am i stupid or what?
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7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn -
*sayang*
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u not stupid
he is stupid not to want u
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a heart wrenching and sorrowful post.
forget abt this guy. as a guy, i dun understand why some guys would want to ask their gf to wait a year for them. what's there to wait? i see it more like an insurance. in this one year, he will try to find another, not necessary a better one. if he succeeded, he will tell you at the end of one year (or less), that he realises you and him are not possible together. if he failed, he will come back to you like a boy with a wounded ego.
at the point when he asked you to wait 365 long torturing and lonely days, his heart is longer with you. forget him. pick yourself up ok. you have my sympathy and spiritual support.
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You have done no wrong to love him, everyone is free to love. However, one day, you have to accept that he has found someone else.Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn
Your heart has to move on.
If the person you love is happier with someone else, let the person go.
Why? You might askÂ…
If you truly love someone, you would want that person to be happy. And seeing the person you love being happy, will naturally make you happy. If you dunch feel happy about it, then I can tell you honestly its not true love that you have for that person.
ThereÂ’s three stages in a relationship,
1) lust/honeymoon stage lasts for 3 – 6mths
2) Attachment stage 6-12mths
3) Commitment stage 1-4yrs
Do not fret, love is all around us! -
you are not stupid and you are not alone. I am like you. I love my gf. although I am not sure if she had left me for another guy, but I cried almost everytime I think abt the happy time we had together. frankly, I will not want to hide. I had sex with her almost every nite we wanted to. although I tell myself it not just for sex I want to be with her. but I really enjoyed being with her. with all the quarrels, unhappiness, I miss them. I miss the hugs her nagging and her kiss. and also, although I am not like you had waited for 7 months, I left my 1 month was the longest time of my life. I went drinking whenever I really can't take it. cried after every drink. but what can I do to win her back? I really want her back... I want to get married and grow old with her. all that is what she wanted, but now she say her heart is die and don't want all that anymore. I don't believe she don't love me anymore. during the process of breaking up, I hurt my arm and she was so concern. she still have me in her heart, I can feel it. but just is what made her having the decision to break up with me, I really don't know. who can tell me. I have posted something abt this matter here b4 as 'break up sorrows'. can search and ready abt it and you will understand further how I feel. I still love her.
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cheer up lah.. haha 3mth very long already what. haha my ex 1 mth only got new bf already. haha..so many guy queueing to jio u now right. haha go find other better guy lah. ......come jio mi lah.. mi better than him one. haha
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sad thing to hear, tat guy veri bad... but all u can do is move on... there r many more man out there deserved ur love....Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn -
Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn
A requested wait never has its turn. Only non-requested wait under influnce of fate, karmic and bonds will return. Believe it or not.
So you thought it was a promise from him? It is a scam from him; to make you wait and in case he couldn't move on, he would have a pilow to fall back. You may be foolish previously for one year - but you are not going to be now. You will make this guy feel that he has made a wrong move - he will regret playing you like a fool.
Show him that you will lead a better life without him. You love him, no doubt, but he doesn't deserve your love.
Cheers -
ask him personally. make him explain and then dump him. find better guys to spite him.Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn -
Haha!! A week before we break up, my ex swore that she likes no one else. A day after we broke up, she tell me she likes someone else whom she said it's impossible a week ago... then another day later, she says she love him. A couple more days, they're together and less than a week of being together they frenched kissed! Whoa... I'm feeling... cranky! =p Btw, my break up was on 29th feb~! =)Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):cheer up lah.. haha 3mth very long already what. haha my ex 1 mth only got new bf already. haha..so many guy queueing to jio u now right. haha go find other better guy lah. ......come jio mi lah.. mi better than him one. haha
Screwed up huh... -
Why do you know all these tiny details?Originally posted by GwenSilvz:Haha!! A week before we break up, my ex swore that she likes no one else. A day after we broke up, she tell me she likes someone else whom she said it's impossible a week ago... then another day later, she says she love him. A couple more days, they're together and less than a week of being together they frenched kissed! Whoa... I'm feeling... cranky! =p Btw, my break up was on 29th feb~! =)
Screwed up huh...
HEHHE.. i think someone is a stalker. -
move on... look forward..
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That is the worst thing you/or anyone can do... use someone to spite someone else! Its a stupid childish act... in the end, you end up hurting yourself, the person you used...Originally posted by boy in blues:ask him personally. make him explain and then dump him. find better guys to spite him. -
izzit to get a new bf to forget the past? izzit fair? coz i think itz unfair to the new bf.... so i rather choose to forget him then move on.
izzit true that if u love a person, u see him happy with his gf , u will feel happy for him? for me... i wish him all the best, acting strong, but in my heart pain like hell. cry in the dark... -
Actually, 1 month is quite short... realistically, the time you spent with the person/or how long the relationship lasted, divide by 2 sometimes by 3 or 4 if the relationship lasted over a year+. That is the amount of time, it will take you to put that person behind you.Originally posted by snowep:you are not stupid and you are not alone. I am like you. I love my gf. although I am not sure if she had left me for another guy, but I cried almost everytime I think abt the happy time we had together. frankly, I will not want to hide. I had sex with her almost every nite we wanted to. although I tell myself it not just for sex I want to be with her. but I really enjoyed being with her. with all the quarrels, unhappiness, I miss them. I miss the hugs her nagging and her kiss. and also, although I am not like you had waited for 7 months, I left my 1 month was the longest time of my life. I went drinking whenever I really can't take it. cried after every drink. but what can I do to win her back? I really want her back... I want to get married and grow old with her. all that is what she wanted, but now she say her heart is die and don't want all that anymore. I don't believe she don't love me anymore. during the process of breaking up, I hurt my arm and she was so concern. she still have me in her heart, I can feel it. but just is what made her having the decision to break up with me, I really don't know. who can tell me. I have posted something abt this matter here b4 as 'break up sorrows'. can search and ready abt it and you will understand further how I feel. I still love her.
You never really forget about the experiences you had with that person, but you should always remember the happy ones and leave behind the sad memories. At the end of the day, be it when you're old, you can reflect on a colorful past you have had, and realize its the people you meet, you befriend, you cherish and to hold that is important and made a significant impact on your life.
Be merry.
*Warning* Please do not do anything silly like hurting or killing yourself. You will only regret it. -
yeah.... U STALKER! wahahahaOriginally posted by GwenSilvz:Haha!! A week before we break up, my ex swore that she likes no one else. A day after we broke up, she tell me she likes someone else whom she said it's impossible a week ago... then another day later, she says she love him. A couple more days, they're together and less than a week of being together they frenched kissed! Whoa... I'm feeling... cranky! =p Btw, my break up was on 29th feb~! =)
Screwed up huh...
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I think getting close to another guy helps... toy with him baa... hahahaha~! I think seeing ur ex with someone else and still happy with it is bullshit! You need friends now! Go look for them!Originally posted by akino:izzit to get a new bf to forget the past? izzit fair? coz i think itz unfair to the new bf.... so i rather choose to forget him then move on.
izzit true that if u love a person, u see him happy with his gf , u will feel happy for him? for me... i wish him all the best, acting strong, but in my heart pain like hell. cry in the dark... -
We still talk!!!!Originally posted by Lingos:Why do you know all these tiny details?
HEHHE.. i think someone is a stalker. -
I was joking duh.Originally posted by GwenSilvz:We still talk!!!!
Exes need to be axed. -
life is full of ups and downs...
sometimes... u might have done something which offended him without you noeing it... instead of suffering in silence... confront him... ask him wat's wrong... ask him to choose between u n the gal... -
Ewk... toy with other people's feelings so that you can get over your bad feelings is really bad!!!! Shame on you!Originally posted by GwenSilvz:I think getting close to another guy helps... toy with him baa... hahahaha~! I think seeing ur ex with someone else and still happy with it is bullshit! You need friends now! Go look for them!
I think seeing people happy is a good thing. Hoping people you hate/loved died a horrible death is a bad thing.
Your last advice was the best one, turning to friends for comfort and to get more involved, meet more people, get busy... -
I agree completely. I only realize it yesterday after my bike lessons. initially, I wanted to get a bike licence and if one day I am not careful get knock down and die. but after getting through the stages during the lessons, I feel so happy to move up to different stages of that practical. then when I got through, I was so happy. so I agree with you on concentrate on other things. don't think abt bad times. enjoy good times. then you will not feel bad. I am planning to pass my bike and get a small cc one and ride and enjoy my life instead of the idea to ride and get knock down. that is all rubbishOriginally posted by :Ewk... toy with other people's feelings so that you can get over your bad feelings is really bad!!!! Shame on you!
I think seeing people happy is a good thing. Hoping people you hate/loved died a horrible death is a bad thing.
Your last advice was the best one, turning to friends for comfort and to get more involved, meet more people, get busy... -
if u still wait for him ur stupid...not worth it lar..hes a jerk!Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn