My Fault...???

GHoST_18

16 Feb 04, 03:45

why is it that no matter what, it is always the guy's fault when a couple breaks up....???

why is the blame on me when all i did was love HER...???

why did HER love for me turn in hatred after we broke off...???

i really dun know why things will turn out this way...

Sad

True_Xerion

16 Feb 04, 03:50

dun cry too much dude, it happens/happened to the best of us Confused

Maybe she blame u cuz she feels guilty and can't bear to face the facts or can't accept them? Maybe she feels that by hating you she won't feel the loss as bad or so you won't call her again and make her lose her resolve?

too many reasons why lah but then again, it's women we're talking abt; they move in mysterious ways and think in ways us men often fail to understand.

hopefully this isn't abt ur impending study plans?

take care k?

TX

GHoST_18

16 Feb 04, 03:55

ehh... not cryin...

juz using emoticons to express my thoughts n feelings...

Sad

True_Xerion

16 Feb 04, 04:05

orh ok, *takes back tissue* Very Happy

RainbowPrincess

16 Feb 04, 07:38

Sometimes, it may be wat u do AFTER the break-up tt irks her & causes her to avoid u/hate u. I'm Not sez'g this is definitely the case, but I do noe I haf an ex who made me so SICK tt the mere mention of his name sent (& still sends) creeps down my spine. It was so bad, I simply refused to think abt any gd memories tt we might've had.

RP

wuming78

16 Feb 04, 08:13

not true. many times its the gal's fault too. but most of the time both parties are at fault.

sillyme

16 Feb 04, 09:36

sometimes, we have tendency to push the blame..

but that's not the issue..

you may feel unjustified by her accusations.. don't take it to heart.. let it go and move on.. Smile

Ah Ma

16 Feb 04, 09:40

why is it that no matter what, it is always the girl's fault when a couple breaks up....???

why is the blame on me when all i did was love HIM...???

why did HIS love for me turn in hatred after we broke off...???

i really dun know why things will turn out this way... Crying or Very sad

WrX_STi

16 Feb 04, 10:40

sometimes in a r/s u mayb giving in to gers and tot u are the one who is a saint. but sometimes we guys hurt gers without knowing it ourself. and therefore we are alwiz blamed.

we nv blamed ourself for the fail r/s and often thinking dat its another party fault. i tink dis apply to both guy and gers. when we are at fault, sometiems we still find dat we are still in the right.

BrUtUs

16 Feb 04, 12:00

not reali always guy's fault la... must oso c if both side make any effort to save the relationship... wat happen? she ask for the break?

Yunhaier

16 Feb 04, 12:46

Think about it this way... does it matter?

If I punch you and my explaination to you is because you made me angry, does it matter? cause in the end, the punch was delivered and the effect was felt.

Like your relationship was gone.

Cheers

epImetheus

16 Feb 04, 15:06

don't think so much about whose fault is it.....as long as it does not affect you getting into another relationship.

GHoST_18

16 Feb 04, 15:11

Thanks...

tare

16 Feb 04, 15:38

no matter wat it's oledi over... let it be....

as long as u dui de qi tian de liang xin, can liao lor..... *pat pat*

Devil1976

16 Feb 04, 18:52

Let go, let go... Learn to let go... Just like the dried leaves falling onto the grounds... The trees never really intend to let them go...? But these are just part of nature's way.... The leaves don't fall, new ones won't grow....

ditzy

16 Feb 04, 18:54

Its the guy's fault. Always the guy's fault.

Lingos

16 Feb 04, 20:03

Not true ghost, i was the main source of the failing of the relationship. I think you are just being paranoid about people putting the blame on you about the failure.

Maybe she enjoys making it seem like she is the victim to get sympathy. I know a few girls who are like that.

p|gGyPeN

16 Feb 04, 20:58

If you know it's definately not you ...
you dun even have to be bothered.
Follow rationality Mr. Green

the_don

16 Feb 04, 21:13

/hugs Ghost....

don't think too much about it okie? be strong, and let go of what she says. let the past be the past, you got a bright new future again Smile

BufPuf

16 Feb 04, 21:17

read it somewer

u lose some1 that don't love u..

but she lose some1 that love her..