Does sex comes with love?

• torx

  23 Feb 04, 21:55

  Or does love comes with sex?
  
  For me. love and sex is 2 different thing.. if i love someone.. i'll never have any sexual thoughts about her... but if i want to have sex with someone... love will never cross my heart..
• weeeeeee.....

  23 Feb 04, 22:01

  Originally posted by torx:

  Or does love comes with sex?
  
  For me. love and sex is 2 different thing.. if i love someone.. i'll never have any sexual thoughts about her... but if i want to have sex with someone... love will never cross my heart..

  that's funny...
  
  altho i admit that love and sex r 2 different things... but if i love her, it'll be only be her if i am thinking of sex. if i'm thinking of sex, it'll be only be wif her that i wanna share my fantasies...
• torx

  23 Feb 04, 22:03

  hmmm.. but i personally think its an insult to think about a girl sexually... but doing it with her is different..
• _attitude_

  23 Feb 04, 22:05

  i tot in order to have sex with someone u have to love them... hehe
• aggg

  23 Feb 04, 22:07

  but now many pple thinks of sex wif love together wat ...but i personally hor,if i love her hor.....i dun really haf any sexual thoughts towards her
• weeeeeee.....

  23 Feb 04, 22:10

  well... i'm a horny person wh love sex. but i'm not loose... i only have sex wif the one i love... so instead of any other girls, why dont i think of the one i love when i'm having sexual thoughts?
• Farmer Brown

  23 Feb 04, 23:53

  Originally posted by torx:

  Or does love comes with sex?
  
  For me. love and sex is 2 different thing.. if i love someone.. i'll never have any sexual thoughts about her... but if i want to have sex with someone... love will never cross my heart..

  neither
• wuming78

  23 Feb 04, 23:54

  not necessarily.
• WrX_STi

  24 Feb 04, 00:09

  not neccessary la.. but sometimes sex do come after love..
• UandMe

  24 Feb 04, 00:14

  Originally posted by torx:
  
  For me. love and sex is 2 different thing.. if i love someone.. i'll never have any sexual thoughts about her... but if i want to have sex with someone... love will never cross my heart..

  is this talkingcock.com?
• Yunhaier

  24 Feb 04, 14:09

  Originally posted by torx:

  Or does love comes with sex?
  
  For me. love and sex is 2 different thing.. if i love someone.. i'll never have any sexual thoughts about her... but if i want to have sex with someone... love will never cross my heart..

  Then what if you eventually marry that person? The I presumed this sexual thought will then flow in?
  
  Moral is playing its part here not because of love.
  
  Yes, its true, studies has shown discipline is waiting will result in better conscience sexual marriage life because of the qualities shown from respecting one another to abstain. But because sex is such a subjective issue between couple, its never always the case now. Sex or abstain from it cannot guarantee you a harmonious path in relationship either.
  
  In our current society, people are practicing 'Series Monogamy' - in being responsible and solo having sexual relationship with one that they love. And that means only if they love their partner would they lay their hands on them. Of course, this has to be mutual. You will never enjoy sex with one party having all the pleasure and the other party worrying or feeling guility. It has to come from both.
  
  Cheers