Different Views

• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 06:12

  Hiyah folks : )
  
  Somebody asked me this qn, "Does ur bf mind u tokking to guys online? Hope this doesn't affect ur r'ship".
  
  Now, I'm Not being sarcastic, this is juz somethg I'm gonna share wif ev. body cosh it's interesting : )
  
  1st of all, lemme ans the qn & state it v. clearly here. I DO haf guy frens. If my guy doesn't mind me tokking face-to-face wif my guy frens, & even lets me hang out wif them, why wld he be the least bothered abt me tokking to guys online?
  
  2ndly, my guy was, & still is, my best fren in the world. We haf a level of trust in each other. He has more opportunities than I do to get to noe flirtatious girls cosh he works in the tourism indy. When pple r on holiday, wat do they think of? Work? No, fun But cosh I noe him well enuff, I haf No worries. Wld rather trust him than bombard him ev. day wif, "Are u cheating on me?!?!?!??!" That wld drive him away for sure *laffs*
  
  3rdly, I'm Not flirting here, I'm juz a chatty person by nature, & he noes it. He oso noes I like to help others, I juz can't leave pple in the lurch. Does he mind it? No. In fact, tt's partly why he loves me.
  
  4thly, if either of us does anythg to jeopardise this r'ship, we risk Not only losing somebody we love, we oso stand to lose our best fren, our rock... The stakes r high here, we're determined to make thgs work, & tt, involves trusting each other.
  
  5thly, my guy isn't kept in the dark abt my activities. In fact, I tell him abt wat has happened. If he's concerned, he'll ask & I'll tell. There's Nothg to hide, cosh we din do tt when we were best frens, & all the more so now.
  
  Last but Not least, IF my guy DID/DOES show any level of discomfort, I wld stop immediately. That's how impt he is to me. We go out in a grp wif girls & guys ard.
  
  HOWEVER, different strokes for different folks. I can understand some pple prefer Not to let their gfs/bfs tok to anybody of the opposite gender.
  
  For us, it's juz Not like tt : )
  
  Clear now, whoever u r??? : )
  
  RP
• tranquilice

  9 Feb 04, 06:15

  Excellent explanation.
• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 06:18

  Get it out in the open mah
  
  So shd there be another qn like tt, can ask him/her to refer to "Aunt Agony/Different Views" *laffs*
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by tranquilice:

  Excellent explanation.

• tranquilice

  9 Feb 04, 06:20

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  Get it out in the open mah
  
  So shd there be another qn like tt, can ask him/her to refer to "Aunt Agony/Different Views" *laffs*
  
  RP
  
  

  Good idea.
  
• True_Xerion

  9 Feb 04, 06:24

  what a weird question to ask of u lol RP, i mean, it's not like u're chatting in sgfetishforums.com or something ..... some guys are too insecure abt their existing r/s i think .... so sad
• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 06:31

  Well, I think it's interesting, & it's gd to share opinions : )
  
  For some, it takes time to dev. a comfy level of trust, for others, it was oredi there, starting wif a solid frenship & built over time.
  
  For some, it takes yrs to grow & learn to settle down (I did), for others, they oredi knew how to settle down since young.
  
  So I think it's interesting to haf experiences to share, Not necessarily a bad thg *grinz*
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by True_Xerion:

  what a weird question to ask of u lol RP, i mean, it's not like u're chatting in sgfetishforums.com or something ..... some guys are too insecure abt their existing r/s i think .... so sad

• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 06:32

  Or u can sez I'm plain lazy to type out the same response 1,000x
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by tranquilice:

  Good idea.
  

• tranquilice

  9 Feb 04, 06:37

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  Or u can sez I'm plain lazy to type out the same response 1,000x
  
  RP
  
  

  
• True_Xerion

  9 Feb 04, 06:39

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  Or u can sez I'm plain lazy to type out the same response 1,000x
  
  RP
  
  

  ask one of the mods to make this thread into a sticky!
• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 06:44

  I dunno how to do tt leh...
  
  Somemore, dunno the mods well (in fact, I probably dunno them @ all ).
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by True_Xerion:

  ask one of the mods to make this thread into a sticky!

• True_Xerion

  9 Feb 04, 06:51

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  I dunno how to do tt leh...
  
  Somemore, dunno the mods well (in fact, I probably dunno them @ all ).
  
  RP
  
  

  Ask FireIce or send a PM lor
• tranquilice

  9 Feb 04, 06:57

  Originally posted by True_Xerion:

  Ask FireIce or send a PM lor

  Devil1976
• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 06:59

  Okieeeeeeeee
  
  Thanx leh Then saves me all the trouble of typing until dunno like wat
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by True_Xerion:

  Ask FireIce or send a PM lor

• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 07:00

  Wah, I'm really touched leh : )
  
  U guys r like my frens, whenever I need help, I noe they'll be ard : )
  
  I'm really lucky, & this time, I'm Not joking/playing : )
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by tranquilice:

  Devil1976

• True_Xerion

  9 Feb 04, 07:01

  nitez RP & Tranq
  
  7am leow, been online too long lol, muz go breathe some real world air, bye n be safe!
• tranquilice

  9 Feb 04, 07:02

  Originally posted by True_Xerion:

  nitez RP & Tranq
  
  7am leow, been online too long lol, muz go breathe some real world air, bye n be safe!

  Nitez True Xerion.
• tranquilice

  9 Feb 04, 07:03

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  Wah, I'm really touched leh : )
  
  U guys r like my frens, whenever I need help, I noe they'll be ard : )
  
  I'm really lucky, & this time, I'm Not joking/playing : )
  
  RP
  
  

  It's my pleasure.
• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 07:08

  Ohmigawd, u're truly nocturnal
  
  Sweet dreams : )
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by True_Xerion:

  nitez RP & Tranq
  
  7am leow, been online too long lol, muz go breathe some real world air, bye n be safe!

• Ah Ma

  9 Feb 04, 08:45

  u gt bf
  
  me no chance le
  
  /me go bang wall
• RainbowPrincess

  9 Feb 04, 08:53

  Harlow Ah Ma!!!
  
  U can always accept me as ur god-granddaughter mah
  
  I'm always willing to listen to grandmother stories, v. interesting
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by Ah Ma:

  u gt bf
  
  me no chance le
  
  /me go bang wall

• Farmer Brown

  9 Feb 04, 20:21

  wah where to find char bor like that.. give it up for the energizer bunny!! lol...
  
  
• RainbowPrincess

  10 Feb 04, 07:44

  Farmer Brown, u v. cheem leh.
  
  Wat Energiser Bunny?!
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  wah where to find char bor like that.. give it up for the energizer bunny!! lol...
  
  

• Farmer Brown

  10 Feb 04, 20:27

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  Farmer Brown, u v. cheem leh.
  
  Wat Energiser Bunny?!
  
  RP
  
  

  keeps going on and on and on and on...
  
  eh wait.. is it energiser bunny or duracell bunny?? hmmmm
• RainbowPrincess

  11 Feb 04, 12:29

  On the day when there's No sad person to help, on the day Nobody needs a listening ear, on the day Nobody needs a little cheer, then tt's the day RP disappears
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by Farmer Brown:

  keeps going on and on and on and on...
  
  eh wait.. is it energiser bunny or duracell bunny?? hmmmm

• Farmer Brown

  11 Feb 04, 18:48

  Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:

  On the day when there's No sad person to help, on the day Nobody needs a listening ear, on the day Nobody needs a little cheer, then tt's the day RP disappears
  
  RP
  
  

  then good la.. RP's never gonna disappear..she's just going to go on and on and on and on and on...hmmjust a thought.. what if the ever optimistic EB has problems.. will she share them with us????