Originally posted by cia:
ok things begin like this... I got a crush or should I say I like this gal since I was 13, we are in same class. As I was too shy all these while, I only managed to talk to her for less than 50 sentences within these 10 years. After 7 or years 8 without seeing each other, I thought I had forgotten about her.
Recently, I caught up with her in a disco from a so called class gathering. That kind of weird feeling kindle me again. Worst of all, I received a surprise that she will be marrying this year.
So my question is this a long term crush or is there something wrong with my mentality? Every now and then, I will take a look at her picture.
Its natural.
Actually the people whom we fall for and love, has alot to do with our childhood. The beginning stage where love grew in us - the memories retains subconsciously. You are looking back at the past not with a hidden liking, but with a possible thinking: If she was with me, how would my life be like? This is because this crush was kept inside you and never had a chance to foster. Now that you preview it back - it's always a seed and the seed always feel the same. It would be much different if she was your ex. You already knew how the seed would be like when it mature into a young plant - the feelings thus, would be different.
Different people varies in different degrees.
Cheers