something wrong lehz....
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I used to be good friends with this girl and now after I told her that I liked her,I don't seem to have anything to talk to her about
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ur problem is the two of you have become too concious about u liking her. She's worried you'll lead her on and u're worried she'll be scared off.. in the end.. i believe both of u dun wanna lose the friendship irregardles of feelings of romance.. so i would advice the both of u to just put how u feel abt this whole arrangement on the table and talk about it. let her know that u might have feelings for her but u would rather have her as a friend then lose her thru wooing her. Makes sense? good luck..
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Hmm... Make sense...Originally posted by Farmer Brown:ur problem is the two of you have become too concious about u liking her. She's worried you'll lead her on and u're worried she'll be scared off.. in the end.. i believe both of u dun wanna lose the friendship irregardles of feelings of romance.. so i would advice the both of u to just put how u feel abt this whole arrangement on the table and talk about it. let her know that u might have feelings for her but u would rather have her as a friend then lose her thru wooing her. Makes sense? good luck..
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now both of us don't talk anymore,we only sms but we seem to be moving even further apart
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Maybe u 2 do not what to expect nor do by your sudden revelation....that's explains the lack of conversation....
At this point of time...what happens next would most prob fall back on how sturdy the foundation of your frienship has been laid...
To revert back to platonic frenz would take time provided the bond of your friendship is able to endure this experience...to proceed further....depends entirely on how she feels...
Until the time when both of u stop feeling the awakwardness of this experience...normal conversation will not resume... -
Honeymoon period is officially over...Originally posted by StarPuppy:I used to be good friends with this girl and now after I told her that I liked her,I don't seem to have anything to talk to her about
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Nothing like a bit of good ol' hayseed wisdom from the farm!Originally posted by Farmer Brown:ur problem is the two of you have become too concious about u liking her. She's worried you'll lead her on and u're worried she'll be scared off.. in the end.. i believe both of u dun wanna lose the friendship irregardles of feelings of romance.. so i would advice the both of u to just put how u feel abt this whole arrangement on the table and talk about it. let her know that u might have feelings for her but u would rather have her as a friend then lose her thru wooing her. Makes sense? good luck..
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u flatter me.. hahahaOriginally posted by Gedanken:Nothing like a bit of good ol' hayseed wisdom from the farm! -
u flatter me.. hahaha.. but really.. if u two are moving apart.. i think its time u guys embrace the issue..Originally posted by Gedanken:Nothing like a bit of good ol' hayseed wisdom from the farm! -
I assume that you're addressing StarPuppy here - my girlfriend and I have a very good thing going and we both know it.Originally posted by Farmer Brown:if u two are moving apart.. i think its time u guys embrace the issue.. -
Here is the story
We used to be classmates and then we didn't know each other very well and her friends some happen to be my primary classmates and "she",her friends and I become one group,good friends and since we looked such like a couple,(hey tall and tall which no one can win in height)The class kept teasing us about it and of course we didn't mind...so I often have walk past her house to take MRT back to my home in Bishan.so I sort of "send" her home...Time went and I sorta like her...and 5 months ago,I confessed and we been arguing over small things and even we did clear arguements out,we are still not talking to each other...I seem to dislike her from the surface but I still care about her....why do I act this way?
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Barring any further information, Farmer Brown seems to have his finger on the pulse here.
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er... my england not very powerful... does that mean my point sticks out the most??Originally posted by Gedanken:Barring any further information, Farmer Brown seems to have his finger on the pulse here. -
Aiyah, pai seh! Didn't know your engrand not very powderful!
Having your "finger on the pulse" means that you have an accurate understanding of the situation. -
aiyah.. liao kai liao... its not easy learning good english out here on the farm when all u have are talking pigs.. (they're from belgium so their english isn't any good)
anyway.. u can say that i've got extremely good first hand experience to be able to share it with u guys.. -
aiyah.. liao kai liao... its not easy learning good english out here on the farm when all u have are talking pigs.. (they're from belgium so their english isn't any good)
anyway.. u can say that i've got extremely good first hand experience to be able to share it with u guys.. -
wow...well.. obviously u still have not given up on her but u've learnt to see past her surface..this is something that most ppl forget.. they argue so often with each other they forget to see the beauty inside that was what got them together..Originally posted by StarPuppy:Here is the story
We used to be classmates and then we didn't know each other very well and her friends some happen to be my primary classmates and "she",her friends and I become one group,good friends and since we looked such like a couple,(hey tall and tall which no one can win in height)The class kept teasing us about it and of course we didn't mind...so I often have walk past her house to take MRT back to my home in Bishan.so I sort of "send" her home...Time went and I sorta like her...and 5 months ago,I confessed and we been arguing over small things and even we did clear arguements out,we are still not talking to each other...I seem to dislike her from the surface but I still care about her....why do I act this way?
well.. if anything ever develops between the two of u, just don't forget to see past the surface...
and i don't think i've got any solid advice for you.. just hang on i guess.. only time can tell right bruddeR? -
seems to be the same problem as lovestruck...Originally posted by StarPuppy:I used to be good friends with this girl and now after I told her that I liked her,I don't seem to have anything to talk to her about
both end up same case.. -
*grinz* Lemme tell u a story (damn I sound like a Granny)
It's true, btw...
I haf a pact wif some of my closest guy frens, tt No matter if either party confesses they like me or I like them, we'll still treat each other the same.
A few did, & I kept the pact. We remain frens to this v. day & they got married too (Not to me, of cosh), & I'm so happee for them : ) A few pushed too hard, & I disappeared for awhile, to let them move on, & after some time, I contacted them again.
Then, my best fren told me. I treated him the same for q. some time : ) Eventually, we got together
Anywayz, to cut a lor sor story short:
If ur frenship is strong enuff, u'll be treated the same. OR, the girl might feel tt she needs to give u time to get over it, & eventually, after tt, she'll feel comfy enuff to resume tt level of closeness u guys used to share?
Give her time : )
RPOriginally posted by StarPuppy:now both of us don't talk anymore,we only sms but we seem to be moving even further apart -
yea...i agree wit Rp jie,just give her some time bah...Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:*grinz* Lemme tell u a story (damn I sound like a Granny)
It's true, btw...
I haf a pact wif some of my closest guy frens, tt No matter if either party confesses they like me or I like them, we'll still treat each other the same.
A few did, & I kept the pact. We remain frens to this v. day & they got married too (Not to me, of cosh), & I'm so happee for them : ) A few pushed too hard, & I disappeared for awhile, to let them move on, & after some time, I contacted them again.
Then, my best fren told me. I treated him the same for q. some time : ) Eventually, we got together
Anywayz, to cut a lor sor story short:
If ur frenship is strong enuff, u'll be treated the same. OR, the girl might feel tt she needs to give u time to get over it, & eventually, after tt, she'll feel comfy enuff to resume tt level of closeness u guys used to share?
Give her time : )
RP