How would you response?
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Out of a sudden, you received a erotic SMS from your husband or boyfriend meant for another girl! or vice versa......
Do you think I should confront him/her? -
ask him "wassup?"
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I wldn't suggest confrontational (read: aggressive) behaviour here. Instead, altho it's hard, ask him calmly wat he thinks he's doing. Remind him tt being in a r'ship means to be faithful, unless both of u had agreed prior to entering the r'ship tt it was to be an open r'ship (yuk, sorree, I juz dun like the idea).
Play it by ear from there, cosh it's hard to predict his response, since none of us here noe him personally.
RPOriginally posted by IcyGer:Out of a sudden, you received a erotic SMS from your husband or boyfriend meant for another girl! or vice versa......
Do you think I should confront him/her? -
reply back "u just sent a message to the wrong party and got urself into deep sh!t"
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Thats a nice one!Originally posted by FireIce:reply back "u just sent a message to the wrong party and got urself into deep sh!t"
Well, he might come up with an excuse that he was helping his friend write one! Hah!
Umm... I think its best to be subtle about it and just caution him about it. -
wat if his excuse is.....
fren borrow fone then send sms.......then somehow send to my number....
way of typing (those shortforms and expressions) exactly same as him........
then he insist is fren type and send one..... -
Whatever you do, don't erase it!
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Deception.Originally posted by IcyGer:Out of a sudden, you received a erotic SMS from your husband or boyfriend meant for another girl! or vice versa......
Do you think I should confront him/her?
Something is wrong, but don't 'hit grass alarm snake.' (ta cao jing she)
Trashing when you have little information about who and what's going on is at your disadvantage. Appear as if nothing happens, first. If you boyfriend/husband knows that you receive the message, generally, I can bet you, he will do one of these few things:
I) Explain to you before you even ask him. Under MTG, this is called First Strike. Listen to his story and check out his body language. Few experts who lie, are good at concealing body language and knowing how to spin a good tale at the same time.
II) Plan his words already, but choses not to initiate the explaination. If you were to question about it, then he will speak. Therefore the plan is act normal. If he falls under this category, you will feel that he may treat you a little nicer than usual. Under Theory of Y&Y, whats negative are balanced by positive. If he is gulity, he will replace the gulit by treating you better to minimize this gulity to a significant balance. Unless your relationship is already rocky beyond hope of redemption, then usually, he wouldn't go such measures to conceal things - he just wants to go.
III) He wouldn't initiate his explaination like above, but when you question him about it. He will blast and throw temper OR he will simply admit certain things. Usually, under this category, he wouldn't even bother to treat you better because he already wants to leave the relationship (like explained above)
P.S: Think smart, act blur.
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geez..i have been in this situation a long long time ago. i "pretended" that nothing happened but of coz, a million thots went racing thru my mind. my then bf was super duper nice, obviously "guilty abt something.
well at the end of the day, he confessed that it was "harmless" flirting. Yeah right, whatever... what happened in the end? I broke up with him (but thats just me). -
harmless flirting is oxymoronOriginally posted by shopgirl:geez..i have been in this situation a long long time ago. i "pretended" that nothing happened but of coz, a million thots went racing thru my mind. my then bf was super duper nice, obviously "guilty abt something.
well at the end of the day, he confessed that it was "harmless" flirting. Yeah right, whatever... what happened in the end? I broke up with him (but thats just me).
flirt is flirt
no excuses
u did the right thing girl! -
Oh yeah which remembers me... i knew of a friend who's friend knew someone at X telephone company. Begged the person for help and managed to get all the info such as numbers called and even sms messages sent out for the previous month!
Hm... idea huh...
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confront la, but it can b a joke from his fren..
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call him n ask him
tell him tt u hate ppl who lie to u -
SHOW HAND!!!
