Like most have said, ask her to see a doctor... It's HER HEALTH... She should take care of herself....Originally posted by tHUmbUP:my very good friend is very hurt & disappointed...
recently, her genital area seems to be infected but yet she does not want to seek medical treatment despite my continual persuasion...
however, her bf, knowing her condition very well just told her to endure it...eventually it will subside..
in addition, he is so insensitive to his gf's condition..instead, he requested to be intimate with her + penetration...
my friend is hurt 'cos she feels that at this point of her infection, he should be sensitive to her body...instead of having any advances...
as her friend, i feel that he should love his gf, taking care of her body...& should be afraid that such advances may lead to a chance of making the infection worse...
my friend eventually stopped him by telling him of the possible consequences...only then, he stopped with his 'nonsense'...
my friend is very hurt now...how should i advise her?
tell her that it's ok & forget about the whole incident? or tell her to re-consider this relationship..?
hope to hear all your opinion on this...
of coourse he's in the wrong.. he only uses her to satisfy his urges.. in a loving relationship, one must put the partner before oneself.. he's plain selfish..Originally posted by tHUmbUP:yah, i will definitely pulllllllll her to visit the doctor...
physical hurt could be easily solved, but emotional hurt is very hard to repair...
I dunno how I should advise her on her r/s. She is very much affected by what her bf has done.
Is he in any way wrong? Since he did somehow respect her by stopping, when she rejected his advances...
Originally posted by tHUmbUP:my very good friend is very hurt & disappointed...
recently, her genital area seems to be infected but yet she does not want to seek medical treatment despite my continual persuasion...
however, her bf, knowing her condition very well just told her to endure it...eventually it will subside..
in addition, he is so insensitive to his gf's condition..instead, he requested to be intimate with her + penetration...
my friend is hurt 'cos she feels that at this point of her infection, he should be sensitive to her body...instead of having any advances...
as her friend, i feel that he should love his gf, taking care of her body...& should be afraid that such advances may lead to a chance of making the infection worse...
my friend eventually stopped him by telling him of the possible consequences...only then, he stopped with his 'nonsense'...
my friend is very hurt now...how should i advise her?
tell her that it's ok & forget about the whole incident? or tell her to re-consider this relationship..?
hope to hear all your opinion on this...