a 'HUSBAND' with no future??
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my bf and i together for nearly 2 years... we love each other a lot.. but the thing is he have no future... which mean he have no plans for his future and he only have "N" cert. i m worry for our future!!!
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working?
got savings?
got CPF? -
no.. currenty serving ns
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hmm....ok....still quite some way to......
im sure if he is determined, he is able to get a stable job and have some savings.....
perhaps can upgrade himself....take part-time class...
wat about urself?
u working and helping out with the expenses
im not saying u shd be "feeding" him.....since u are worrying, might as well u do ur part for the rship and take some pressure off him.......at the same time encourage him.... -
i hope he will get a stable job too.. oh no i haven start working yet still upgrading myself.. i m a student, business studies.
maybe still young for our future, i just worry.. -
it's good to be prepared.......
yup, u might be still young but if u are sure he is the one then us shd have some plans now....
in such a competitive environment like singapore, it's better to some qualifications.....if dun have, just have to work double hard loh.....
N levels does not mean no future....just a bit difficult and walk longer way than others....
if there's a will, there's a way.... -
i think he is the one...
but i can stand a guy tat no futute..
he is the guy that happy go lucky..
i am the gal who look for happiness..
may be i ask too much?? -
u might be thinking too much lah.......still young now...man man lai......
but u shd oso be understanding.....ur "happiness" isit material needs? do u insist he earn X amount of salary then u will feel "happiness" with him?
try to have a bit of savings now.....cos when he finish NS, he might not be able to get a job immediately....so the savings can tide over tt period.....
have u ever talked to him about this?
maybe he oredi have some plans? -
no... not tat..
i have talk to him.. he jus say he wan to concentrate on his ns..
our savings?? we often go clubbing.. -
then cut down on that.....this type of thing can control one.....for a better future.......Originally posted by LoveisLove:no... not tat..
i have talk to him.. he jus say he wan to concentrate on his ns..
our savings?? we often go clubbing.. -
What? You have no future either but is he complaining?Originally posted by LoveisLove:my bf and i together for nearly 2 years... we love each other a lot.. but the thing is he have no future... which mean he have no plans for his future and he only have "N" cert. i m worry for our future!!!
He is better off dumping trash like you.
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wat is the defination of happiness tat u pursuade?Originally posted by LoveisLove:i think he is the one...
but i can stand a guy tat no futute..
he is the guy that happy go lucky..
i am the gal who look for happiness..
may be i ask too much??
yes of cos love is the primary element to start a relationship.
but security is another aspect of life many do seek for.
noone wanna worry for the availablilty of cash.
it is good tat u have think ahead.
but if only one party works hard while the other dun, it is not going to work out.
one will wear out one day.
hopefully both of u can make future together. -
its too shallow to think only money and certs can bring you happiness or future.
you guys are still not matured enough to talk about marriage and family yet. go build up character and grow up first. -
it is one the the basic needs in singapore.Originally posted by KamenRider:its too shallow to think only money and certs can bring you happiness or future.
you guys are still not matured enough to talk about marriage and family yet. go build up character and grow up first.
unless u are allow to start a farm here. -
ask him to sign on in army lah.. then got future already lor...if he dun want to upgrade or guai guai think about his future.. u confirm no future one lor. haha..so ask him when he want to marry u lor.. haha and plan lor
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romance and practicality.
hmm.. i still think bread is more important. -
ask him if he ever tot abt the future... encourage him to upgrade.. but dun push too hard, slowly... remember to start saving liao...
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Hmm, actually, he can try going back to studies... 1 of my frens had an N Level cert too, but he went to Oz, did some studying @ TAFE (sorta like a poly, but less strict), & he did v. well there. Eventually he graduated.
So, Not all is lost. Tok to him abt ur worries, & try to discuss wif him plans & alternatives : )
RPOriginally posted by LoveisLove:my bf and i together for nearly 2 years... we love each other a lot.. but the thing is he have no future... which mean he have no plans for his future and he only have "N" cert. i m worry for our future!!! -
Harsh tone (abit lah
) but really gd advice : )
RPOriginally posted by KamenRider:its too shallow to think only money and certs can bring you happiness or future.
you guys are still not matured enough to talk about marriage and family yet. go build up character and grow up first. -
When ladys earn more than men... it never works out
maybe because of guys' ego and stuff -
X2Originally posted by KamenRider:its too shallow to think only money and certs can bring you happiness or future.
you guys are still not matured enough to talk about marriage and family yet. go build up character and grow up first. -
u ever heard most of the famous business man oni study till pri 6
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rich and successful man now maybe bankrupt later...
now poor and unsuccessful..maybe become successful later..
i think most impt is yr bf got shang jin xin...willing to work hard ... -
wah dan, the anti-PAP guy has invaded AA
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That's the general "rule"...
But there're always exceptions. When 2 pple can come to an understanding, & both make an effort to support each other, then chances r, the r'ship cld work out.
If the lady doesn't abuse her "position" as the higher-earning partner, & constantly reassures her husband, then the probability of thgs working out is higher.
RPOriginally posted by Forever84:When ladys earn more than men... it never works out
maybe because of guys' ego and stuff