liking a girl

• sgFish

  30 Jan 04, 14:55

  i ask you ppl arh, usually do people like a girl after they know her (which means the guy is attracted to her personality), or do they see someone they don't really know then suddenly like her then go ask for her phone number or something?
• <sk>

  30 Jan 04, 15:05

  Well there are several circumstances....
  
  ie a guy most times are attracted by looks first, he might be very interested in knowing her and if he knows who she is, he will ask his friends for her numbers or setup a meeting.
  
  If the guy is very interested and does'nt know the gal at all, then he would naturally go up to the girl and ask her for number if he has the courage to.
  
  There are some guys who like to take it slow, although they might be interested in a girl, they will first be friends for a while then start dating....
  
  Whereas others, just want to start dating the girl asap by asking her out for a date the next day.
  
  And then there's the good friends for a long time, then the guy realizes he likes his good friend.... that one depends...
  
  If you really want to find out whether the guy likes you, then go ask your friends to ask his friends thingy... or just be brave and ask him... or if you like to be childish, then do the secret admirer thing, email or write him letters...
• thoreldan

  30 Jan 04, 23:14

  for my case usually first started off as friend, then slowly take action. Of course not too slow, wait nothing left liao, hehe. Starting off from friends means more topics to talk about and u'd understand her better
  
  
• FireIce

  30 Jan 04, 23:59

  prefer him to be from my social circle.....can be fren's fren, fren's brother, schoolmates, online communities.....
  dun relli believe in picking one off the streets....
• Devil1976

  31 Jan 04, 11:30

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  prefer him to be from my social circle.....can be fren's fren, fren's brother, schoolmates, online communities.....
  dun relli believe in picking one off the streets....

  What if he picks you up?
• Yunhaier

  31 Jan 04, 12:08

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  What if he picks you up?

  
• sgFish

  31 Jan 04, 14:48

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  What if he picks you up?

  lol
• sgboy2004

  31 Jan 04, 16:46

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  What if he picks you up?

  i dun mind
  
  
• WrX_STi

  31 Jan 04, 20:05

  haha...
• men_@_arms

  1 Feb 04, 19:56

  I would get to know her mind 1st, rather than just rely on appearance to make me attracted. Meaning, I would do what she does, go to the same class etc etc, get to know her mind by being close enough to converse with her, then take it further. But if she's a wanker, forget it then, most girls are wankers.
• sgFish

  1 Feb 04, 21:39

  Originally posted by men_@_arms:

  I would get to know her mind 1st, rather than just rely on appearance to make me attracted. Meaning, I would do what she does, go to the same class etc etc, get to know her mind by being close enough to converse with her, then take it further. But if she's a wanker, forget it then, most girls are wankers.

  lol wads considered a wanker?
• ditzy

  1 Feb 04, 21:40

  Originally posted by sgFish:

  lol wads considered a wanker?

  Trust me, you dun want to know.