You have done no wrong to love him, everyone is free to love. However, one day, you have to accept that he has found someone else.Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn
sad thing to hear, tat guy veri bad... but all u can do is move on... there r many more man out there deserved ur love....Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn
Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn
ask him personally. make him explain and then dump him. find better guys to spite him.Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn
Haha!! A week before we break up, my ex swore that she likes no one else. A day after we broke up, she tell me she likes someone else whom she said it's impossible a week ago... then another day later, she says she love him. A couple more days, they're together and less than a week of being together they frenched kissed! Whoa... I'm feeling... cranky! =p Btw, my break up was on 29th feb~! =)Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):cheer up lah.. haha 3mth very long already what. haha my ex 1 mth only got new bf already. haha..so many guy queueing to jio u now right. haha go find other better guy lah. ......come jio mi lah.. mi better than him one. haha
Why do you know all these tiny details?Originally posted by GwenSilvz:Haha!! A week before we break up, my ex swore that she likes no one else. A day after we broke up, she tell me she likes someone else whom she said it's impossible a week ago... then another day later, she says she love him. A couple more days, they're together and less than a week of being together they frenched kissed! Whoa... I'm feeling... cranky! =p Btw, my break up was on 29th feb~! =)
Screwed up huh...
That is the worst thing you/or anyone can do... use someone to spite someone else! Its a stupid childish act... in the end, you end up hurting yourself, the person you used...Originally posted by boy in blues:ask him personally. make him explain and then dump him. find better guys to spite him.
Actually, 1 month is quite short... realistically, the time you spent with the person/or how long the relationship lasted, divide by 2 sometimes by 3 or 4 if the relationship lasted over a year+. That is the amount of time, it will take you to put that person behind you.Originally posted by snowep:you are not stupid and you are not alone. I am like you. I love my gf. although I am not sure if she had left me for another guy, but I cried almost everytime I think abt the happy time we had together. frankly, I will not want to hide. I had sex with her almost every nite we wanted to. although I tell myself it not just for sex I want to be with her. but I really enjoyed being with her. with all the quarrels, unhappiness, I miss them. I miss the hugs her nagging and her kiss. and also, although I am not like you had waited for 7 months, I left my 1 month was the longest time of my life. I went drinking whenever I really can't take it. cried after every drink. but what can I do to win her back? I really want her back... I want to get married and grow old with her. all that is what she wanted, but now she say her heart is die and don't want all that anymore. I don't believe she don't love me anymore. during the process of breaking up, I hurt my arm and she was so concern. she still have me in her heart, I can feel it. but just is what made her having the decision to break up with me, I really don't know. who can tell me. I have posted something abt this matter here b4 as 'break up sorrows'. can search and ready abt it and you will understand further how I feel. I still love her.
yeah.... U STALKER! wahahahaOriginally posted by GwenSilvz:Haha!! A week before we break up, my ex swore that she likes no one else. A day after we broke up, she tell me she likes someone else whom she said it's impossible a week ago... then another day later, she says she love him. A couple more days, they're together and less than a week of being together they frenched kissed! Whoa... I'm feeling... cranky! =p Btw, my break up was on 29th feb~! =)
Screwed up huh...
I think getting close to another guy helps... toy with him baa... hahahaha~! I think seeing ur ex with someone else and still happy with it is bullshit! You need friends now! Go look for them!Originally posted by akino:izzit to get a new bf to forget the past? izzit fair? coz i think itz unfair to the new bf.... so i rather choose to forget him then move on.
izzit true that if u love a person, u see him happy with his gf , u will feel happy for him? for me... i wish him all the best, acting strong, but in my heart pain like hell. cry in the dark...![]()
We still talk!!!!Originally posted by Lingos:Why do you know all these tiny details?
HEHHE.. i think someone is a stalker.
I was joking duh.Originally posted by GwenSilvz:We still talk!!!!
Ewk... toy with other people's feelings so that you can get over your bad feelings is really bad!!!! Shame on you!Originally posted by GwenSilvz:I think getting close to another guy helps... toy with him baa... hahahaha~! I think seeing ur ex with someone else and still happy with it is bullshit! You need friends now! Go look for them!
I agree completely. I only realize it yesterday after my bike lessons. initially, I wanted to get a bike licence and if one day I am not careful get knock down and die. but after getting through the stages during the lessons, I feel so happy to move up to different stages of that practical. then when I got through, I was so happy. so I agree with you on concentrate on other things. don't think abt bad times. enjoy good times. then you will not feel bad. I am planning to pass my bike and get a small cc one and ride and enjoy my life instead of the idea to ride and get knock down. that is all rubbishOriginally posted by :Ewk... toy with other people's feelings so that you can get over your bad feelings is really bad!!!! Shame on you!
I think seeing people happy is a good thing. Hoping people you hate/loved died a horrible death is a bad thing.
Your last advice was the best one, turning to friends for comfort and to get more involved, meet more people, get busy...
if u still wait for him ur stupid...not worth it lar..hes a jerk!Originally posted by akino:7 months passed, thinking of u everyday... cried almost everyday. the last night we met, u said u would come back to me. u asked me to wait for u for 1 yr, coz u have something to settle. i waited.... but juz 3 months pass.... u found a girlfriend? Ur friend told me.... itz juz like a knife stab me in my heart.... i cried that very day. i questioned myself Y? Y? Y? Did u ever ever ever love me? when we were together, did u ever love me? i tot for very long. The ans is yes. i felt loved by u. but y this come to the end? i still keeping my promise. i will wait for u. i cant forget the times we had together... i cant forget u. why we cant have another chance together... i hope u listen to the cd i burn for u. "from the bottom of my broken heart". I still wear the ring u gave me. i wish to see u. but i scare i cant take it, to see u with ur gf. What have i done wrong? i miss ur hug very much very much....
love, lyn