I feel so guilty ..
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haiz.. today just tick off my friend.. coz he was really way too childish and immature.. as a sec3 .. i think he still living in primary 3.. i tolerate him very long liao.. he always like to touch people things without permission.. and do all sort of immature , ridiculously silly things.. today i cannot take it any more and tick him off.. but he say its a way of communicating den i told him that he went over board.. in the end made both party angry and sad.. did i do the right thing for voicing out my opinion? Or should i continue tolerating his childish acts =/ [/code]
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tip off?
do u mean tick off? -
think u did was very correct.... dun nid to feel quilty about it.
if u never tick him off then he will keep thinking what he did was correct and will keep on doing it... -
By doing so, you'll be able to gain access to your innerself - Why bottle up your feelings just fearing that ppl might disagree with you. Voice out what's on yr mind so that he/she can understand your stand better and thus giving him/her the opportunity to do some reflection if the things you've said did make sense and is from a rational point of view.
cheers! -
maybe u could have explained to him nicely instead of scolding him... tat way you can still maintain the friendship...
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ya, u shldnt tick him off.. have u thought of his feelings? I mean everyone acts, talks & behave in different manners u see.
So if u cant get seems to be able to tolerant his actions, maybe u shld simply cast him out of ur life. Or tell him tt he shldnt be acting like a kid. -
Explain nicely to him first. If he stills anyhow touch you, then scold him until upside down.Originally posted by weidev:maybe u could have explained to him nicely instead of scolding him... tat way you can still maintain the friendship...
I hate people anyhow touch me. Yuck! -
Originally posted by DeathEdge:
Sorry read wrongly.
haiz.. today just tick off my friend.. coz he was really way too childish and immature.. as a sec3 .. i think he still living in primary 3.. i tolerate him very long liao.. he always like [b]to touch people things without permission.. and do all sort of immature , ridiculously silly things.. today i cannot take it any more and tick him off.. but he say its a way of communicating den i told him that he went over board.. in the end made both party angry and sad.. did i do the right thing for voicing out my opinion? Or should i continue tolerating his childish acts =/ [/code][/b]
I thought he anyhow touch people.
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mayb u should not haf scolded him..
try to appoarch him in a nicer way nxt time..(hope there wun b a nxt time,of cuz)
so in the end,he wun feel so hurt.. n u can get ur msg across..
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everybody has their own character so i don't think u can change him bah...just change yourself to adapt others loh....Originally posted by DeathEdge:haiz.. today just tick off my friend.. coz he was really way too childish and immature.. as a sec3 .. i think he still living in primary 3.. i tolerate him very long liao.. he always like to touch people things without permission.. and do all sort of immature , ridiculously silly things.. today i cannot take it any more and tick him off.. but he say its a way of communicating den i told him that he went over board.. in the end made both party angry and sad.. did i do the right thing for voicing out my opinion? Or should i continue tolerating his childish acts =/ [/code] -
too tactless...