endure it...eventually it will subside..
in addition, he is so insensitive to his gf's condition..instead, he requested to be intimate with her + penetration...
my friend is hurt 'cos she feels that at this point of her infection, he should be sensitive to her body...instead of having any advances...
as her friend, i feel that he should love his gf, taking care of her body...& should be afraid that such advances may lead to a chance of making the infection worse...
my friend eventually stopped him by telling him of the possible consequences...only then, he stopped with his 'nonsense'...
my friend is very hurt now...how should i advise her?
tell her that it's ok & forget about the whole incident? or tell her to re-consider this relationship..?
hope to hear all your opinion on this... -
first of all, get her to see the doctor..
an infection is not a laughing matter.. -
better go see a doctor.... dont play play... u never know.. not STD I hope.
the infection not pass on to her my her insensitive bf I hope...
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Like most have said, ask her to see a doctor... It's HER HEALTH... She should take care of herself....Originally posted by tHUmbUP:my very good friend is very hurt & disappointed...
recently, her genital area seems to be infected but yet she does not want to seek medical treatment despite my continual persuasion...
however, her bf, knowing her condition very well just told her to endure it...eventually it will subside..
in addition, he is so insensitive to his gf's condition..instead, he requested to be intimate with her + penetration...
my friend is hurt 'cos she feels that at this point of her infection, he should be sensitive to her body...instead of having any advances...
as her friend, i feel that he should love his gf, taking care of her body...& should be afraid that such advances may lead to a chance of making the infection worse...
my friend eventually stopped him by telling him of the possible consequences...only then, he stopped with his 'nonsense'...
my friend is very hurt now...how should i advise her?
tell her that it's ok & forget about the whole incident? or tell her to re-consider this relationship..?
hope to hear all your opinion on this...
Regrading the relationship... Talk to her more? And ask her to THINK about it herself? It might be painful, but still... She can't AVOID the FACT... -
seek medical help from doc 1st for her condition b4 thinking of everythings else..
condition cured den u ask her about her stuffs about the r/s with bf.. -
yah, i will definitely pulllllllll her to visit the doctor...
physical hurt could be easily solved, but emotional hurt is very hard to repair...
I dunno how I should advise her on her r/s. She is very much affected by what her bf has done.
Is he in any way wrong? Since he did somehow respect her by stopping, when she rejected his advances... -
go c doc!!!
mai tu liao...
if not treated...mi become worst... -
of coourse he's in the wrong.. he only uses her to satisfy his urges.. in a loving relationship, one must put the partner before oneself.. he's plain selfish..Originally posted by tHUmbUP:yah, i will definitely pulllllllll her to visit the doctor...
physical hurt could be easily solved, but emotional hurt is very hard to repair...
I dunno how I should advise her on her r/s. She is very much affected by what her bf has done.
Is he in any way wrong? Since he did somehow respect her by stopping, when she rejected his advances... -
You should get your friend to see the doctor... If she feels embarrassed or anything, maybe you can try and look for female doctors?
Guess her bf was quite insensitive at that point of time....
sorry to hear her sufferings....
Do try your best to help her as a friend... -
go c doc, tis kinda thing better dun wait...
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Originally posted by tHUmbUP:my very good friend is very hurt & disappointed...
recently, her genital area seems to be infected but yet she does not want to seek medical treatment despite my continual persuasion...
however, her bf, knowing her condition very well just told her to endure it...eventually it will subside..
in addition, he is so insensitive to his gf's condition..instead, he requested to be intimate with her + penetration...
my friend is hurt 'cos she feels that at this point of her infection, he should be sensitive to her body...instead of having any advances...
as her friend, i feel that he should love his gf, taking care of her body...& should be afraid that such advances may lead to a chance of making the infection worse...
my friend eventually stopped him by telling him of the possible consequences...only then, he stopped with his 'nonsense'...
my friend is very hurt now...how should i advise her?
tell her that it's ok & forget about the whole incident? or tell her to re-consider this relationship..?
hope to hear all your opinion on this...
Like what other forum mates had said - seek medicial attention immediately. Her infection could be cause by 2 possible reasons:
I) Infection due to hygience. This is not too serious. Probably a little cut somewhere may lead to greater problems due to poor hygience.
II) Infection due to sexual diseases. This is serious.
Actually, what you are more concerned over is her bf's insensitive nature. This is serious because her bf is more controlled by what's in between his legs than her physical conditions. There is a need to have a little talk with him. This communication part has to revolve about this issue. Why? Because guys are such that 'UNLESS YOU SPEAK, THEY DUNNO.' But I have to say that he is truely over-ruled by his dick.
Cheers -
See the doctor is top priority...
Others can wait... -
go to polyclinic see doc...if serious ask doc write u referral letter to see KK hospital......this kind mus go for medical help one..canot zo bolang tink there...abt her relationship....her bf like nt care abt her ....ask her dn put so much feelings liao