no feelings?

• Sunshine08

  10 Feb 04, 16:16

  under what situation why people would have no feelings for their other half all of a sudden?
  
  1. Falling for another girl
  What else?
• Inzaghi

  10 Feb 04, 16:18

  sick of current one??.
• WrX_STi

  10 Feb 04, 19:11

  the time together is long and sian liaoz
• bjork

  10 Feb 04, 20:10

  when love becomes a habit..
• sgboy2004

  10 Feb 04, 20:11

  when the person lost his mind!!!
  
  
• LoVeMeLoVeMenOt

  10 Feb 04, 20:13

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  when the person lost his mind!!!
  
  

  
• narz

  10 Feb 04, 20:13

  You'll find those feelings again after you've lost him/her.
  
  By then, it'll be too late.
• [S]tay

  10 Feb 04, 20:14

  Originally posted by Sunshine08:

  under what situation why people would have no feelings for their other half all of a sudden?
  
  1. Falling for another girl
  What else?

  when you doesn't even love him/her at the first place... or else feeling won't go away just like tt....
• ditzy

  10 Feb 04, 20:15

  Originally posted by Sunshine08:

  under what situation why people would have no feelings for their other half all of a sudden?
  
  1. Falling for another girl
  What else?

  When being single suddenly feels so good again.
• Devil1976

  11 Feb 04, 11:36

  Originally posted by [S]tay:
  
  
  [b]when you doesn't even love him/her at the first place... or else feeling won't go away just like tt....[/b]

  Disagree... Feelings can come and go... Though how strongly a 'feeling' stays would vary depending on the person's nature, the relationship he / she is in and the situational circumstances...
• X-men

  11 Feb 04, 12:03

  Originally posted by narz:

  You'll find those feelings again after you've lost him/her.
  
  By then, it'll be too late.

  why too late? cos he/her no longer have the same feeling liao?
• WrX_STi

  11 Feb 04, 13:07

  alreadi left with other pple liao lor..
• RainbowPrincess

  11 Feb 04, 15:50

  Total & utter disappointment.
  
  RP
  
  

  Originally posted by Sunshine08:

  under what situation why people would have no feelings for their other half all of a sudden?
  
  1. Falling for another girl
  What else?

• Coco_Coco

  11 Feb 04, 15:58

  differences in thinking... find that their initial common points are no longer common... or maybe cannot get along together anymore...
  
• twinkle_stars

  11 Feb 04, 16:53

  Originally posted by Sunshine08:

  under what situation why people would have no feelings for their other half all of a sudden?
  
  1. Falling for another girl
  What else?

  quite a few situations i think...
  1) it became a responsibility more than love
  2) as u said.. fell for another person
  3) too long liao..too sian.. nth new
  4) u cant find what u want in this person..
  
• [S]tay

  11 Feb 04, 20:09

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Disagree... Feelings can come and go... Though how strongly a 'feeling' stays would vary depending on the person's nature, the relationship he / she is in and the situational circumstances...

  oic.. but depend on what type of feeling u have for tt person...
  some always have tt illusion that they are in love when they are actually not..
  somehow, i feel that if u really love this person, it won't disappear "suddenly"..... it's just sort of fade as time goes by...
  unlike crush n fatuation....
  just personal opinion..
• my_name_is_Natasha

  11 Feb 04, 20:56

  
  

  quite a few situations i think...
  1) it became a responsibility more than love
  2) as u said.. fell for another person
  3) too long liao..too sian.. nth new
  4) u cant find what u want in this person..

  Love shld always comes with responsibility.... responsible to be in love with the same person, ever after...
  
  Comittment is the word.....
  
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• p|gGyPeN

  11 Feb 04, 21:14

  i guess by not taking the other for granted will keep the flame burning and u wun lose feelings for them.
  Effort has to be there to maintain r/s (even after yrs of being together, it's still nice to give surprises, whisper sweet lil nothings) In this way, everyone's happy and will not feel burdened by commitment or responsibility
  
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  His smile makes me feel on top of the world even after going thru a bad day ....
• Devil1976

  12 Feb 04, 12:03

  Originally posted by [S]tay:

  oic.. but depend on what type of feeling u have for tt person...
  some always have tt illusion that they are in love when they are actually not..
  somehow, i feel that if u really love this person, it won't disappear "suddenly"..... it's just sort of fade as time goes by...
  unlike crush n fatuation....
  just personal opinion..

  Yup, just our personal opinions... Regarding 'disappearing suddenly'... I think it can happen... Especially in the form of 'suppression'?
• my_name_is_Natasha

  15 Feb 04, 09:14

  Originally posted by p|gGyPeN:

  i guess by not taking the other for granted will keep the flame burning and u wun lose feelings for them.
  

  cannot agree more.... my other half and i still very 'ker qi' with each other after 2 years.... and he'll feels pai sey if I make extra effort to be good to him.... that makes me feel greatly appreciated....
  
• jolin80

  15 Feb 04, 14:38

  change of heart... bian xin liao
• lolsuck

  15 Feb 04, 15:26

  realise what he really wants..