WHat's the answe of the gal???
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Sunday was a normal day for me, booking in at night and it seems like a ordinary day. While taking the train saw this gal which deeply attracts me, the kind of love at first sight feeling. Deep in my heart i really wish i could know her, but basically it is just impossible for me to know her cause i have never ask a gal for numbers before. Maybe it is a lack of courage, what i can do is just see her drop off at her destination.
Weeks past, not sure whether it is fate or what, i manage to see her again at a shopping mall. Saw her working at a particular shop and was damm happy when i saw her cause i never thought i would ever see her again. Maybe i'm really a coward , i still do not even dare to talk to her, but i really wish i could know her.
Last week i took the same train with her again. Even though i'm reading a book, it just seems too hard to concentrate reading it while she is sitting oppsite. JUst took a few peep at her whenever she's not noticing. Really don't know what got into me that day, i decide to know her. But without the courage to tell her face to face all i can do is to write a paper stating that i'm really sincere to know her since the last time i took the same train with her and told her to sms me the result whether it is a "yes" or "no". After finishing writing, hope to pass her the paper when the moment she alight. THe time seems damm slow during that day, no matter what i do , i still feel extremely nervous, maybe it is because it is my 1st time. Finally the moment has arrive, pass her the paper when she is about to alight, she took the paper and left without saying anything
It's been 6 days since i gave her the paper but i never got a reply, even it is a no, i really wish she could at least reply me that. Really don't know what the answer but guess the fate of the paper must be in the dustbin of the mrt station if i'm not wrong. People out there, it is really that hard just to reply even if u are not intrested, or would u be like her, no answer given. -
It seems like you've signed yourself up for a wait&guess game. No one will know where that piece of paper is except that girl. If you're so sincere in getting to know her, I pray she'll reply you soon. Kind of awkward I must say, passing her a piece of paper like that.
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i am sorry to say that when a girl is not interested in a guy, she will not bother to reply even a no. in your case if she replied with a no, you would have her number. that is not what she wants
cheer up, there are many other girls worthy of your love
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ya lor, not to pour cold water or what but maybe she juz threw away the paper at the dustbin nearby the escalator manOriginally posted by AaLviNn:It seems like you've signed yourself up for a wait&guess game. No one will know where that piece of paper is except that girl. If you're so sincere in getting to know her, I pray she'll reply you soon. Kind of awkward I must say, passing her a piece of paper like that.
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wad jasmine17 said may be true. she may not want to reply you so as u wun have her number. well, there may be another more suitable girl out there. its only a matter of time.
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actually i dun wish for much , just a reply will do, but what u said might be true , she may be scared i'm some kind of jerk who will distrub her if i get hold of her number. i do know there are nice gals are there but maybe she just the one with the X factor. But anyway i still respect her decision, think i'll be contend just seeing her from far apart if i have the chance.Originally posted by AaLviNn:wad jasmine17 said may be true. she may not want to reply you so as u wun have her number. well, there may be another more suitable girl out there. its only a matter of time. -
i suppose the ger werent interested in u.. dats y nv reply u lor. and besides,others say if the ger reply to u.. u got her num and will pester on to be her fren.. dats y she nv reply u.
if anycase in the future and u see her again on the train.. well mayb u could juz break the ice and say 1 "hi" to her.. and see wads her reaction lor. -
how exactly did u pass the note to her ?
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next time better to ask in person n nt tok.. forget abt it dude...
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Understand how you feel, I did that before also. All I wanted was just an answer. if the answer is 'No' also never mind. The waiting part was really unbearable.Originally posted by Run:actually i dun wish for much , just a reply will do, but what u said might be true , she may be scared i'm some kind of jerk who will distrub her if i get hold of her number. i do know there are nice gals are there but maybe she just the one with the X factor. But anyway i still respect her decision, think i'll be contend just seeing her from far apart if i have the chance.
Actually i felt hurt not because she might said no, but because she did not reply.
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she just don't want to give u the wrong idea bah,scare if she reply u then u will keep on calling her after u know her no.Originally posted by Run:Sunday was a normal day for me, booking in at night and it seems like a ordinary day. While taking the train saw this gal which deeply attracts me, the kind of love at first sight feeling. Deep in my heart i really wish i could know her, but basically it is just impossible for me to know her cause i have never ask a gal for numbers before. Maybe it is a lack of courage, what i can do is just see her drop off at her destination.
Weeks past, not sure whether it is fate or what, i manage to see her again at a shopping mall. Saw her working at a particular shop and was damm happy when i saw her cause i never thought i would ever see her again. Maybe i'm really a coward , i still do not even dare to talk to her, but i really wish i could know her.
Last week i took the same train with her again. Even though i'm reading a book, it just seems too hard to concentrate reading it while she is sitting oppsite. JUst took a few peep at her whenever she's not noticing. Really don't know what got into me that day, i decide to know her. But without the courage to tell her face to face all i can do is to write a paper stating that i'm really sincere to know her since the last time i took the same train with her and told her to sms me the result whether it is a "yes" or "no". After finishing writing, hope to pass her the paper when the moment she alight. THe time seems damm slow during that day, no matter what i do , i still feel extremely nervous, maybe it is because it is my 1st time. Finally the moment has arrive, pass her the paper when she is about to alight, she took the paper and left without saying anything
It's been 6 days since i gave her the paper but i never got a reply, even it is a no, i really wish she could at least reply me that. Really don't know what the answer but guess the fate of the paper must be in the dustbin of the mrt station if i'm not wrong. People out there, it is really that hard just to reply even if u are not intrested, or would u be like her, no answer given. -
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i went out with her at the same stop loh, then when's she about to go down the escalator, i pass her the note, she just look back, gave a stare and say"what", then turn around and go down the escalator.Originally posted by bismarck:how exactly did u pass the note to her ? -
To Run:
U mention that U met her working in one of the shops in a particular shopping centre, Why not look her up at her working place instead of waiting? -
takeit as uve been shut out. caryy on w yr life...
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That sound quite bad. Mine was in MRT, no way for her to run.Originally posted by Run:i went out with her at the same stop loh, then when's she about to go down the escalator, i pass her the note, she just look back, gave a stare and say"what", then turn around and go down the escalator.
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Originally posted by Run:Sunday was a normal day for me, booking in at night and it seems like a ordinary day. While taking the train saw this gal which deeply attracts me, the kind of love at first sight feeling. Deep in my heart i really wish i could know her, but basically it is just impossible for me to know her cause i have never ask a gal for numbers before. Maybe it is a lack of courage, what i can do is just see her drop off at her destination.
Weeks past, not sure whether it is fate or what, i manage to see her again at a shopping mall. Saw her working at a particular shop and was damm happy when i saw her cause i never thought i would ever see her again. Maybe i'm really a coward , i still do not even dare to talk to her, but i really wish i could know her.
Last week i took the same train with her again. Even though i'm reading a book, it just seems too hard to concentrate reading it while she is sitting oppsite. JUst took a few peep at her whenever she's not noticing. Really don't know what got into me that day, i decide to know her. But without the courage to tell her face to face all i can do is to write a paper stating that i'm really sincere to know her since the last time i took the same train with her and told her to sms me the result whether it is a "yes" or "no". After finishing writing, hope to pass her the paper when the moment she alight. THe time seems damm slow during that day, no matter what i do , i still feel extremely nervous, maybe it is because it is my 1st time. Finally the moment has arrive, pass her the paper when she is about to alight, she took the paper and left without saying anything
It's been 6 days since i gave her the paper but i never got a reply, even it is a no, i really wish she could at least reply me that. Really don't know what the answer but guess the fate of the paper must be in the dustbin of the mrt station if i'm not wrong. People out there, it is really that hard just to reply even if u are not intrested, or would u be like her, no answer given.
If you were to post before you do that, I would definitely tell you that your chance of failing would be as high as 95%. Why? Lets study this case in some details.
I) Lack of confidence - You want to approach the girl, either you do it with confidence (false/real) or you don't approach at all. This greatly increase your chance of knowing her.
II) Lack of communication and human touch - you pass the note to her at the criticial moment when she is about to leave. This totally cuts you off from any mode of communication and likely - you will fail because her mind will automatically shut you off even if she is single. E.g. Do you respond to the junk mail you have in your email? Chances are, your psychological automatic thought will delete right away even without clicking on the mail.
You want to approach a girl - don't be wishy washy. Do it properly, or don't. You are sincere, but you don't demonstrate it properly, you appear to be dubious. Train your self-confidence, learn to talk to girls while maintaining decent eye contact, work through your body language and your opening speech. This will increase your chance of succeeding.
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though it is only polite to reply u even if its a no... that's my view too that's why i hate it when friends dont reply... or when i cannot get to the bottom of some issues... but now i know there is no need to always get answers...
but i think she is afraid that even if she replies u a 'no' but u will have her number and u may be persist in trying to befriend her and this in my opinion will make her dislike u more and eventually she may need to change number just because she is being polite and replies a 'no' to u. so i guess she will not want to let herself be in such a situation.
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It's been 6 days since i gave her the paper but i never got a reply, even it is a no, i really wish she could at least reply me that. Really don't know what the answer but guess the fate of the paper must be in the dustbin of the mrt station if i'm not wrong. People out there, it is really that hard just to reply even if u are not intrested, or would u be like her, no answer given.
Sigh... these modern girls. -
The problem is that i don't think i want to bother her , think i know the answer already since there is no reply, think no point asking again, i'm scared if i look for her in her work place, she may have the wrong idea that i'm stalking her and i really do not wish to see her quit her job just to avoid me.Originally posted by bus:To Run:
U mention that U met her working in one of the shops in a particular shopping centre, Why not look her up at her working place instead of waiting? -
If U don;t try, U never know there might be a miracle happens even though the current situation is not in favour of U.Originally posted by Run:The problem is that i don't think i want to bother her , think i know the answer already since there is no reply, think no point asking again, i'm scared if i look for her in her work place, she may have the wrong idea that i'm stalking her and i really do not wish to see her quit her job just to avoid me.
U can go there, try to have a short chat with her to see how before U "call it a day" if thing really beyond rescue. -
just dont delibrately go look for her then... if fate allows u will meet her again
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Hmm, did you write your HP number wrongly ... ... I wonder if got "Turn Left Turn Right" version SG version.
No lah, joke aside, I dun think she will reply since it will give her HP number away. Just take it as a no, since its almost a week liao.
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Not sure whether got write wrong or not lah cause to nervous that day already, dun think i ever double-check it. But if i really write the number wrong right, think it is fate.Originally posted by sadsadguy:Hmm, did you write your HP number wrongly ... ... I wonder if got "Turn Left Turn Right" version SG version.
No lah, joke aside, I dun think she will reply since it will give her HP number away. Just take it as a no, since its almost a week liao.
Take care bro.