do i still love her?
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just now my ex called me n ask me to send her home. because she didnt sound too ok on the phone i went down to find her.
upon reaching the place, i saw her sitting on the kerb, drunk.
dunno y my heart kinda sink when i see her in that state... n when i helped her up, i got this strange feeling.
on the journey home, we didnt say a single word. feels kind of awkward.
when we reached her place, i send her up to her unit. but i have this reluntant feeling to leave. when i looked into her eyes again i got the kind of feelings we once had.
now that i'm home i m still thinkin of her. do i still love her? or is it juz pity? -
think the feeling will still be there one lor...especially if the two of you just broken up.
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it doesnt matter how long you 2 have broke up...
can be 6 months... 2 years or 4 years...
somewhere in your heart the feelings for each other is still there...
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How come she's drunk?Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:just now my ex called me n ask me to send her home. because she didnt sound too ok on the phone i went down to find her.
upon reaching the place, i saw her sitting on the kerb, drunk.
dunno y my heart kinda sink when i see her in that state... n when i helped her up, i got this strange feeling.
on the journey home, we didnt say a single word. feels kind of awkward.
when we reached her place, i send her up to her unit. but i have this reluntant feeling to leave. when i looked into her eyes again i got the kind of feelings we once had.
now that i'm home i m still thinkin of her. do i still love her? or is it juz pity?
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Haiz
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Originally posted by GHoST_18:it doesnt matter how long you 2 have broke up...
can be 6 months... 2 years or 4 years...
somewhere in your heart the feelings for each other is still there... very true..
She might be hiding in one dark corner of ur heart. -
Version 1.1,
The reluctance to leave, & the feelings u haf when u touched her (to help her up) & looked into her eyes point to u still having feelings for her.
It cld be love, it cld be old feelings tt u haven't let go of.
But wat r u gonna do abt it? That's wat's most impt : )
RPOriginally posted by VersiOn 1.1:just now my ex called me n ask me to send her home. because she didnt sound too ok on the phone i went down to find her.
upon reaching the place, i saw her sitting on the kerb, drunk.
dunno y my heart kinda sink when i see her in that state... n when i helped her up, i got this strange feeling.
on the journey home, we didnt say a single word. feels kind of awkward.
when we reached her place, i send her up to her unit. but i have this reluntant feeling to leave. when i looked into her eyes again i got the kind of feelings we once had.
now that i'm home i m still thinkin of her. do i still love her? or is it juz pity? -
Version 1.1Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Version 1.1,
The reluctance to leave, & the feelings u haf when u touched her (to help her up) & looked into her eyes point to u still having feelings for her.
It cld be love, it cld be old feelings tt u haven't let go of.
But wat r u gonna do abt it? That's wat's most impt : )
RP
DO nothing don me taken for a ride. From the sounds of it, she broke up with you. She is upset and lonely now tat why call you. Obviously she does not love you enuff... otherwise brake up with you in the first place.... she is just keeping you like a spare tyre just incase her's blow.
Well no offence.. jus some tots !
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Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:just now my ex called me n ask me to send her home. because she didnt sound too ok on the phone i went down to find her.
upon reaching the place, i saw her sitting on the kerb, drunk.
dunno y my heart kinda sink when i see her in that state... n when i helped her up, i got this strange feeling.
on the journey home, we didnt say a single word. feels kind of awkward.
when we reached her place, i send her up to her unit. but i have this reluntant feeling to leave. when i looked into her eyes again i got the kind of feelings we once had.
now that i'm home i m still thinkin of her. do i still love her? or is it juz pity?
Even if you don't love her, if you do see a good friend in such a state, you don't really feel good.
Don't think about your feelings for her yet. Think about why she got drunk and why she called you instead of others? Obviously, there is something within her and she needed that release, by calling you, is the first automatical thought that came up.
Your break-up isn't clean at all. If you desire, you could update us here or a new topic.
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Do not confuse pity & compassion with love. Just because your inherent masculine instinct to protect and look after a girl is aroused (and believe me some women know how to use this to full effect), it doesn't mean you like her.
Would you still think so fondly of her on any normal day, or if she treats you badly? -
Very NICE....Originally posted by Yunhaier: Even if you don't love her, if you do see a good friend in such a state, you don't really feel good.
Don't think about your feelings for her yet. Think about why she got drunk and why she called you instead of others? Obviously, there is something within her and she needed that release, by calling you, is the first automatical thought that came up.
Your break-up isn't clean at all. If you desire, you could update us here or a new topic.
Cheers -
This morning she called me and asked if we could start afresh?
she said that she couldn't for get me though we had broke for a year.
but i can't accept her again. Neither will my family accept her nor her family accept me. Because the things she did really terrifies me and my family. The things she did changes me and my life.
Somehow i feel so lost as to whether give her another chance or just let it go. -
like wat ghost_18 said... no matter break how long.. the person will still be somewhere in ur heart.... the feeling will still be there..... but all have to depend on u to judge.....
i have this problem b4...... my family cant accept my ex and so does his family... ever my friends cant accept
for me i think over and over again...... and finally i realise the love i have for him is in the past... not now.. is just dat the feeling still there.... dat is all in the past.... i choose to hide the feeling in one corner of my heart... and lock it up.... if sometime miss him just open up and recall all the sweet memories.... and then lock it up again.... cos no matter wat cant live in the past.... have to move forward... -
... damn .... i wanna be as strong as you!!Originally posted by Me0w Me0w:like wat ghost_18 said... no matter how break how long.. the person will still be somewhere in ur heart.... the feeling will still be there..... but all have to depend on u to judge.....
i have this problem b4...... my family cant accept my ex and so does his family... ever my friends cant accept
for me i think over and over again...... and finally i realise the love i have for him is in the past... not now.. is just dat the feeling still there.... dat is all in the past.... i choose to hide the feeling in one corner of my heart... and lock it up.... if sometime miss him just open up and recall all the sweet memories.... and then lock it up again.... cos no matter wat cant live in the past.... have to move forward... -
wat did she do dat scares u so much?Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:but i can't accept her again. Neither will my family accept her nor her family accept me. Because the things she did really terrifies me and my family. The things she did changes me and my life. -
not strong lah... if strong wont think so long liao loh..... is hard and it take time.... although i choose not to be with him again but u noe lah.. human are very fan jian one... will still think and think.. scare regret or wat lah...... after one yr then can really overcome ah...
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Just pity lah.Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:just now my ex called me n ask me to send her home. because she didnt sound too ok on the phone i went down to find her.
upon reaching the place, i saw her sitting on the kerb, drunk.
dunno y my heart kinda sink when i see her in that state... n when i helped her up, i got this strange feeling.
on the journey home, we didnt say a single word. feels kind of awkward.
when we reached her place, i send her up to her unit. but i have this reluntant feeling to leave. when i looked into her eyes again i got the kind of feelings we once had.
now that i'm home i m still thinkin of her. do i still love her? or is it juz pity? -
Is there a good reason to believe that the same things won't happen again? And Percentage of Confidence (based on touch down reality and not blind faith or personal instinct / belief) is?Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:This morning she called me and asked if we could start afresh?
she said that she couldn't for get me though we had broke for a year.
but i can't accept her again. Neither will my family accept her nor her family accept me. Because the things she did really terrifies me and my family. The things she did changes me and my life.
Somehow i feel so lost as to whether give her another chance or just let it go. -
Xerion,
It's all in the mind : ) *hugz*
U CHOOSE whether to be strong, or to wallow in self-pity : ) Not sez'g tt u r, cosh some genuinely r hurt, & perhaps u r. But take some time to pls think over wat went wrong, make up ur mind to try ur best Not to repeat any mistake u might haf made, & try again : )
RPOriginally posted by True_Xerion:... damn .... i wanna be as strong as you!! -
since u are asking dis qs, at 1 point in ur heart dat u still love her mah. u asking for opinion and juz to double confirm urself wad we may tell u...
listen to ur heart..
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A friend in need is a friend indeed... u did well
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brudder... only YOU will know..Originally posted by VersiOn 1.1:just now my ex called me n ask me to send her home. because she didnt sound too ok on the phone i went down to find her.
upon reaching the place, i saw her sitting on the kerb, drunk.
dunno y my heart kinda sink when i see her in that state... n when i helped her up, i got this strange feeling.
on the journey home, we didnt say a single word. feels kind of awkward.
when we reached her place, i send her up to her unit. but i have this reluntant feeling to leave. when i looked into her eyes again i got the kind of feelings we once had.
now that i'm home i m still thinkin of her. do i still love her? or is it juz pity?
but i'll still chip in my two cent's worth.. maybe u miss the closeness or the intimacy of being in a r'ship.. i'm guilty of that as well(shall not elaborate)
but be sure of what you're doing...