Originally posted by bismarck:i just spent 1 hr arguing with my parents anything from computers to how my sch mates are treating me,how ppl screw up in the most impossible ways and yet have to swallow it all down,how i shld shut the fark up when hijack the prac and do everything on my own without any input from lab partner and we get the best results?
it seems i cant communicate with my parents..especially with my dad. i cant see waht he wants me to do things. when i do something and he many times just out of the blue tell me he wants he this way want it that way but he made no mention of it. then he says he wanna train me on it but problem is,when i try to anticipate what he wants and he will tell me not to act smart and follow instructions when it is given. like whatever i do he will change the damn goalpost. he is never happy with whatever i do.
he everytime nvr allows me to talk and he just scolds me or tells me off. then when i interrupt and explain why i did this or did that, he will say he is not scolding me but he is telling me how this world works. i am not aganist his idea of telling me how this world works because i do have to admit because of his job nature he meets up with all kinds of morons at work with more conspiracy plans than hollywood has scripts. but he is always changing his side of story to fit himself. it;s like trying to search for oil when someone tells u it;s in the middle of pacific ocean. u go ard trying to search for a tiny spot in the world's largest ocean.
it;s not just this arguement that is really pressing me.
i am also facing pressure from school to perform and also to handup so many assignments given 1-2 weeks before a week's break and handup so many on day 1. 1 lecturer asks everyone individually whether he/she needs extension or something. some ppl havent even started yet.
then i am also facing problems with some modules because i am really lost in some of them.
and also because i am buying some parts for the com, the vendor i am dealing with is hopelessly unprofessional and confused. revised and revised specs and still CMI.
sigh...
I believe you're a BIOTECH student... In NP?Originally posted by bismarck:i just spent 1 hr arguing with my parents anything from computers to how my sch mates are treating me,how ppl screw up in the most impossible ways and yet have to swallow it all down,how i shld shut the fark up when hijack the prac and do everything on my own without any input from lab partner and we get the best results?
it seems i cant communicate with my parents..especially with my dad. i cant see waht he wants me to do things. when i do something and he many times just out of the blue tell me he wants he this way want it that way but he made no mention of it. then he says he wanna train me on it but problem is,when i try to anticipate what he wants and he will tell me not to act smart and follow instructions when it is given. like whatever i do he will change the damn goalpost. he is never happy with whatever i do.
he everytime nvr allows me to talk and he just scolds me or tells me off. then when i interrupt and explain why i did this or did that, he will say he is not scolding me but he is telling me how this world works. i am not aganist his idea of telling me how this world works because i do have to admit because of his job nature he meets up with all kinds of morons at work with more conspiracy plans than hollywood has scripts. but he is always changing his side of story to fit himself. it;s like trying to search for oil when someone tells u it;s in the middle of pacific ocean. u go ard trying to search for a tiny spot in the world's largest ocean.
it;s not just this arguement that is really pressing me.
i am also facing pressure from school to perform and also to handup so many assignments given 1-2 weeks before a week's break and handup so many on day 1. 1 lecturer asks everyone individually whether he/she needs extension or something. some ppl havent even started yet.
then i am also facing problems with some modules because i am really lost in some of them.
and also because i am buying some parts for the com, the vendor i am dealing with is hopelessly unprofessional and confused. revised and revised specs and still CMI.
sigh...
close but not close enuf....SPOriginally posted by Devil1976:I believe you're a BIOTECH student... In NP?
The modules you're going through and the sh|t about how your school mates not doing their part... Ya... Been there and through it... And I believe there're many others who have gone through that phase too...
1st thing I would like you to know... If you think you're struggling in your work, rest assured.. You're probably not alone... Just keep up to your toes and try to perform.. Since you've mentioned NS, I would tell you NS's gonna be quite the same... You'll be PUSHED to the MAX probably... Just do your part... Some failures in life are inevitable...
2nd thing about non-cooperative people... They won't be just in your school... The society has lots of them in store for you... Some of them would just be 'sucking on your blood'... Part of life... Unless you really can do something about it, learn to live with it....
yep..very true..i'm struggling with my work too..and there are really a lot of non cooperative people in my life as well. as he said, learn to live with itOriginally posted by Devil1976:I believe you're a BIOTECH student... In NP?
The modules you're going through and the sh|t about how your school mates not doing their part... Ya... Been there and through it... And I believe there're many others who have gone through that phase too...
1st thing I would like you to know... If you think you're struggling in your work, rest assured.. You're probably not alone... Just keep up to your toes and try to perform.. Since you've mentioned NS, I would tell you NS's gonna be quite the same... You'll be PUSHED to the MAX probably... Just do your part... Some failures in life are inevitable...
2nd thing about non-cooperative people... They won't be just in your school... The society has lots of them in store for you... Some of them would just be 'sucking on your blood'... Part of life... Unless you really can do something about it, learn to live with it....
One day you wake up, you'll learn that some things in life is just inevitable... Others..? Just depends on how you see them...Originally posted by bismarck:close but not close enuf....SP
anyway the only consolation is that there is module i LOVE very much....
it does depend on how the criticism is given. not by dismissing what one says as utter nonsenseOriginally posted by Lingos:No offence Bismarck, I find that you are easily offended.
Because you're high strung and very defensive. You feel that everything other people say is a criticism.
Such as the incidents we had. Hmm.. i hope this doesn't get you all bouncing off the walls.
Maybe you need to chill bro. Justtell yourself.. what they say cannot hurt you. Don't raise your voice because it will be an escalate into a shouting match. Just say.. whatever! i don't care!
every life is a gift and is worth living.Originally posted by dumbdumb!:wah.. u too sensitive la... but i understand cuz i oso quite sensitive.. like v defensive. u must be more positive in life. =)
u are a wonderful person, and u are worth living for,![]()