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well... guys... if 1 day u found out that ur wife is hving a hard time living wif u n she still stays wif u jus becos of family n social pressure .
everyday wif u was really hell to her...
n she hv made it known to all her friends n relatives...she also never really communicates wif u.. treat u jus like a housemate in the house.. wat will u do? divorce or will look in to the problem....?
u gt any such exp?? guys or ladies care to share share?
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aiyoyo!Originally posted by zacken99:well... guys... if 1 day u found out ur wife is hving a hard living wif u n she still stays wif u jus becos of family n social pressure .
everyday wif u was hell to her...n she hv made it known to all her friends n relatives...she also never really communicates wif.. treat jus like a housemate in the house.. wat will u do? divorce or will look in to the problem....?
u gt any such exp?? guys or ladies care to share share?
zacken, how can u treat ur wife like tt?
tsk tsk tsk~
btw, consider renewing ur P-membership? -
It ound like me in the past ... but I the one that divorce him after five year of unhappy with him ...
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aiyo.. fish jie jie... nt me lah....i where gt so wu qing 1....if i ever married.. i make sure its going to last.. arbo i rather go monkhood...Originally posted by FireIce:aiyoyo!
zacken, how can u treat ur wife like tt?
tsk tsk tsk~
btw, consider renewing ur P-membership? -
haiz.. guess its must hv been a hard time...Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:It ound like me in the past ... but I the one that divorce him after five year of unhappy with him ...
da jie... its a blessing u hv muster enuf courage to walk out of the hell... hope u will b shower by happiness in the future...... -
meeting is the beginning of parting... there is 'no tian chang di jiu'...BTW i din really know wat u trying to say... can call me?Originally posted by zacken99:well... guys... if 1 day u found out ur wife is hving a hard living wif u n she still stays wif u jus becos of family n social pressure .
everyday wif u was hell to her...n she hv made it known to all her friends n relatives...she also never really communicates wif.. treat jus like a housemate in the house.. wat will u do? divorce or will look in to the problem....?
u gt any such exp?? guys or ladies care to share share? -
opss... it ok bro... its nt my issue,...its jus 1 of my case study....Originally posted by windjammer:meeting is the beginning of parting... there is 'no tian chang di jiu'...BTW i din really know wat u trying to say... can call me? 
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if ever happens to me... won divorce... the onli time i will divorce is when my wife cheats on me... i will look into the problem n try to rectify it...
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thank you brother... but walk out is only get you out of what you not want to see ... I still have alot of thing not settle ... I need you help when you free we sit down and talk . blessing is only come when you do well ... so I still far away ... as for your friends ask her to talk to him ... I don't belive thing don't work out, unless he refuse than she have to make her choice ... she had to choice well ... all the best to her...Originally posted by zacken99:haiz.. guess its must hv been a hard time...
da jie... its a blessing u hv muster enuf courage to walk out of the hell... hope u will b shower by happiness in the future...... -
Divorce is always an option. Must try to work things out first, but if cannot, then some things are just not meant to be.Originally posted by zacken99:well... guys... if 1 day u found out that ur wife is hving a hard time living wif u n she still stays wif u jus becos of family n social pressure .
everyday wif u was really hell to her...
n she hv made it known to all her friends n relatives...she also never really communicates wif u.. treat u jus like a housemate in the house.. wat will u do? divorce or will look in to the problem....?
u gt any such exp?? guys or ladies care to share share? -
ok..Originally posted by MeOwSuSan:thank you brother... but walk out is only get you out of what you not want to see ... I still have alot of thing not settle ... I need you help when you free we sit down and talk . blessing is only come when you do well ... so I still far away ... as for your friends ask her to talk to him ... I don't belive thing don't work out, unless he refuse than she have to make her choice ... she had to choice well ... all the best to her... -
A marriage works both ways, & din both sides pledge/swear/vow till death do them part? Unless they've exhausted all avenues, inclg marriage counselling, frankly, I believe divorce isn't an option.
Having sez'd tt, it's juz my belief, many couples out there DO divorce for gd & valid reasons...
If 1 day I found out tt my husband was only staying wif me for the kids & tt I'd been making his life hell, then I'd actually sit down & haf a heart-to-heart wif my husband.
And, I'll bloody well make sure tt I make it up to him ten-fold.
RPOriginally posted by zacken99:well... guys... if 1 day u found out that ur wife is hving a hard time living wif u n she still stays wif u jus becos of family n social pressure .
everyday wif u was really hell to her...
n she hv made it known to all her friends n relatives...she also never really communicates wif u.. treat u jus like a housemate in the house.. wat will u do? divorce or will look in to the problem....?
u gt any such exp?? guys or ladies care to share share? -
Divorce is most likely not a wise option to take now since
both parties have spent so much time together...
Looking back at the family you built, a divorce is only
burning everything you built into ash...
Try to have a heart to heart talk with her...
Buy her a nice present as a surprise...
Sit down on the bed, have a good chat...
Listen to her point of view and make her listen
to yours as well. Do settle on a win-win situation. -
I think both parties lost interest in this relationship. Women will questioned/quarrel the husband instead of complaining to relatives
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how about checking out Retrouvaille Singapore
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Hmm...
If she is bad mouthing him behind his back. There is no way they can settle their differences unless they are willing to start anew.
I've learnt that even with kids involved, it's very hard to resolve marriage differences.
I support divorce if that is what the female wants to do. It's a hard decision, but two parties should move on if they are not happy with each other. -
Originally posted by zacken99:well... guys... if 1 day u found out that ur wife is hving a hard time living wif u n she still stays wif u jus becos of family n social pressure .
everyday wif u was really hell to her...
n she hv made it known to all her friends n relatives...she also never really communicates wif u.. treat u jus like a housemate in the house.. wat will u do? divorce or will look in to the problem....?
u gt any such exp?? guys or ladies care to share share? 
Such scenario really depends. That's why the emphasis has to be why in the first place she chose to get married to him and not the divorce part. Unless circumstances leading to marriage and after is known here - its difficult to judge.
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however sometimes its jus too difficult to sit dwn n hv a good talk.... ego is always the detering factor....Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:A marriage works both ways, & din both sides pledge/swear/vow till death do them part? Unless they've exhausted all avenues, inclg marriage counselling, frankly, I believe divorce isn't an option.
Having sez'd tt, it's juz my belief, many couples out there DO divorce for gd & valid reasons...
If 1 day I found out tt my husband was only staying wif me for the kids & tt I'd been making his life hell, then I'd actually sit down & haf a heart-to-heart wif my husband.
And, I'll bloody well make sure tt I make it up to him ten-fold.
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wat if a third party is involve.....making it a 40 60 situation?Originally posted by revvieeee:
Divorce is most likely not a wise option to take now since
both parties have spent so much time together...
Looking back at the family you built, a divorce is only
burning everything you built into ash...
Try to have a heart to heart talk with her...
Buy her a nice present as a surprise...
Sit down on the bed, have a good chat...
Listen to her point of view and make her listen
to yours as well. Do settle on a win-win situation. -
Originally posted by FireIce:how about checking out Retrouvaille Singapore
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i guess so ba....Originally posted by blunt:I think both parties lost interest in this relationship. Women will questioned/quarrel the husband instead of complaining to relatives -
set her free?
ask what she really wants... -
Originally posted by Lingos:Hmm...
If she is bad mouthing him behind his back. There is no way they can settle their differences unless they are willing to start anew.
I've learnt that even with kids involved, it's very hard to resolve marriage differences.
I support divorce if that is what the female wants to do. It's a hard decision, but two parties should move on if they are not happy with each other.
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*smilez* I understand...
This is juz wat I'd do. I mean, my husband is someone I marry, & let's sez he's the father of my kids. If I can't let go of my ego & tok to him, then it means I wldn't haf given my all, & I wldn't haf fulfilled my marital vows.
So tt's wat I wld do IF I were married & IF I were in this situation : )
RPOriginally posted by zacken99:however sometimes its jus too difficult to sit dwn n hv a good talk.... ego is always the detering factor.... -
wat if she herself also dun wat she want... sounds funny but im nt trying to b farnie... this lady really haiz...Originally posted by Coco_Coco:set her free?
ask what she really wants...