frustrated.....hw can she....
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very frustrated now..got an online quiz just now tt comprise of 20% of my coursework... very impt lo..then called my best frenz to ask her to cfm got hw many lect notes we have...called her twice leh....
then she told me is either 3 or 4 sets..... then asked again whether the last set is "developmt of ...", she said yes..
ended up while doing the quiz, find out tt there's 1 stack of notes missin... n tt notes comprises a large portion of the test..
very du lan... almost failed..... iz my fault tt i trust her too much.. i got study the notes before the quiz lo, but still almost fail due to this mistake.....
not the first time doing this, always give me the wrong definition, exam time, wrong info....... she is not the blur type lo, wondering whether it is intentionally....
cos i always got better result than her despite tt i study last min..... sian........ anyone can tell me what to do... very angry this time... -
my sympathy to you for having such a friend, and flunking your quiz. i think it's time u tell yourself she cannot be trusted.
then again, don't put all the blame on her. one shd be independent. the best way is always to depend on yourself, not others. -
My best advice to u: STAY FAR AWAY.
She's NOT a true fren when she's always trying to sabotage ur efforts.
RPOriginally posted by [S]tay:
very frustrated now..got an online quiz just now tt comprise of 20% of my coursework... very impt lo..then called my best frenz to ask her to cfm got hw many lect notes we have...called her twice leh....
then she told me is either 3 or 4 sets..... then asked again whether the last set is "developmt of ...", she said yes..
ended up while doing the quiz, find out tt there's 1 stack of notes missin... n tt notes comprises a large portion of the test..
very du lan... almost failed..... iz my fault tt i trust her too much.. i got study the notes before the quiz lo, but still almost fail due to this mistake.....
[b]not the first time doing this, always give me the wrong definition, exam time, wrong info....... she is not the blur type lo, wondering whether it is intentionally....
cos i always got better result than her despite tt i study last min..... sian........ anyone can tell me what to do... very angry this time...[/b] -
Then why u rely on her so much?
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Weasels, we are forever surrounded by weasels.
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Agreed +1Originally posted by Paperboat:my sympathy to you for having such a friend, and flunking your quiz. i think it's time u tell yourself she cannot be trusted.
then again, don't put all the blame on her. one shd be independent. the best way is always to depend on yourself, not others.
If u can depend on yourself; why rely on others ...
Unless u have tendency to self-sabotage or self-destruct
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Better to depend on urself than other who may be backstab u...... lots of it when it comes to matters like this
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haha to me i always find at least 2 people to give me information.
so next time don't just rely on one person but at least 2, you won't go wrong in this situation.
just me 2cents of advice
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hm.. she might be doing that to sabo u,or maybe.. she juz wana gif u wrong info bcos she dunwan u to ask her everything...feel sian keep telling u things.. i got frens u did this to another ger bcos shes so pissed off that the ger keep asking her things and not finding out herself..
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Originally posted by [S]tay:
Like many have suggested, don't totally rely on her. If you're doing that, it's the own risk you'll have to take. If she can get hold of the right information it's your own responsibility to do so too. When in doubt, always source for more than 1 information source.
very frustrated now..got an online quiz just now tt comprise of 20% of my coursework... very impt lo..then called my best frenz to ask her to cfm got hw many lect notes we have...called her twice leh....
then she told me is either 3 or 4 sets..... then asked again whether the last set is "developmt of ...", she said yes..
ended up while doing the quiz, find out tt there's 1 stack of notes missin... n tt notes comprises a large portion of the test..
very du lan... almost failed..... iz my fault tt i trust her too much.. i got study the notes before the quiz lo, but still almost fail due to this mistake.....
[b]not the first time doing this, always give me the wrong definition, exam time, wrong info....... she is not the blur type lo, wondering whether it is intentionally....
cos i always got better result than her despite tt i study last min..... sian........ anyone can tell me what to do... very angry this time...[/b]
About your doubts in her... It's your rights. You might or might not be right in your 'guessing', it's up to you... -
you said this is not the first time that she made a mistake.. then why do you still go back to her for help?
take responsibility of your own studies.. -
Oh...don't go away !
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Have you considered that she made an honest mistake?
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Originally posted by [S]tay:
very frustrated now..got an online quiz just now tt comprise of 20% of my coursework... very impt lo..then called my best frenz to ask her to cfm got hw many lect notes we have...called her twice leh....
then she told me is either 3 or 4 sets..... then asked again whether the last set is "developmt of ...", she said yes..
ended up while doing the quiz, find out tt there's 1 stack of notes missin... n tt notes comprises a large portion of the test..
very du lan... almost failed..... iz my fault tt i trust her too much.. i got study the notes before the quiz lo, but still almost fail due to this mistake.....
[b]not the first time doing this, always give me the wrong definition, exam time, wrong info....... she is not the blur type lo, wondering whether it is intentionally....
cos i always got better result than her despite tt i study last min..... sian........ anyone can tell me what to do... very angry this time...[/b]Originally posted by Lingos:
I would always say "give the person the benefit of the doubt". Never to be too quick to accuse someone. Just like our judicial system, you're innocent until proven gulity.
[b]Have you considered that she made an honest mistake?[/b]
You should call and ask her if she forgot that there was 1 stack of notes missing. I dun believe it was intentional, I mean, why would she sabo you? -
Honestly, when i was in Uni not too long ago, I couldn't even remember what notes i had. And what i did'nt have. So if someone asked on the phone what notes do you have, i'd be like.. huh? I don't know.
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just thinking: Why are you relying on your friend to tell you things about your studies?? thought these are things you should have paid attention to in class or taken note of yourself since you are the one studying for it?
If you've been skipping class and therefore had to rely on your friend, sad to say, i can only say you deserve it. -
Well said KittynMeow.. i used to skip so many classes in Uni, but at the end of the day, if i didn't make sure that I had all the notes by asking someone to get it for me or printing it from the web. I deserve the pain.Originally posted by KittynMeow:just thinking: Why are you relying on your friend to tell you things about your studies?? thought these are things you should have paid attention to in class or taken note of yourself since you are the one studying for it?
If you've been skipping class and therefore had to rely on your friend, sad to say, i can only say you deserve it. -
Originally posted by [S]tay:
U only asked 1 person... Y never asked more ppl regarding such topics? 1 person info is never enuf to GUARANTEE U success in wat U do.
very frustrated now..got an online quiz just now tt comprise of 20% of my coursework... very impt lo..then called my best frenz to ask her to cfm got hw many lect notes we have...called her twice leh....
then she told me is either 3 or 4 sets..... then asked again whether the last set is "developmt of ...", she said yes..
ended up while doing the quiz, find out tt there's 1 stack of notes missin... n tt notes comprises a large portion of the test..
very du lan... almost failed..... iz my fault tt i trust her too much.. i got study the notes before the quiz lo, but still almost fail due to this mistake.....
[b]not the first time doing this, always give me the wrong definition, exam time, wrong info....... she is not the blur type lo, wondering whether it is intentionally....
cos i always got better result than her despite tt i study last min..... sian........ anyone can tell me what to do... very angry this time...[/b]
So how can U blame her? Even if she got hi scores while U nearly failed, U never took initiative nor bother to ask other ppl ard U.
Tink abt it. -
[b]just for ur information, i called her, n found out tt she borrowed my notes n nv return me..... SO... IZ MY FAULT to forget asking her for my notes back n trusting her too much........[/bOriginally posted by KittynMeow:just thinking: Why are you relying on your friend to tell you things about your studies?? thought these are things you should have paid attention to in class or taken note of yourself since you are the one studying for it?
If you've been skipping class and therefore had to rely on your friend, sad to say, i can only say you deserve it.
or do i deserve all this by being soooo kind to lend pple my notes........
n well if u say so..too bad lo.. i'll stop being so helpful........ -
hey... take it easy. You din mention this part of the story and from your first post above, you gave the impression you had been depending on your fren for information more than once. and i was writing from the perspective of giving your fren the benefit of the doubt .... sorry abt any miscomm.Originally posted by [S]tay:[b]just for ur information, i called her, n found out tt she borrowed my notes n nv return me..... SO... IZ MY FAULT to forget asking her for my notes back n trusting her too much........[/b
or do i deserve all this by being soooo kind to lend pple my notes........
n well if u say so..too bad lo.. i'll stop being so helpful........
since this is the case, then your fren is not being responsible by not returning your notes.
In any case, think lesson learned is to keep track of your notes. Better to rem what you lent out rather than trust others to tell you what they've borrowed from you right?? -
no la// cos after my first post, i decided to call her n find out what raly happened....Originally posted by KittynMeow:hey... take it easy. You din mention this part of the story and from your first post above, you gave the impression you had been depending on your fren for information more than once. and i was writing from the perspective of giving your fren the benefit of the doubt .... sorry abt any miscomm.
since this is the case, then your fren is not being responsible by not returning your notes.
In any case, think lesson learned is to keep track of your notes. Better to rem what you lent out rather than trust others to tell you what they've borrowed from you right??
then after askin her for a few time, then she told me tt my notes are with her....
now mood okay le..... better than yesterdae.. guess i really need to be more mindful n rem what i lent out next time....
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