nothing to talk about
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those in a relationship, have u ever reach to a point where there's nothing to talk to each other about over the phone?? havent seen each other for a couple of days but it still happens....argh
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maybe 'talk cock' to each other?
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well, I meet my guy almost everyday and has been 3 yrs+. We seldom chat over the phone as we see each other everyday..Originally posted by tibirg:those in a relationship, have u ever reach to a point where there's nothing to talk to each other about over the phone?? havent seen each other for a couple of days but it still happens....argh
We are still fine with our conversation, family, work, friends, soccer etc... We can be quite chatty at times..
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Honeymoon period over...
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I think there will always be sometimes when any couple may find that things are running dry to talk abt on phone or fact to face.. I was worried also cos my gf and i talk everyday unless either one is very tired.. So sometimes we do tlak a lot of cock and sometimes we discuss tv shows (i.e. reality tv or those taiwan entertainment shows... ), or outing plans.. or maybe even dreaming of our future.. and asking each other abt this and that preferences... Just some pointers.. but other times if either side is not in the mood, then no matter how hard one side try.. got problem means got problem.. then like that got a topic to talk abt liao unless he/she trying to avoid the problem..
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both party sian of each others liao ba.. u need to renew ur love flame..Originally posted by tibirg:those in a relationship, have u ever reach to a point where there's nothing to talk to each other about over the phone?? havent seen each other for a couple of days but it still happens....argh -
i think mayb u call can do different things together .or go out in a group... mayb that will spark some long lost fire again....
its really important to keep the flame burning, if u both r serious abt each other lor ...
always never talk to each other, slowly u both will feel sian then will think , its better to talk to other ppl , n slowly will stray one lor ...
mayb dun tok on phone lor, mayb talk on icq ??? -
maybe I'm a chatterbox but I dont believe in nothing to talk about.
its only the other party no longer interested in have a conversation with you. -
Astro mode: onOriginally posted by tibirg:those in a relationship, have u ever reach to a point where there's nothing to talk to each other about over the phone?? havent seen each other for a couple of days but it still happens....argh
Possible Mercury synastry affliction/ transits planets in 3rd house affliction or poor mercury placing.
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U can always start off by asking how her/his day was : ) Encourage him/her to tok abt farnie incidents, laff, commiserate, anythg. Then slowly, move on to ur day.
Sometimes, during the course of ur day or his/her day, some interesting thgs happened, or some interesting topic was brot up, & u guys can discuss it : )
RPOriginally posted by tibirg:those in a relationship, have u ever reach to a point where there's nothing to talk to each other about over the phone?? havent seen each other for a couple of days but it still happens....argh -
TALKING COCK is good... Even for a serious relationship...Originally posted by tibirg:those in a relationship, have u ever reach to a point where there's nothing to talk to each other about over the phone?? havent seen each other for a couple of days but it still happens....argh But then again, it'll depend on the couple? Some people are really NOT into that...
And to some couples, 'feeling' speaks louder than words... They don't even have to keep talking... Just sit beside each other or just enjoy a view also can be very loving.... -
well... yea.. as what everybody has said above. and as usual.. the farmer's gonna say something different
sometimes the silence is much better. u dun have to force each other to say something. whats the point anyway? if there's nothing to talk about even if its for more then a week that mean's she/he might be too busy or caught up in something. then after that he/she would have something to say then?
my point is that u should let the r'ship run its natural course.. dun force anything in or out of it -
hmmm maybe sometimes can try accumulating things to say to each other? maybe when u feel like discussing about a show, event, movie, instead of talking with friends maybe can 'hold on' to talk to ur partner about them. cos sometimes when u already talked to someone else bout a thing, u may not feel like repeating the topic again.
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yo, tibirg old gal, long time no see.....
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u say it best, when u say nothing at all.
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Wat u say seems reasonable...Originally posted by Farmer Brown:well... yea.. as what everybody has said above. and as usual.. the farmer's gonna say something different
sometimes the silence is much better. u dun have to force each other to say something. whats the point anyway? if there's nothing to talk about even if its for more then a week that mean's she/he might be too busy or caught up in something. then after that he/she would have something to say then?
my point is that u should let the r'ship run its natural course.. dun force anything in or out of it -
I dont even need to be in a relationship with people for us to have nothing to talk about.
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Agree, I seldom talk to my father even though we live together.Originally posted by men_@_arms:I dont even need to be in a relationship with people for us to have nothing to talk about. -
When was the last time I called him " Daddy? " I feel so bad.
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x 2... to my parents in fact.Originally posted by Ayukat:Agree, I seldom talk to my father even though we live together.
well.. it has been accepted as a fact tt i dont like to talk at home.. -
Hmm, this was somethg I've told my guy, when we were juz best frens...
U're someone I'm comfy enuff wif, to Not feel the need to tok when I'm wif u. There's No awkwardness even tho there're No words... And we treasure the fact tt we can be ourselves wif each other, Not feeling the need to start any conversation when we dowan to.
RPOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:well... yea.. as what everybody has said above. and as usual.. the farmer's gonna say something different
sometimes the silence is much better. u dun have to force each other to say something. whats the point anyway? if there's nothing to talk about even if its for more then a week that mean's she/he might be too busy or caught up in something. then after that he/she would have something to say then?
my point is that u should let the r'ship run its natural course.. dun force anything in or out of it -
Hehhe.. i talk about everything and anything.
Don't think there is ever a day that there's nothing to talk about. If that's the case, better off not having the relationship.
I seem to be the most negative. But if there really is nothing to say.. like me and this other guy. Whatever i said, he'll make it look like i'm a total airhead. And whatever he said was the ultimate top dog speech. I got tired of listening to his rubbish and stopped talking about anything, even what i did on that day cos i was tired of being put down. -
sure got many things to tok one leh. we always tok abt stuipd tings e.g. like bad things at work, wat we done, wat improvvment we made, or ask stupid qns like got feed the minnie mouse or not, those cutsy things lor, or if open minded tease abt some funny dirty stuff not over x rated lah of cos.