Compatibility goes how far?
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Is it possible for a funky/clubbing person to match with a more indoor partner? How well will this kind of relationship develop? Views please.
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me and my gf are worlds part in lifestyle and interests, but as long as each other happy can liao loh.
except she abit too busy for me.. hai
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Opposite attracts & complement!Originally posted by brownie:Is it possible for a funky/clubbing person to match with a more indoor partner? How well will this kind of relationship develop? Views please. -
Here is the problem lor...see, diff intrests led to u ppl abit 'busy' for each other..Originally posted by kof-guy:me and my gf are worlds part in lifestyle and interests, but as long as each other happy can liao loh.
except she abit too busy for me.. hai
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Opposites attract.
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Hee...I juz read an article from Cleo. The article says something abt gals when have bf, will they change to suit the bf. (connection to brownie's topic hor)
For guys - Will u want to see ur gf becoming more like you? eg, talk like you lah, behave like u...blah blah...
For gals - How far will u change juz to suit ur bf? -
My case lorz....im not very into clubbing blahblahz....but my guy is..but he doesnt allow me 2 go clubbing coz he scare tis,scare tat...so we compromise...come up wif stuff wic we both agree on...plus tats nt e onli diff between us...he is sporty,mi no...ne wayz,i can alwayz sun-tan while he plays he's beach volleyball watz.... =>Originally posted by brownie:Is it possible for a funky/clubbing person to match with a more indoor partner? How well will this kind of relationship develop? Views please. -
Guess you can see it as 2 circles with an area of SUBSET inbetween them.... The circumference of the circle furthest away from the subset area holding a deepest tone of shade....
The 2 circles represent the 2 people with a shared area of interest represented by the subset.... The area of the deepest tone would be the more extreme points of the individual where the other partner may come to find being more UNBEARABLE.... Some of such deeper tone area is YET to be discovered OR NEVER to be discovered... However, it would also depends on what's the EXPOSURE of such area in their daily life that would make the DIFFERENCE...
Deep Tone Areas with high exposure rate which generally leave the other party with the options of AVOIDANCE (Difficult option as exposure rate is HIGH... Meaning the individual would either have to choose to have minimium time with the partner OR have VERY GOOD TIMING to avoid the 'Deep Tone Areas'...); TOLERANCE or FACING and ADAPTION.... Don't be surprised that at times the option of ADAPTION can convert a DEEP TONE into a SUBSET... However, do NOT force yourself if such is really not your style or nature... It would usually only lead to a DARKER tone....
Circles with GREAT subset area which make the relationship one with HIGHER COMPATIBILITY but LESS VARIETY.... With SMALLER subset area means the OPPOSITE.... Which type of the 2 above mentioned patterns are 'better' really depends on the character and mentality of the individuals involved....
Would not go into any further details for now as it can get too lengthy....
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Wow your ex restrict you so much, so he's not an outgoing guy, I suppose...Originally posted by Ruth|E:my ex restritched mi a lot last time.. No clubbing, no ircing... blah blah blah...
but still... i oppose him... lalalalala ~
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