Powerful phrases or quotes needed.
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Hihi, this time need help,tink here think there, very stress over gf's hurting words...
i really appreciate if forumers here can help to provide/reply/advice/give/pity/help/tell/say words or phrases or groups of words to make my gf (now status is gf but heart already dunno go where) "Hui Xin (turn) Yi"
i wan to make my last attempt to move her heart once again, if it cannot work on her, den hv to let her go liao..... -
i believe action speaks louder than words.
you have to show your sincerity -
she now oversea...when she come back i hv to 1 time make her heart melt,tears drop...now also dunno if she still hv heart for me or not..i jus test my luck...pls help...i know action speaks louder den words...but she say got love no feeling,,wait no change i die .so if really no chance, i stil can write a letter containing al the most power love things to her her remember me or mayb come back to me...
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how to got love and feel nothing? maybe trying to test your reaction? if it's due to seperation, then shouldn't be a big problem unless... she met someone.
pick her up at the airport, cover her mouth with yours (make sure its a long passionate kiss) n see how see react before u can act. -
blunt, u see my other post,the "advice needed" den u know...
She work in pub, got ppl wan to sian her, what can i do, te most is stop only mah, but if her heart fly there liao, i cock mah.....
Den she tell me Got Ai No Qing... -
shall we go ROM?
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If u realli think she is worthy of ur love, then follow ur heart.
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i hope you fail. really...if i was your gf, i would be damn disappointed that you sought for quotes from other people to move her heart.
YOU should be doing it. you should be the one and you are the person in the best position to do so. we don't know what you've been thru and even if we give our best quotes phrases etc. we will never be able to see it the way you have already seen it.
u really want her back, use your heart. dig deep into that heart of yours and i'm sure you'll figure out something. thats the best advice i can give to you. Good luck! -
think she wants to break up with you more than you want it.
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I somewhat agree with Brown.
No matter how power, how eloquent your language, how wonderful and accurate the sentence phrased, how heavenly the use of vocab and finally how much of quotes you would use.
Nothing could match the sincerity and honesty from your heart.
I guess you must been very half hearted thru this time, i think you're prepared for the worst, in fact, starting to pack your emotional bag.....that's why the effort that you wish to make out of a letter is also half hearted. Very saddening indeed...
May i ask? Where are all those things/words/thoughts in your heart which you wanted to pour(Yes literally meaing it) out, express to her?
If you would just search the truth from depths of your heart and write or do anything!, if you truly love her like what you've claimed. You shall realise that you can write endlessly....never tiring.
Of cos! you can be someone doesn't really know how to express yourself. Come on my friend...if this is the last straw and you're not going to do something about it........my sincere advise to you is to admit that you have to go this time. Retreat.
My signature below is a quote which taught me something after a unfortunate relationship.
You'll have one too....from your heart.
Hope you'll write a good one.
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Originally posted by Farmer Brown:i hope you fail. really...if i was your gf, i would be damn disappointed that you sought for quotes from other people to move her heart.
YOU should be doing it. you should be the one and you are the person in the best position to do so. we don't know what you've been thru and even if we give our best quotes phrases etc. we will never be able to see it the way you have already seen it.
u really want her back, use your heart. dig deep into that heart of yours and i'm sure you'll figure out something. thats the best advice i can give to you. Good luck!
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wherever u go.. whatever u do...... blah blah.
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i acn only say i was a gangster in te past,i also know here many ppl older den me, i started very younge, at tat time is fire & canto,i go in sparks at age bout 13,i'm tat type tat see ppl wil "stare " & get into fights, there was once i kanna chop in geylang, lying on te floor at lor 7, got come out Sin MIn newspaper 1,she came to cover me,tat y i say we over come many things,from her dropping of hairs til knn when on drug to time when she go for abortion(i know i really a faileur), she is also te 1 tat make me wan to settle down.
Who the hell will dun wan a lady that can dun wan her life to save yours.u tel me lah...so tats y i cling on tightly.........i feel tat between 2 ppl tat started off wid thinking to test it out,meaning no foundation,hv to get marry before 3rd or 4th yr,so if anything happen, stil can talk mah..i dun wan to go so much into details...i can only say.pls help me even if u can,even if u wan to use the term to "PITY" me,i really appreciate,cos even i mentally strong person, wil stress up when too much things come at 1 time.. -
Bro, i wish u the bestOriginally posted by bo liao:i acn only say i was a gangster in te past,i also know here many ppl older den me, i started very younge, at tat time is fire & canto,i go in sparks at age bout 13,i'm tat type tat see ppl wil "stare " & get into fights, there was once i kanna chop in geylang, lying on te floor at lor 7, got come out Sin MIn newspaper 1,she came to cover me,tat y i say we over come many things,from her dropping of hairs til knn when on drug to time when she go for abortion(i know i really a faileur), she is also te 1 tat make me wan to settle down.
Who the hell will dun wan a lady that can dun wan her life to save yours.u tel me lah...so tats y i cling on tightly.........i feel tat between 2 ppl tat started off wid thinking to test it out,meaning no foundation,hv to get marry before 3rd or 4th yr,so if anything happen, stil can talk mah..i dun wan to go so much into details...i can only say.pls help me even if u wan to use the term to ity me,i dun mind,cos even i mentally strong person, wil stress up when too much things come at 1 time.. -
If she really bian sim or bo sim liao, nothing can be done. U should know this is woman. But still... don give up.Originally posted by bo liao:i acn only say i was a gangster in te past,i also know here many ppl older den me, i started very younge, at tat time is fire & canto,i go in sparks at age bout 13,i'm tat type tat see ppl wil "stare " & get into fights, there was once i kanna chop in geylang, lying on te floor at lor 7, got come out Sin MIn newspaper 1,she came to cover me,tat y i say we over come many things,from her dropping of hairs til knn when on drug to time when she go for abortion(i know i really a faileur), she is also te 1 tat make me wan to settle down.
Who the hell will dun wan a lady that can dun wan her life to save yours.u tel me lah...so tats y i cling on tightly.........i feel tat between 2 ppl tat started off wid thinking to test it out,meaning no foundation,hv to get marry before 3rd or 4th yr,so if anything happen, stil can talk mah..i dun wan to go so much into details...i can only say.pls help me even if u wan to use the term to ity me,i dun mind,cos even i mentally strong person, wil stress up when too much things come at 1 time.. -
forgot to add, don give up dosen't mean to pester or threaten her hor, tis will make things worse.
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Farmer Brown, fyi, i hv alot already prepare a lot liao,should be enough,most my friend see liao al heart sour,if u wan u send me a mes, i wil type to let u see wat i write, who knows, mayb 1day u wil need wat i compose,sorry, no offence
for example, i now use a short virson, guy is A lady is B.
A&B were in love, A go overseas to work, B meet wid accidentally in singapore,Lost her voice,she dun wan A know,2 yrs liao,B friend tel B that A is back. B move home to get on wid life,
A year later,the lady's friend came to her & handed her a wedding invitation card of the guy....lady heart shattered, but beside crying is still crying,at night, the guys came to her house,standing in the rain & used Sign language to tel her, i use a year to learn sign language,I have not forgotten our promise,let me have the chance to be your voice.....short version is lik tat,if u put ur heart to read, u can feel the pain i'm having...or any normal ppl tat really read,will feel heart sour...of cos here is only little bit, lots of moving words i never use..
So pls help if u can, ..thanks.
here is Aunty agony, if any1 tat hv problem post here & get al their post lik tat,(i mean sound hurting but i know wat u mean lah) den wat is the purpose of te forum lea]?(i know wat u mean in replying, i hv to work for my own future)but if can also add in..ok?[/color]if here is pour cold water forum, i can say, when i post if there is such a forum, i sure kanna banned,or wil end up settling things outside mah..rite, so help if u can lor...but anyway, appriciate u to reply even ur reply is abit out ...but thanks anyway,if can do inculde wat u tink wil move heart.I'm sure u ever hv tis type of situation b4,so if can pls help, i stress den i come to seek help mah,if not,u tink i very free to type so many mea, i stil hv to find money to pay vehicle loan,instalments, i dunno how old R you, but if u r lik me 22,mayb u stil live wid ur parents,still studying or should be enjoying life at mohd sultan,i dunno, but fo me,i very long never chiong cos i hv lots of"FU DAN" only go wid my tat gf to sing ka-la-ok,cos tats her hobby,my dad never come back cos got other women,mother down wid diabetics,sometime work,sometime never work,u tink i dun wan to enjoys liafe ah, i 22 only lea,,,i still younge, but i cannot..!>!!>!>!>!. still hv a brother who is schooling....if u were me wid so much things to settle every month, u will also wil be stress mah..correct.Mayb u more fortunate den me.But to me i'm tat type, once i step wrong one step,i wil wrong al te way,jus lik i tel my gf, even if she has to lie to me, lie to me 4ever, cos i dun wan to be hurt when i know the cruel truth. -
Originally posted by bo liao:Hihi, this time need help,tink here think there, very stress over gf's hurting words...
i really appreciate if forumers here can help to provide/reply/advice/give/pity/help/tell/say words or phrases or groups of words to make my gf (now status is gf but heart already dunno go where) "Hui Xin (turn) Yi"
i wan to make my last attempt to move her heart once again, if it cannot work on her, den hv to let her go liao.....
No structured form for you to memorise and reprint them back to her - in love, if there are such solutions, I guess I would be writing books and people all over the world would be at least 50% freed from the love related-problems.
Because there is no model answer, we usually follow the one that make the most sense to us personally and what I have got to say about your situations, I had already mentioned.
Here's a good guide for you to go through:
I) Things you didn't said before (kept it in your heart), it's high time to mention them now. Start from the past and begin from there. All the emotions, feelings, your vulnerable secret, your weakness, your flaws, your tears, you hurts, your everything - you pictured them into words and go through as if you are telling her a story about you, from your point of preception, someting that she never realise.
II) Then seek to understand this story, again, from her side of the view also. She may then be very emotionally and say things she never would in normal days.
II) Then, talk about future of your relationship. If there is no past, there will be no present. If present is screwed, future will be screwed. There must be a mutual agreement and saying about what you people see about your relationship. Relationship is like business - they don't fail until you call it quit or when you see zero future, zero market for your business. But there is a small gleam of hope - capture that.
Keep communication flowing. This is not a trashing, chat nor a threatening session - this is about you and her - your inner self speaks.
Good luck? You need them.
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er.. i dun have much advice as i nvr been thru a bgr b4.Jus wanna say dun do things tat will make u regret when u look back .Regret is really a terrible feeling.
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Err, dumb question, but have you actually said to her what you've written above? It looks like a good start to what you mean to say.Originally posted by bo liao:i acn only say i was a gangster in te past,i also know here many ppl older den me, i started very younge, at tat time is fire & canto,i go in sparks at age bout 13,i'm tat type tat see ppl wil "stare " & get into fights, there was once i kanna chop in geylang, lying on te floor at lor 7, got come out Sin MIn newspaper 1,she came to cover me,tat y i say we over come many things,from her dropping of hairs til knn when on drug to time when she go for abortion(i know i really a faileur), she is also te 1 tat make me wan to settle down.
Who the hell will dun wan a lady that can dun wan her life to save yours.u tel me lah...so tats y i cling on tightly.........i feel tat between 2 ppl tat started off wid thinking to test it out,meaning no foundation,hv to get marry before 3rd or 4th yr,so if anything happen, stil can talk mah -
say b4 liao,al te things we went through,but of cos i also disappoint her b4,she is tat type very the remember bad things gd things remember abit only....she only look sad and keep quiet.she say no feeling liao...that's where i stuck lor..die liao...
i called her ask,"seriously, wat do u take me as?she reply Boyfriend,den i ask who do u tink the guy(meaning wan to sian hertat she know at pub) is better or me? she say she dunno....
den i ask can u comferm tat tat guy is not sian u for sex only & is able to love u even if 5 yrs down te road, she kept quiet....there is when i feel "somehow, got light shining liao"
but stil unsure of her feeling towards me, as if she really stop her heart,i ver hard to turn it back....got to do something des-da-strious liao,see can help or not, but mind is empty,also cannot sleep at al,stil got tears flow down when i dream of her,now is i everyday night keep making myself damm tired den rest, but 2 hrs later auto wake up....den lie on bed stare at the empty bed..... -
Silly
Instead of asking us here, why dun u tell her somethg from the heart? That wld be more genuine, & more sincere, whether or Not she goes back to u...
RPOriginally posted by bo liao:Hihi, this time need help,tink here think there, very stress over gf's hurting words...
i really appreciate if forumers here can help to provide/reply/advice/give/pity/help/tell/say words or phrases or groups of words to make my gf (now status is gf but heart already dunno go where) "Hui Xin (turn) Yi"
i wan to make my last attempt to move her heart once again, if it cannot work on her, den hv to let her go liao.....