Guys have no feelings?
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i took over 6 months to stop longing for her so much. i do sit and cry sometimes. and i can gurantee u we are very prone to mental breakdowns.Originally posted by Ice_princess83:well, when i said guys dun seem to have feelings , i didn't mean i expect u guys to sit ard and cry like most of u claim us girls always do! *lolz* i just asked because i notice that guys seem to get over bad relationships real fast and move on, they somehow or rather are less prone to mental breakdowns, they somehow dun feel upset or worried when u dun call them for a couple of days...unlike us..or rather me.. i always wonder what happened and worry a lil when my boyfriend doesn't call me for more than 4 days. well thats all... no intention of upsetting anyone.
and i can tell u i get worried when my ex didn't call me for a day plus.
so we are guilty of all these things... well some of us are anyway, so i guess some of us do show emotions. of course there are some "stone cold steve austin"s here too.
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Guys are people who do things for a generally purpose and girls are usually the bunch that can do things even without one.Originally posted by Ice_princess83:well, when i said guys dun seem to have feelings , i didn't mean i expect u guys to sit ard and cry like most of u claim us girls always do! *lolz* i just asked because i notice that guys seem to get over bad relationships real fast and move on, they somehow or rather are less prone to mental breakdowns, they somehow dun feel upset or worried when u dun call them for a couple of days...unlike us..or rather me.. i always wonder what happened and worry a lil when my boyfriend doesn't call me for more than 4 days. well thats all... no intention of upsetting anyone.
Don't agree? One good example is shopping. Girls would rather window shop around until they are satisfied before purchasing the items they want (or even changing their mind to another item), comparing to guys, who goes straight for the items they have in mind.
Your boyfriend doesn't call you to inform you about his current status is BECAUSE it seemed inpractical to him to call since he is alright, well and healthy. It's link back to the prior theory above because there isn't any practical purpose, while girls don't mind calling just to hear his voices, etc. Of course, when he don't call, the girl (you), picked up the message as something is wrong and you panic. Generally, in love relationship, the girl normally message the guy more throughout the whole relationship if you were to calulate every single sms sent.
Guys get over relationship better? Not so. Usually the four signs that have problem getting over relationship are:
Leo
Scorpio
Aquarius
Taurus
Of course, the real people who have problem getting over relationship are people who have alot of fixed sign in their birth chart, but of course, that's another topic, another question altogether.
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Totally not agree:
Why women do not feed shame that men have to support them ?
The worst thing is even after divoice, they still want men to support them ?
This is the time for women to give reason why they cannot earn a living for themself ?Originally posted by Ice_princess83:well, from my male friends and cousins and such, i got this impression that guys don't get affected by most things that happen in life unlike girls. Somehow they don't seem to care or feel guilty abt things like us girls. No offense, but sometimes i wonder if u guys really have feelings. The only time i seem to be able to see a wide variety of emotions openly shown by guys is during soccer matches or probably during sex. Well, feel free to criticise ;P -
hey hey chill out already everyone. there are always 2 sides to a coin.
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Wad Hell... wad makes u all gals think guys have no feelings??Maybe its juz tat in our society guys tend to keep to themselves more.. but in their heart...(i mean deep inside larz) they may have more feelings den the gals...In fact... sometimes i think tat gals are the cold fishes... wadever we do to them.. they either ignore them completely or act blur....
In God we trust... In school we SLACK!!!
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generalizations won't help. just girls are often complaining guys don't understand them, the opposite is just as true.
guys are emotional also; like what some had already said - guys rarely show their excitement, sadness, interest - only a handful do. besides this doesn't just apply to asian culture but most cultures. when guys are upset or depressed, many simply act okay bearing many things within, move on with their lives even when they're crumbling inside. when excited, to play cool, guys might just be cool and observe, hiding their excitement. -
With the emergence of SNAG and metrosexuality, guys are more emotional and sensitive than before!