self-perpetuating/propagating infatutation or true obsession

• bismarck

  14 Mar 04, 21:40

  i wonder sometimes whether my this...love/obsession/crush...whatever is it (topic) .
  
  because many times when i am alone and think abt her...it sort of tells me "damn she is gorgeous" and i smile widely to myself( when no one is looking) and i can feel my heartbeat sky rocketing when i see her or think abt her.or even thinking that tmr i will be seeing her again...
  
  
  
  i dun want like if i really go after her, it ends up being a pain for us and a scar for future r/s. i dont want to hurt her mainly, and abit myself if all these are just dreams or fancies.
  
• sgboy2004

  14 Mar 04, 22:07

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• bismarck

  15 Mar 04, 10:56

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

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  i not as buaya as u ok?
  i need answers
• sam0310

  15 Mar 04, 12:10

  lemme ask u something; does she have a good character and personality?
  
  if no, forget r/s and be frens; it's probably just normal lust.
  if yes, would u love her equally if she's NOT tt gorgeous or just normal-looking?
  
  if u say yes to the 2nd question, go after her...otherwise, stay put...
• Devil1976

  15 Mar 04, 13:28

  
• bismarck

  15 Mar 04, 14:12

  Originally posted by sam0310:
  lemme ask u something; does she have a good character and personality?
  
  if [b]no, forget r/s and be frens; it's probably just normal lust.
  if yes, would u love her equally if she's NOT tt gorgeous or just normal-looking?
  
  if u say yes to the 2nd question, go after her...otherwise, stay put... [/b]

  actually i dunno her yet. but many times, to me she's not super pretty or that kind of face. there's this thing abt her that attracts me to her...
  i know the part abt looks but it's not the looks
  
  so to me it is because i keep thinking abt her looks or this ' attraction' that is fueling this infatuation.
  
  
• bismarck

  15 Mar 04, 14:13

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  

  yes? yr reply ?
• sam0310

  15 Mar 04, 14:26

  i think the practical thing to do is to get to know her; coz u'll tend to sorta "subconsciously perfectionize" her in yr mind, thus yr judgement'll be affected. find a way, get to know her man, if she really means tt much to u; then u'll see better how to take it fr there...
• weidev

  15 Mar 04, 14:32

  life is never certain...
  if u really like her nw... go for it...
  considering too much will onli dampen ur spirit...
  life is too short...
  don u agree?
• Devil1976

  15 Mar 04, 17:29

  Originally posted by bismarck:

  yes? yr reply ?

  Can't say much.... If you want, get to know each other a bit 1st for a start? The rest shall see...? No point figuring out how to fly when you can't even walk ya?
• Taufiq

  15 Mar 04, 17:39

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Can't say much.... If you want, get to know each other a bit 1st for a start? The rest shall see...? No point figuring out how to fly when you can't even walk ya?

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• bismarck

  15 Mar 04, 19:12

  Originally posted by Taufiq:

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  u call this a post ah ?
  
  tsk tsk tsk ///
  tells alot abt u