how does a gal knows that her bf loves her? through wat ?
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hi gals , how do u gals know tat ur bf loves u ? through wat? and through any body contact?
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definitely not through body contact!
Through his thoughts his speech his actions.
To me, actions speaks louder then words.. so inorder for me to feel his love i need actions to prove it.. but it takes time. -
watever it is, try not test it to find out.
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watever it is, try not test it to find out.
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Hmm... Strange... Why this question?Originally posted by Wen^Chu:hi gals , how do u gals know tat ur bf loves u ? through wat? and through any body contact? -
not thru body contact. heart connectionOriginally posted by Wen^Chu:hi gals , how do u gals know tat ur bf loves u ? through wat? and through any body contact? -
1. He's willing to fight for u & stand up for u.
2. When he sees u wif snot dripping out from ur nose, he does Not recoil, instead, he wipes ur nose & kisses it.
3. He makes being wif him fun, juz like u do for him.
4. He smiles when u smile & cries when u cry, or @ least holds u close & plants a kiss on ur forehead, to make it all better.
5. He looks @ u tenderly, for absolutely NO reason @ all, he only wans to look @ the person he loves.
6. When u do somethg silly, he grinz & ruffles ur hair. Then teases u abt it.
7. When u hurt him (NOT cheating on him tho!!), it breaks his heart, but when u apologise & ask for forgiveness, he draws u close in an embrace.
There're many more, too many to list. But basically, these happen on a regular basis, Not only once in a while. That's when I noe, he loves me : )
RPOriginally posted by Wen^Chu:hi gals , how do u gals know tat ur bf loves u ? through wat? and through any body contact? -
not thru body contact la... if dat the case, he likes ur body not ur heart..
u will feel he is there for u lor.. mayb reply ur sms fast? chat with u daily.. ?
put u 1st rather den frens ? ( in a r/s dun forget fren, u nid dem 1 day)
showing u tender care.. -
Originally posted by www:
i'm a guy and i hope u dun mind me commenting.. but i agree with www cause i got real turned off by this girl whom i was with when she "tested" my love.. whatever it is.. it can't be tested..
watever it is, try not [b]test it to find out.[/b] -
sounds like someone's very very lucky.. can practically see RP beaming with joy... well, as a guy, i can tell u a few secrets:Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:1. He's willing to fight for u & stand up for u.
2. When he sees u wif snot dripping out from ur nose, he does Not recoil, instead, he wipes ur nose & kisses it.
3. He makes being wif him fun, juz like u do for him.
4. He smiles when u smile & cries when u cry, or @ least holds u close & plants a kiss on ur forehead, to make it all better.
5. He looks @ u tenderly, for absolutely NO reason @ all, he only wans to look @ the person he loves.
6. When u do somethg silly, he grinz & ruffles ur hair. Then teases u abt it.
7. When u hurt him (NOT cheating on him tho!!), it breaks his heart, but when u apologise & ask for forgiveness, he draws u close in an embrace.
There're many more, too many to list. But basically, these happen on a regular basis, Not only once in a while. That's when I noe, he loves me : )
RP
1) when your guy is out with you on sat/sun nights just to go on mindless shopping trips esp if he's a soccer fan
2) if he's in the army, u suddenly find him being with you almost on every weekend
3) the way he goes out of the way just to make sure u're happy...
4) the things he does just to see 'THAT' smile on your face..
other then that.. why are u really asking this? is your bf not showing it to u? -
mayb wanna get our opinion to prove wad she is feeling ba.
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testing is plain stupidity.Originally posted by Farmer Brown:i'm a guy and i hope u dun mind me commenting.. but i agree with www cause i got real turned off by this girl whom i was with when she "tested" my love.. whatever it is.. it can't be tested..
and it just shows how not confident the girl is about the relationship and most importantly, about HERSELF... that is a shame -
EYE?Originally posted by Wen^Chu:hi gals , how do u gals know tat ur bf loves u ? through wat? and through any body contact? -
Farmer Brown : )
Yesh, I'm a v. contented girl : ) Hehehe, on basketball days tho, I'll accompany him to the court, cosh he really likes playing
BUT!!! Whenever I feel upset or depressed, he "automatically" tells his frens he wun be playing.
We actually enjoy shopping together, for his thgs & mine It's fun getting the other's opinion And our philosophy is tt, whilst others may think wat we're wearing isn't nice (thankfully, it's seldom hehehe ), as long as we lurrve it, it's okie : )
He goes outta his way to make me happee, most definitely : ) Cosh we were best frens (we still r, btw), we knew the stakes were high when we entered into a r'ship. But we pledged to try our best to make the other happee always : )
YESH!!! He does thgs juz to see my face light up Even tho the moment we meet, my face lights up oredi
RPOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:sounds like someone's very very lucky.. can practically see RP beaming with joy... well, as a guy, i can tell u a few secrets:
1) when your guy is out with you on sat/sun nights just to go on mindless shopping trips esp if he's a soccer fan
2) if he's in the army, u suddenly find him being with you almost on every weekend
3) the way he goes out of the way just to make sure u're happy...
4) the things he does just to see 'THAT' smile on your face..
other then that.. why are u really asking this? is your bf not showing it to u? -
ermz...im a guy,i go ask my gf 1st...Originally posted by Wen^Chu:hi gals , how do u gals know tat ur bf loves u ? through wat? and through any body contact?
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Aiyah, u can always tell us how u noe tt ur gf loves u mahhh...
RPOriginally posted by Danisdead101times:ermz...im a guy,i go ask my gf 1st... -
Body contact doesn't necessarily hafta haf sexual connotations : )
It cld mean planting a kiss on ur lips, or on ur forehead, OR cuddling/snuggling together in front of the TV.
Touch is v. impt in a r'ship, it's oso partly an expression of love, is it Not?
Doesn't necessarily hafta mean sex......
RPOriginally posted by WrX_STi:not thru body contact la... if dat the case, he likes ur body not ur heart..
u will feel he is there for u lor.. mayb reply ur sms fast? chat with u daily.. ?
put u 1st rather den frens ? ( in a r/s dun forget fren, u nid dem 1 day)
showing u tender care.. -
Oh dear...
Perhaps she felt insecure? I learnt tho, tt straight out asking is always better than testing a guy's love : ) AND, Not to mention, noting all those little thgs he does...
RPOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:i'm a guy and i hope u dun mind me commenting.. but i agree with www cause i got real turned off by this girl whom i was with when she "tested" my love.. whatever it is.. it can't be tested.. -
actions like buying flowers, which u didn't appreciate?Originally posted by bjork:definitely not through body contact!
Through his thoughts his speech his actions.
To me, actions speaks louder then words.. so inorder for me to feel his love i need actions to prove it.. but it takes time.
abit contradicting... oh well...
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Holding ur hand, kissing ur forehead, caressing ur cheek, doesn't make u feel loved ah?
Then No body contact how?
Btw, I'm juz teasing hor Dun get angry
RPOriginally posted by bjork:definitely not through body contact!
Through his thoughts his speech his actions.
To me, actions speaks louder then words.. so inorder for me to feel his love i need actions to prove it.. but it takes time. -
Farmer Brown, I din ask this qn Somebody else asked it, so I'm ans'g based on wat has happened to me
It'd be nice if ev. body enjoys being loved. There need Not be any grand gestures of love, cosh when u love someone, u find romance in the simplest of actions : )
RPOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:other then that.. why are u really asking this? is your bf not showing it to u? -
reality check.Originally posted by JeweL81:testing is plain stupidity.
and it just shows how not confident the girl is about the relationship and most importantly, about HERSELF... that is a shame
if everyone's moral was upright, i'd say its easy to trust each other.
but reality is this.. everyone of us are screwed up someway or another. tts why there are break ups.
testing isn't plain stupidity. its putting to action the phrase "trust is earned, and built upon, not given"
before u protest against the girl's insecurity.. think abt it.. wtf have you done to deserve her blind faith in you
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DumbDumb: If ev. one's moral was upright, I'd say it's easy to trust each other.
RP sez: Actually, it oso does depend on how secure 1 is in the r'ship. If a person has been cheated on before, there cld be a certain degree of paranoia : ) It's understandable. But it doesn't mean u hafta test the person u're wif now, it isn't fair to him/her, cosh u're judging him/her to be an a**hole/biotch juz like ur ex.
DumbDumb: But reality is this... Everyone of us is screwed up some way or another. That's why there r breakups.
RP sez: True, we're all Not perfect. But I'd sez it's more abt wat an indiv. can accept, & to wat degree the fault is. Breakups occur when the indivs can't accept the faults in their partners (which doesn't mean they're wrong, it's juz how life is).
DumbDumb: Testing isn't plain stupidity, it's putting to action the phrase "trust is earned & built upon, Not given".
RP sez: True, trust is earned. But u dun hafta be tested to earn it.
DumbDumb: Before u protest against the girl's insecurity, think abt it, wtf have u done to deserve her blind faith in u.
RP sez: Trust is built over time, blind faith may be a tad naive. But testing someone wld show doubt in tt person's trustworthiness & integrity. Doesn't tt person haf the right to feel hurt? U dun hafta test a person's trustworthiness in order to noe tt the person is trustworthy. Thru ups & downs, life's experiences, thgs u share together, u'll noe if tt person's reliable or Not.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:reality check.
if everyone's moral was upright, i'd say its easy to trust each other.
but reality is this.. everyone of us are screwed up someway or another. tts why there are break ups.
testing isn't plain stupidity. its putting to action the phrase "trust is earned, and built upon, not given"
before u protest against the girl's insecurity.. think abt it.. wtf have you done to deserve her blind faith in you -
some girls are just so in secure about anything at all. SOmetimes, it doesn't have to be what the guy has done.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:reality check.
if everyone's moral was upright, i'd say its easy to trust each other.
but reality is this.. everyone of us are screwed up someway or another. tts why there are break ups.
testing isn't plain stupidity. its putting to action the phrase "trust is earned, and built upon, not given"
before u protest against the girl's insecurity.. think abt it.. wtf have you done to deserve her blind faith in you
There is no reason to test a relationship.
ALways COMMUNICATE -
agree.... x2Originally posted by JeweL81:some girls are just so in secure about anything at all. SOmetimes, it doesn't have to be what the guy has done.
There is no reason to test a relationship.
ALways COMMUNICATE
1stly...the feeling of insecurity leads to doubts. then communication problems will arise.