Do all girls take so much risk in their relationship?
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I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too???
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then go sian her n make her ur bao bei.. n make sure u would never hurt her can liao....Originally posted by towkay168:I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too??? -
Not all girls. Most girls do. But the same goes for guys as well. Some guys put everything into their relationship and still get hurt in the end.
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weee u weeee. stead lar... 5^Originally posted by the Bear:read below.. -
no risk = no gain, ie if you don't risk your all to find out if a person is THE one, you'll probably not know if he/she will stick by you through life's trials & tribulations
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like true-x says.. if you do not risk all, or do not dare to risk all, is it really love?
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are you one of the people who treasures her and feels hurt when she get's hurt? if yes. tell her exactly that. not! just be her close friend and let her know you are always there to pick her up when she falls. never confess over your dead body. otherwise we might see more of you on Aunt Agony's!Originally posted by towkay168:I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too??? -
its not a trait of the female species. its actually a trait that exsists in the depths of people willing to give their life up for love. it happened to me before, not sure if i want it to happen again but thats just it. if life was less cruel, these type of people would meet more often and fall in love to live out long loving lasting lives, while those bast*rds and b*tches who toy with people's hearts will all burn in hell. hee hee... relax...just be there for her when she falls. u won't be able to catch her, but at least she's got someone to help her back on her feetOriginally posted by towkay168:I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too??? -
yup burn dem in hellOriginally posted by Farmer Brown:its not a trait of the female species. its actually a trait that exsists in the depths of people willing to give their life up for love. it happened to me before, not sure if i want it to happen again but thats just it. if life was less cruel, these type of people would meet more often and fall in love to live out long loving lasting lives, while those bast*rds and b*tches who toy with people's hearts will all burn in hell. hee hee... relax...just be there for her when she falls. u won't be able to catch her, but at least she's got someone to help her back on her feet
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Some guys put more into the relationship.
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kinda hard to compare. What's the yardstick? -
yardstick? ah i dun think u could set a benchmark or draw a line...its how u feel i guess
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yes... x2..Originally posted by ditzy:Not all girls. Most girls do. But the same goes for guys as well. Some guys put everything into their relationship and still get hurt in the end.
not all ger hurt as well, there are some cases dat guy do hurts too.. -
Actually i wil not say girls take risk, i wil put in in tis way.
>>they r looking for someone that can gv them happiness,if cannot, they keep on doing it.
Meaning to say if ur lady friend is wid ur friend1,they did not work out, den the lady boring, lonely & go look for another guy,which she tink MAY be better,which again mayb ur friend 2, den again dun work out, den they mayb continue in serching for the better guy lor..... -
U stated that when gals fall in luv they put htemselves in risk. Y not put it other ways round, guys contribute more risk than gals. Gals tend to spent on gf, to giv the best to the gf, tend to protect gfs even to the extend of hurting our body. But sometime in the end things change n end up the gal leaving the guy speechless. The gals juz pai pai pi gu ju chow.
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yea.. i am an advocateOriginally posted by the Bear:read below.. -
You expect her to hide in a shell forever?Originally posted by towkay168:I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too??? -
being in relationship is the happiest moment of life
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How old is she ??? maybe she scare "left on the shelf ?"Originally posted by towkay168:I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too??? -
Like they say, no pain no gainOriginally posted by towkay168:I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too???
Plus .. being in a r/s is already taking the risk .. if u dun put in, how do u know it will work out? I guess given the same senario and outcome, she might still do the same?? -
It should be the others way.Originally posted by towkay168:I've a close female friend who has been hurt in relationship before. But why? why? Does she keep putting herself in danger to get hurt again and again.? She know's that its risky, but she says at lest she feels happy now.... Are most girls like her? Does she know that when she get's hurt, all the ppl who treasure her get hurt too???
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Not necessarily? Thought you've been through it?Originally posted by antoh:being in relationship is the happiest moment of life
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Actually i wil not say girls take risk, i wil put in in tis way.
>>they r looking for someone that can gv them happiness,if cannot, they keep on doing it.
Meaning to say if ur lady friend is wid ur friend1,they did not work out, den the lady boring, lonely & go look for another guy,which she tink MAY be better,which again mayb ur friend 2, den again dun work out, den they mayb continue in serching for the better guy lor.....
not all gal r like tt
in a relationship love cant be measurable
in a relationship hurt cant be measurable
in a relationship happiness cant be measurable....
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American studies i read about long ago stated that females are attracted to mysterious "danger". Which would explain why most of the time nice guys finish last while all the bad boys get all the girls.