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Majority of the hormone-ranging teenage boys see porn.Its is ok??As girlfriends should we just close one eye just because we r supposed to "Let boys be boys??" Just because guys claim to be more visual...I certainly don't think so.My view on guys surfing porn stuff is like mentally cheating.They claim that at times they have needs and to sastify their needs they need some visual effects (porn).If guys could see it from another point of view.Imagine their girlfriends viewing obscene pictures of naked guys.How would they feel???? So in my opinion,I TOTALLY OBJECT to guys viewing porn & if the guy truly loves his girlfriend,he would have no problem in stopping this bad habit...wats ur view???
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clap clap clap!!!Originally posted by LiL^Jap^Doll:Majority of the hormone-ranging teenage boys see porn.Its is ok??As girlfriends should we just close one eye just because we r supposed to "Let boys be boys??" Just because guys claim to be more visual...I certainly don't think so.My view on guys surfing porn stuff is like mentally cheating.They claim that at times they have needs and to sastify their needs they need some visual effects (porn).If guys could see it from another point of view.Imagine their girlfriends viewing obscene pictures of naked guys.How would they feel???? So in my opinion,I TOTALLY OBJECT to guys viewing porn & if the guy truly loves his girlfriend,he would have no problem in stopping this bad habit...wats ur view???
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i neber disallow my bf to watch...im bery liberal one..it is perfectly normal...
as long as he dun try to try those stunts on me can liao...
kakakakkakaka...
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dun let him watch lar..
it's bad.
It's so gross anyway...
But depends...waithe dun watch then he get hungry for you. (lol)
Eh didn't know you were a gal.. -
leave him be, just don't let u find out can liao..
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oh..i think i wun really disallow cos i think it's his right but i dun like it either.. he will surely get more horny upon over exposure one mah, then i surely be in trouble.. haha..but i noe my bf doesnt surf for porns except that he reads FHM which i read too!!!
FI: u sure u liberal? u sound dominating.. haha.. -
Hmm...to me ney.. I find it's normal lor... as long as he dun try the stunts & dun expect me to be the same as the female lead can liao lor... =) but 1 thing i will start to dislike & object only when my bf overdo the urge to watch it... =)
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I guess a little is ok, but if it's extreme then it's bad. Actually, if the girl restricts too much. The guy will still do it anyway as long as he's not caught by you. heehee...
Anyway, i find porn vulgar, at times funny, most times boring. It's up to you really. If you want to restrict him, go ahead but he may really resent you later on. Other than that, if the guy is worth his salt and really in love. He wouldn't need the visual stimulation anyway.... ah well. Another time. -
this is just my point of view.Because to ME (Yeah, Me doesnt represent the whole of femaledom)...I find it unacceptable.And trust me,its worst then drugs,guys easily get hooked.Research had shown that 3 out of 4 gals are molested coz of porn influences.There was this guy who raped this woman coz he saw it in porno stuff & wanted to "EXPERIENCE WHAT'S ITS LIKE"....THATS LAME PURE BULL-SHIT!!!!! BTW,im NOT SAYING that EVERY1 who surfs porn turns into a sex-starved rapist!!Porn corrupts the mind ... WHY SHOULD WE LET GUYS DO JUST B'COZ THEY CALL IT A "BOY THING"?!?!? Are we gals going 2 just close one eye & shut up??? NO!!! (Well,at least 4 me !!)U never know...first porn then next prostitutes???? Besides the pictures of naked girls in the websites have been touched up & edited..they look so perfect,wat if he starts comparing u with a porn star??? (ok,I DUN MEAN ALL guys do that!!!)I'm just saying wat if....anyway,there r many disavantages of letting him c naked bimbos prancing around naked or engaged in sex...Im tooo lazy 2 list all for now.... I would like 2 hear more from guys on their opinions....BTW,ALL WRITTEN ABOVE IS MY PERSONAL VIEW....
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Relax a bit LilJapDoll...why the worked up? U have state a few points that is accurate but then, u can't totally extract it away from the guys..can only say moderate bah... =)
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Hahaha... a feisty one! Anyway, it's good you understand and feel about all these. Explain to your bf about porn. I'm anti-molesters, anti-perverts too but i don't go out and gunned them down. They are being themselves.Originally posted by LiL^Jap^Doll:this is just my point of view.Because to ME (Yeah, Me doesnt represent the whole of femaledom)...I find it unacceptable.And trust me,its worst then drugs,guys easily get hooked.Research had shown that 3 out of 4 gals are molested coz of porn influences.There was this guy who raped this woman coz he saw it in porno stuff & wanted to "EXPERIENCE WHAT'S ITS LIKE"....THATS LAME PURE BULL-SHIT!!!!! BTW,im NOT SAYING that EVERY1 who surfs porn turns into a sex-starved rapist!!Porn corrupts the mind ... WHY SHOULD WE LET GUYS DO JUST B'COZ THEY CALL IT A "BOY THING"?!?!? Are we gals going 2 just close one eye & shut up??? NO!!! (Well,at least 4 me !!)U never know...first porn then next prostitutes???? Besides the pictures of naked girls in the websites have been touched up & edited..they look so perfect,wat if he starts comparing u with a porn star??? (ok,I DUN MEAN ALL guys do that!!!)I'm just saying wat if....anyway,there r many disavantages of letting him c naked bimbos prancing around naked or engaged in sex...Im tooo lazy 2 list all for now.... I would like 2 hear more from guys on their opinions....BTW,ALL WRITTEN ABOVE IS MY PERSONAL VIEW....
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Truth to be said, you're right certain groups of people cannot control themselves and want to go out and experience it. Personally, i think it's more of an in-born psychology problem. Porn is the catalyst that convert them into full-time perverts... not all though. For each pervert there are some who are not. That's the way it is and that's the way it will be even long after we're gone. We cannot change everything.
Well, i'm also not saying that you're wrong so don't get worked up. My family trusts and understands me... my sister always tell me that it's all right but don't go and do something stupid and fool around. If your bf's not the kind to be trusted then watch over him, explain these things to him and if he's matured enough... He'll understand. Otherwise... -
Hey pple,im NOT WORKED UP!!!This is a forum..so i tot i'll just openly express my views on pornography...I just want to get my message across,i cant stop porno from getting ard the world or wat.But I just wanna share what I think here...Pls dun get the WRONG IDEA...im NOT WORKED UP!!
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Better the guy just view porn than going geylang to get his fill,ahaah
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sure ant???Originally posted by FireIce:i neber disallow my bf to watch...im bery liberal one..it is perfectly normal...
as long as he dun try to try those stunts on me can liao...
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pls lah...woa lao..if he wanna see thn let it be...unless u wan him to go hunting for a sex deprived 19yrold slut wif 2 kids... u will never noe...
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seriously speaking...i tink it's fine lor.. for wat reason they wan to watch... widen their "knowledge",curious, excitement etc..all depends on the individual.
but being obsessed wif it is pervertic..and cannot be tolerated. The onli thing dat disgusts me is why do guys watch liao, attain certain height of excitement and then "do it yourself" .....jus feels so sicko.
Lame excuse of "relieving urself" -
so-des-ne...well, ur objective is really clear & meaningful...this is a very good debative subject to be discuss..Originally posted by LiL^Jap^Doll:Hey pple,im NOT WORKED UP!!!This is a forum..so i tot i'll just openly express my views on pornography...I just want to get my message across,i cant stop porno from getting ard the world or wat.But I just wanna share what I think here...Pls dun get the WRONG IDEA...im NOT WORKED UP!!
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Most of the ppl knows this kind of things got to be controlled..there shouldn't be any extreme end doings.
However, when I read abt those sexually abuse cases, I do have the urge to go up to the culprit to give him/her 1 BIG tight slap & shove the culprit hard. If possible, take his brains out & throw it away.. -
u r rite gals...i have a fren...he watch 2 much porn and he can't get the feeling so he rape hi maid.....he was a sec 2 tat time...it also depends on how the person tink after surfing porn or watch.....u can't expect every guy here in the world dun watch porn....let say if the guy loong long time watch porn is to relax himself it ok...every mother son watch porn except those retared...btw watching porn 9 9 1 ci is ok...it can relieve stress for them...but i stress do not watch porn 2 much..u be addicted...and u will do wat the vcd shows...
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Hey pple who say porn is better den lettin ur guy go find prostitutes or sluts...TATS WRONG!!!!...its abt self-control ok???Its all in e mind...U tink u need 2 relieve urself wif porn,den u have 2 ,coz ur brain says so!!!....basically,its BAD....ITS ADDICTIVE!!!! Watch but fine...watch ur limits 2......U guys tink its fine but if ur girlfrenz r upset over it....b nice & hav a heart 2 heart tok....IF PORN WRECKS UR RELATIONSHIP,IT AINT WORTH IT!!!!
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hey ... why get so worked up about this matter ? I'm sure it was discussed internationally and they found that it was normal for guys to go surf porn ... otherwise they would have closed down all sex sites already. Besides ... surely it's not that bad ? One can fantasise when surfing porn, but so long he can exercise enough self-control to stop himself from doing all those stuff in real life, i think it's all right.
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URGH! why u pple always tink im worked up...i sound worked up but im not...in fact,im typing very calmly.....i'll remain calm as long my boi doesnt surf porn... normal or not normal tats ur view...im just highlighting stuff so gals who dun lk their guys c porn can hav a say!!At least i give them points 2 agrue it out wif their guys if he givs lame crap like..."Oh honey,but its a guy thing,every1 does it.." yeah rite!
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Im NOT worked up...Im NOT worked up... okok???Get it???
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LiLJapDoll....we all not with u to see u type ley...we only can READ wat u have type...u stand in our position & see whether ppl will mistake u work up or not lah...Tian ah...Originally posted by LiL^Jap^Doll:Im NOT worked up...Im NOT worked up... okok???Get it??? -
Porn is addictive and it's ok to watch porn,but watch your limits?But you mention you totall object to guys watching porn.So which is which now?Watching with limits or don't watch at all?eheheOriginally posted by LiL^Jap^Doll:Hey pple who say porn is better den lettin ur guy go find prostitutes or sluts...TATS WRONG!!!!...its abt self-control ok???Its all in e mind...U tink u need 2 relieve urself wif porn,den u have 2 ,coz ur brain says so!!!....basically,its BAD....ITS ADDICTIVE!!!! Watch but fine...watch ur limits 2......U guys tink its fine but if ur girlfrenz r upset over it....b nice & hav a heart 2 heart tok....IF PORN WRECKS UR RELATIONSHIP,IT AINT WORTH IT!!!!
[This message has been edited by LiL^Jap^Doll (edited 22 November 2001).]
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