Should i play along?
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I have been dating this girl who already has a boyfriend. Who's the bad person? Me trying to break them up or her two timing? Or should i just play along?
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Both of you are in the wrongOriginally posted by thoreldan:I have been dating this girl who already has a boyfriend. Who's the bad person? Me trying to break them up or her two timing? Or should i just play along?
You KNOW that she has a boyfriend already, but yet you continue to date her.
She errs where she two-times. -
I was in your shoes once. I felt very bad. But yet i know the bf treat her like nobody. She lied to me say she was single. If she told me the truth i wouldn't even want to consider her. When i found out the truth, i pretend she didn't even exist.Originally posted by thoreldan:I have been dating this girl who already has a boyfriend. Who's the bad person? Me trying to break them up or her two timing? Or should i just play along?
She got me into a fine mess. Her bf same lecture as me. One day, she told her bf abt me. I was confronted. To this day he's still stalking me, calling my mobile at the deadest hours of the morning. He must have plenty of free time and money to spare.
I just ignore him, put my hp on 10secs divert. I wonder if they break up yet. Coz the girl say wanna break with the guy in January. I totally lost contact with her already. But I'll find out when I go back Brissy coming weekend. -
welll there's no wrong no right here. its for her to make a decision. and dun listen to the bullshit your friends would say ie. "oh, she did it once she can do it again"
thats nonsense.. this is abt love.. anything goes.. even if she has never broken up to go with someone else doesn't mean u can't be the first and vice versa
just go with the flow.. important thing is that she sorts out her feelings. hey.. if she feels equally for the both of u, then maybe the 3 of u should sit down and talk about it...its past the 90s.. time to embrace new ideas... -
hmm...when i started wooing her, she didnt tell me she's attached either. Only when i asked out her recently did she tell me. From out conversation, i know that she isnt very confident abt her current r/s. How shall I get her to make a decision, didnt wanna make her stressed up.Originally posted by ditzy:I was in your shoes once. I felt very bad. But yet i know the bf treat her like nobody. She lied to me say she was single. If she told me the truth i wouldn't even want to consider her. When i found out the truth, i pretend she didn't even exist.
She got me into a fine mess. Her bf same lecture as me. One day, she told her bf abt me. I was confronted. To this day he's still stalking me, calling my mobile at the deadest hours of the morning. He must have plenty of free time and money to spare.
I just ignore him, put my hp on 10secs divert. I wonder if they break up yet. Coz the girl say wanna break with the guy in January. I totally lost contact with her already. But I'll find out when I go back Brissy coming weekend. -
I was the fool. Even a gal friend of mine told me i had been used. Never again will I get into a situation like this.Originally posted by thoreldan:hmm...when i started wooing her, she didnt tell me she's attached either. Only when i asked out her recently did she tell me. From out conversation, i know that she isnt very confident abt her current r/s. How shall I get her to make a decision, didnt wanna make her stressed up.
I'm still figuring how to get the bl**dy bf off my bl**dy back. He's a dingdong, always a dingdong. Worst thing is have to see him in lecture all the time.
All I can say is good luck to you. If I were you, I'll stop now. This is the only advice I have for you. Get out before it gets too late. You don't want to be tommorow's gossip of the week. -
this guy is over-possesive and wants to control her social life though they aren't husband and wife. she will do well without him.Originally posted by ditzy:I was the fool. Even a gal friend of mine told me i had been used. Never again will I get into a situation like this.
I'm still figuring how to get the bl**dy bf off my bl**dy back. He's a dingdong, always a dingdong. Worst thing is have to see him in lecture all the time.
All I can say is good luck to you. If I were you, I'll stop now. This is the only advice I have for you. Get out before it gets too late. You don't want to be tommorow's gossip of the week. -
You got that part right. The gf still with him so to give him face when his parents come over visit him. After that its sayonara to him. Dunno if that came true. Don't wish to find out.Originally posted by boy in blues:this guy is over-possesive and wants to control her social life though they aren't husband and wife. she will do well without him.
I only know her bf turn gay already, got interest in me. Call me late late at night all the time. But I reject and ignore him, coz i straight. -
P.S: Is she a Cancer, Pisces or Scorpio?Originally posted by ditzy:I was in your shoes once. I felt very bad. But yet i know the bf treat her like nobody. She lied to me say she was single. If she told me the truth i wouldn't even want to consider her. When i found out the truth, i pretend she didn't even exist.
She got me into a fine mess. Her bf same lecture as me. One day, she told her bf abt me. I was confronted. To this day he's still stalking me, calling my mobile at the deadest hours of the morning. He must have plenty of free time and money to spare.
I just ignore him, put my hp on 10secs divert. I wonder if they break up yet. Coz the girl say wanna break with the guy in January. I totally lost contact with her already. But I'll find out when I go back Brissy coming weekend.
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She's scorpio and its damn accurate.Originally posted by Yunhaier:P.S: Is she a Cancer, Pisces or Scorpio?
Cheers
I'm capricorn, accurate only on the eternally slim part.
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do u seriously like her? if not can treat it like a fling.... otherwise ask her who she reali wants... make her choose....Originally posted by thoreldan:I have been dating this girl who already has a boyfriend. Who's the bad person? Me trying to break them up or her two timing? Or should i just play along?
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Yeah bingo!Originally posted by ditzy:She's scorpio and its damn accurate.
I'm capricorn, accurate only on the eternally slim part. -
I don't believe itz got something to do with horoscope.
Until she's a got a ring around her left(or izzit right??)hand 3rd finger(or izzit 2nd??), you got every right to compete, she got every right to choose.
If she dumps you for another guy, take it like a man. I don't believe she's the only tree in the amazon forest... ya??
May the best man wins. Good luck.Originally posted by Yunhaier:P.S: Is she a Cancer, Pisces or Scorpio?
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sorry side track:Originally posted by Yunhaier:P.S: Is she a Cancer, Pisces or Scorpio?
Cheers
Yun,have noticed you always ask this question .... just wonder what are the suppose characteristic of scorpio, pisces or cancer?? -
Heres a good place for starters, www.astrology.com. I went thru that site b4 and its rather accurate(well , most of it). No kiddin.Originally posted by springtime:sorry side track:
Yun,have noticed you always ask this question .... just wonder what are the suppose characteristic of scorpio, pisces or cancer??
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Originally posted by springtime:sorry side track:
Yun,have noticed you always ask this question .... just wonder what are the suppose characteristic of scorpio, pisces or cancer??
Aiyo... the supposed characteristic of your sun sign is easily available anywhere. Usually, I ask this question out of curiousity and not because I am a dead-astrology-rigid-mind-following type.
To read a person's love personality/behavior through astrology needs more than just his/her date of birth. Without timing and place born, the information is severely limited.
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Originally posted by thoreldan:I have been dating this girl who already has a boyfriend. Who's the bad person? Me trying to break them up or her two timing? Or should i just play along?
that's breaking them up..Originally posted by thoreldan:hmm...when i started wooing her, she didnt tell me she's attached either. Only when i asked out her recently did she tell me. From out conversation, i know that she isnt very confident abt her current r/s. How shall I get her to make a decision, didnt wanna make her stressed up. -
Originally posted by thoreldan:I have been dating this girl who already has a boyfriend. Who's the bad person? Me trying to break them up or her two timing? Or should i just play along?
well, i feel it's quite normal and ok tt she's going out with you, since she's not confident in her current bf**. like what farmer brown says, just go with the flow, let her sort out her feelings, dun rush her to make decisions. at the same time u can get to know her better and to know better how she really feels abt u....Originally posted by thoreldan:hmm...when i started wooing her, she didnt tell me she's attached either. Only when i asked out her recently did she tell me. From out conversation, i know that she isnt very confident abt her current r/s. How shall I get her to make a decision, didnt wanna make her stressed up.
**the general rule of relationship in this world is tt ppl always try to get for themselves the most beautiful flower they can find in the garden...author unknown -
Originally posted by springtime:sorry side track:
Yun,have noticed you always ask this question .... just wonder what are the suppose characteristic of scorpio, pisces or cancer??