subsitute...
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subsitute.. sometime i do feel tat after ppl break up, they tend to look for a new one to replace e old one.. y is tis so? isnt everyone diff n no one could ever replace another person? it is really a not good feeling to noe tat u r a subsitute.. cos u have given so much n in e end u still juz a replacement of another...
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i thought of it also, replace that special person, then maybe not so hurtOriginally posted by dreamybear:subsitute.. sometime i do feel tat after ppl break up, they tend to look for a new one to replace e old one.. y is tis so? isnt everyone diff n no one could ever replace another person? it is really a not good feeling to noe tat u r a subsitute.. cos u have given so much n in e end u still juz a replacement of another...
but after calming down for months, realise not everyone can be replaced 
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Originally posted by dreamybear:subsitute.. sometime i do feel tat after ppl break up, they tend to look for a new one to replace e old one.. y is tis so? isnt everyone diff n no one could ever replace another person? it is really a not good feeling to noe tat u r a subsitute.. cos u have given so much n in e end u still juz a replacement of another...
It usually happens after your first relationship or after an impact-felt relationship. People often regret/don't want to leave that relationship, but circumstance leaves them with no choice. Our mind lingers and longs for our past relationship. Our mind became saturated with great memories or at least cute qualities our previous mate exuded.
We pick the qualities we loved from them and take caution note about the ones we dislike.
In an instant - we created an illusionary lover from the core of our brains.
Then someone managed to fill the bill - the imaginative partner that exist; we entered into a relationship with them.
Eventually....
We learned that....
We will never able find the perfect lover. We realise we can only shape the perfect love from our imperfect lover.
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Wee Weet!!! It usually happens after your first relationship or after an impact-felt relationship. People often regret/don't want to leave that relationship, but circumstance leaves them with no choice. Our mind lingers and longs for our past relationship. Our mind became saturated with great memories or at least cute qualities our previous mate exuded.
We pick the qualities we loved from them and take caution note about the ones we dislike.
In an instant - we created an illusionary lover from the core of our brains.
Then someone managed to fill the bill - the imaginative partner that exist; we entered into a relationship with them.
Eventually....
We learned that....
We will never able find the perfect lover. [b]We realise we can only shape the perfect love from our imperfect lover.
Cheers [/b]
The quote is nice. -
It isn't fair...
Anyway..who wants to be a subsitute?
Haiz... -
1. Sometimes you'll never know...Originally posted by Patrik:It isn't fair...
Anyway..who wants to be a subsitute?
Haiz...
2. Sometimes you start off as a subsitute and end up overruling that position. -
Porter's 5 Competing Forces...Substitute products...
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Hmmm...
Maybe lo...
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no one wanna be a substitute
not fair to any side either
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substitute.. mayb another guy juz come along after a breakup and the ger happen to like lor.. in the end still cannot forget ex.. den end up substitute..
but no 1 like being a substitute.. i can say mayb we wan a new 1 to try get a new life and not thinking abt past.. but if it did not work out den its a sub lor.. but if it work out and forget ex.. we wont say it as a sub liao rite.. ? -
it may be easy to substitute someone, but it may not be easy to lie to oneself
