the right way to get a steady?
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hi
would like to seak the point of view of u people about the right way to get a steady and last as long as possible..
i have seen my friends having girlfriends and boyfriends,but their relationship ended very quickly..
some a week some a month,even 2-3days..
most of them have a common property in this relationship..
they know each other not long.. and soon bcome attached and both parties isnt that kind of ugly sort..
is that true that 1 shld know another well enough before trying to be together?guys and girls should know each other well enough before deciding what to do..
in another term.. 1 shld not judge by the looks of another.. but shld get to know their character...<------am i right to think this way? -
LOL : )
My ans to ur qn:
Physical attraction can only go so far. When u date someone u've only known for a short time, but who's physically attracted to u, & u to them, u tend to be less @ ease. The reason for this is tt, u feel compelled to live up to tt other person's expectations.
But when u're wif a fren, u're @ ease, aren't u? : ) This is esp. so wif true frens, u're really urself wif them, & despite quarrels & arguments, u're always forgiven & u always forgive them.
Ur fren, noes u for u. A person who's physically attracted to u & vice versa, may Not noe u for u, until both of u r together. As time passes, they realise tt they can't accept who u really r.
This is juz a general observation, but it doesn't apply to ev. body : ) Juz my 2 cents' worth, as usu, cosh I'm the Energiser Bunny
RPOriginally posted by lolsuck:hi
would like to seak the point of view of u people about the right way to get a steady and last as long as possible..
i have seen my friends having girlfriends and boyfriends,but their relationship ended very quickly..
some a week some a month,even 2-3days..
most of them have a common property in this relationship..
they know each other not long.. and soon bcome attached and both parties isnt that kind of ugly sort..
is that true that 1 shld know another well enough before trying to be together?guys and girls should know each other well enough before deciding what to do..
in another term.. 1 shld not judge by the looks of another.. but shld get to know their character...<------am i right to think this way? -
Theres no right or wrong way. Just your own way. If theres a standard template to falling in love, we'll all be machines or zombies.
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Some people are 'made for each other'... Some people changes or tolerate for each other... How long they would last? The couple would hold one side of the court, 'fate' would be playing in the other....
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It's all up to you...not your friends's cases...think wat you wan....Originally posted by lolsuck:hi
would like to seak the point of view of u people about the right way to get a steady and last as long as possible..
i have seen my friends having girlfriends and boyfriends,but their relationship ended very quickly..
some a week some a month,even 2-3days..
most of them have a common property in this relationship..
they know each other not long.. and soon bcome attached and both parties isnt that kind of ugly sort..
is that true that 1 shld know another well enough before trying to be together?guys and girls should know each other well enough before deciding what to do..
in another term.. 1 shld not judge by the looks of another.. but shld get to know their character...<------am i right to think this way? -
hm... ok
guess my old thinking is wrong..
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I've seen friends broke up after more than 8 years together.
I've seen friends getting married after being together for less than a year.
Fate plays an important role in relationships.
You alone decide what you want for yourself.
My personnal feeling is that a couple should at least be together for about three years before marriage...
Jus my two cents worth.