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How do people who just break up can become friends soon? Share your experiences? I try to be friends but i keep having the thoughts of patching someday, hoping someday it will happen although i try not to but its hard because i'm still missing him.
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its diff for me.. and it onli work out in 1 of my r/s.. and the r/s of dem we totally nv contact at all..
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it takes 2 hands to clap... so wat the other party feels or wants matters in ensuring that the r/s will be friends again
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agree... i can but another party cannot..Originally posted by sgboy2004:it takes 2 hands to clap... so wat the other party feels or wants matters in ensuring that the r/s will be friends again -
Originally posted by Sunshine08:How do people who just break up can become friends soon? Share your experiences? I try to be friends but i keep having the thoughts of patching someday, hoping someday it will happen although i try not to but its hard because i'm still missing him.
There is only one possibility for this scenario to happen (Break up and become friends soon) - when both of them had a mutual communicated break. Usually, this relationship had went on for a decent period of time and no-foul play happened in the relationship. Both acknowledge that the relationship had to end for personal and specific reasons and decide upon the mutually agreed fate.
As long as you habour the thoughts highlighted in red above - usually, you won't be able to achieve true platonic friendship. This is what you call love's magnetic pull that will influence you and draw to its side. Unless you have good emotional control, its difficult to hang away from love's pull.
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im having the same problem as u..Originally posted by Sunshine08:How do people who just break up can become friends soon? Share your experiences? I try to be friends but i keep having the thoughts of patching someday, hoping someday it will happen although i try not to but its hard because i'm still missing him.
it has been two years.. but i try to keep a distance from him.. on the hand there is still contact between us...
its hard.. but gotta try..
i juz dun like to live in miserable n sad world.. -
Tia,
We can never haf ev. thg we wan : ) Juz make the most of wat u haf... Try to move on, No matter how difficult, & u'll find The One 1 day... Hang on to tt thot...
When u look on the bright side of life, it wun be miserable...
RPOriginally posted by tia:im having the same problem as u..
it has been two years.. but i try to keep a distance from him.. on the hand there is still contact between us...
its hard.. but gotta try..
i juz dun like to live in miserable n sad world.. -
Dis all is shun qi zi ran one... Some wil, some wont...Originally posted by Sunshine08:How do people who just break up can become friends soon? Share your experiences? I try to be friends but i keep having the thoughts of patching someday, hoping someday it will happen although i try not to but its hard because i'm still missing him.