does your bf love freedom or prefer to stick with u often??Originally posted by krispy:My bf used to loved me alot & he has nv bothered to entertain any gals but we quarrelled once & separated for abt 1-2 wks before getting back 2gethr... however over the past few mths, i realised tat he haf changed..i noticed a few gals' contacts in his hp & gals frm nowhere "pop" out ... i questioned him abt it but he claims tat its his fren who intro to him but he has nv contacted dem before...
shld i believe him?? i used to trust him 100% but now... things are juz appearing to be too much of a coincidence...
can u ppl out there hlp me on this?? M i being too paranoid??![]()
changed changed lor dump him.... find mi lor... hahaOriginally posted by krispy:My bf used to loved me alot & he has nv bothered to entertain any gals but we quarrelled once & separated for abt 1-2 wks before getting back 2gethr... however over the past few mths, i realised tat he haf changed..i noticed a few gals' contacts in his hp & gals frm nowhere "pop" out ... i questioned him abt it but he claims tat its his fren who intro to him but he has nv contacted dem before...
shld i believe him?? i used to trust him 100% but now... things are juz appearing to be too much of a coincidence...
can u ppl out there hlp me on this?? M i being too paranoid??![]()
Not neccesarily being too paranoid. You have certain grounds for your doubts, but the main issue is not to overreact for the time being?Originally posted by krispy:My bf used to loved me alot & he has nv bothered to entertain any gals but we quarrelled once & separated for abt 1-2 wks before getting back 2gethr... however over the past few mths, i realised tat he haf changed..i noticed a few gals' contacts in his hp & gals frm nowhere "pop" out ... i questioned him abt it but he claims tat its his fren who intro to him but he has nv contacted dem before...
shld i believe him?? i used to trust him 100% but now... things are juz appearing to be too much of a coincidence...
can u ppl out there hlp me on this?? M i being too paranoid??![]()
he afraid another seperation so he already look for other gal fren...? dun put so much expectations in the relationship, the more u wan, the more disappointment/or quarrels u will get...Originally posted by krispy:My bf used to loved me alot & he has nv bothered to entertain any gals but we quarrelled once & separated for abt 1-2 wks before getting back 2gethr... however over the past few mths, i realised tat he haf changed..i noticed a few gals' contacts in his hp & gals frm nowhere "pop" out ... i questioned him abt it but he claims tat its his fren who intro to him but he has nv contacted dem before...
shld i believe him?? i used to trust him 100% but now... things are juz appearing to be too much of a coincidence...
can u ppl out there hlp me on this?? M i being too paranoid??![]()
1) mayb he realised he need his own time?Originally posted by krispy:Hi ppl.. thx for all the suggestions .. but the thing is
1) he used to stick to me all the time, & he'll spend every min of his free time with me
2) i tried toking to him but he always say tat i'm over-sensitive & tries to avoid the topic or sum x even gets angry saying i doubt him
3) he used to check my hp for new guys' no. but i nv did tat to him, its only this once...
4) he doesn't like me to tok to guys & wun even allow me to go clubbing w/o him, but yet he's knwing other gals.. i feel its not being fair...
I dunno if his feelings for me have lessened, but woman's instincts tell me so.....[/quote]
Originally posted by krispy:Hi ppl.. thx for all the suggestions .. but the thing is
1) he used to stick to me all the time, & he'll spend every min of his free time with me
2) i tried toking to him but he always say tat i'm over-sensitive & tries to avoid the topic or sum x even gets angry saying i doubt him
3) he used to check my hp for new guys' no. but i nv did tat to him, its only this once...
4) he doesn't like me to tok to guys & wun even allow me to go clubbing w/o him, but yet he's knwing other gals.. i feel its not being fair...
I dunno if his feelings for me have lessened, but woman's instincts tell me so.....[/quote]
i always believe in tit for tat. the fact that he's knowing other girls yet forbidding you to do the same, to me is totally unacceptable, unreasonable and there can be no excuse. the main issue here is, he's no longer 100% reliable as he's amassing the capability leave you for other girls. i suggest you make yourself more in demand and find yourself a back-up boyfriend to match him.Originally posted by krispy:Hi ppl.. thx for all the suggestions .. but the thing is
1) he used to stick to me all the time, & he'll spend every min of his free time with me
2) i tried toking to him but he always say tat i'm over-sensitive & tries to avoid the topic or sum x even gets angry saying i doubt him
3) he used to check my hp for new guys' no. but i nv did tat to him, its only this once...
4) he doesn't like me to tok to guys & wun even allow me to go clubbing w/o him, but yet he's knwing other gals.. i feel its not being fair...
I dunno if his feelings for me have lessened, but woman's instincts tell me so.....[/quote]