what do guys do and dont

• Toronto

  30 Nov 01, 07:41

  Can anyone please help me! I want to know if i ask a girl out, and the girls say as long as it's with her friends and my friends, does it mean that she doesnt want to go out with me??? or is she scared of going out with me?
  pleasseee helllppppp =(
  
• sakaratulz

  30 Nov 01, 11:16

  she's probably is...=(
  cool off for now and try again later &
  try to restore her confidence in u
  
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• FireIce

  30 Nov 01, 15:12

  trying to be "safe" to suggest group outings...
  mebe she is a bit shy..
  
  actually group outings can help "see" a person better bcos of the various social situations tt can happen (which one-to-one date sometimes cannot experience)
• Toronto

  30 Nov 01, 23:32

  the problem is the first time we met, she gives the impression of someone that wants to try to know me, cause i spend with her friend staying up all night, talkin with each other trying to know more bout each other. so i dont think that she doesnt want to go out with me, but i was just wonderin is ir a girl thing to be afraid, when a man ask her out. and is it true that i havve to get to know her better b4 we can go out together, isnt dating mean get to know each other more ???? im quite confused.
  
  btw thanx for the reply =)
• Toronto

  30 Nov 01, 23:34

  above i meant with her and her friend soz
• kilser

  2 Dec 01, 02:56

  i dun think got anything to be scared of you
  but i guess *guess only!* err perhaps she doesn't want it to get too close
  after all...prolly i guess it's just starting out
  and when you're out...relax...dont try to isolate her
  just enjoy the time the GROUP is going through...which means taking it naturally
  err...guessing again...that normally the girl you mention is err well repeatin what i said not wanting it to get too close...
  1-1 dating is err pretty close in our culture...
  so take it naturally...i think it would be hard on your part...but she says slow you go slow...^^
  
• Toronto

  2 Dec 01, 08:02

  k thanx for the reply, it really does make me relax a bit, kekekek
  
• eagle

  2 Dec 01, 22:42

  
  
  I dun really understand, but I think juz go out as normal frens first....
  
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• Zeraph

  12 Dec 01, 12:05

  i guess she is just shy loh
  why u so paranoid