why men dun call back- interesting
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Most women think the reason a man doesn't call back is because he's a creep or something to that effect. Sometimes that's true but for most of them, what's really going on is that he is simply scared. He doesn't want to hurt you and he
doesn't want to have "the conversation." Even when things are going great, most men don't really like talking about anything that has to do with "the relationship." Okay, so he's scared, but why doesn't he call back, especially when it seemed like it was going along fine?
There are two reasons and only two reasons a man stops seeing
a woman:
#1: She's not the right one.
#2: He's not ready.
That's it. Men know within a very short period of time if the woman he's dating is someone he will seriously consider marrying. If he's ready to get married, the game of wondering what he's thinking and "where is this going" won't be as long and drawn out.
If she is the one for him, he is going to let her know with fairly clear signals. If she is the right one but he's not ready, he'll keep dating her but the relationship stands still. It might be obvious to her that he really cares and is attracted to her, but he won't talk about the future. Maybe he won't introduce her to his family. It becomes really confusing because he keeps coming around, keeps asking her out, enjoys sleeping with her but the relationship is definitely not moving forward. He did all the right things, he said all the right words, he seemed to be really interested, then wham! Gone from the face of the planet.
When he's not ready and he knows he's not ready, he won't budge. He'll let the right woman go, even if he's in love. That is unfathomable to most women. But if he's getting close to that time of "settling down" the right woman just might nudge him over the line. Or as some men say, cause him to "pull the trigger." Ouch! (Isn't it interesting that so many men use that phrase to describe the act of getting married. Hmmm?)
If it goes on for years, that means he's comfortable, enjoys your company, maybe even loves you, but if you are not the right one, the wedding is not going to happen. We all know men who dated a woman for years,then broke up (usually because the woman got tired of waiting and gave him an ultimatum) and in months, he's married to a new woman. The new one was the right
woman, the ex-girlfriend was not.
What you need to do is learn to be the right woman so that when the right man comes along, he will become ready, simply because the thought of losing you is too painful for him to think about. All he has to do is be just a little bit ready and the right woman will "nudge" him over that imaginary line. -
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and the remedy?
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One simple possibility, they don't dare to.
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Look out for the signs. before they dump u, dump them.
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Simply cos they are not interested in you (anymore).
Anyway, why bother to go through a ton of reasons? Simply move on, get over it.
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Sometimes guys find that they have to ask for the number as a courtesy because they may have been intro by other friends.
It doesn't mean they will surely call... -
Because they are not into you?
Learnt it from Sex and the City. It's that simple. They are not into you. -
very chim
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Yea...It makes perfect sense...MOst men are afraid of having their pride and ego being wounded...
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that's why most guys chose to marry a virgin.....dan to be teased at their wife being ramp by other guys b4. hehe......Originally posted by Tim^Guitarist:Yea...It makes perfect sense...MOst men are afraid of having their pride and ego being wounded... 
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Parka, you had to watch a tv series to realise that?Originally posted by Parka: Because they are not into you?
Learnt it from Sex and the City. It's that simple. They are not into you.
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Itz the 21st century, virgins r hard to find. Anyway, virgins r going to be boring when shaking beds together. If married a non-virgin, at least u can bai shi xue yi... ha ha!! Can let her teach u everyday...., as for the payment, u have to make her high... ha ha!!Originally posted by Jaws:that's why most guys chose to marry a virgin.....dan to be teased at their wife being ramp by other guys b4. hehe...... -
how come the topic becomes so RA
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dun call mah dun call lor...
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Next time muz set R(A) disclaimer
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Maybe we should have a 'rating attachment system' for the topics ya?Originally posted by jusgal:how come the topic becomes so RA
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Jusgal you start the topic line with why men dun call back... then you start to dive into relationship and commitment followed on by marriage. Which is kinda linked but a separte topic.
As to why men dun call back?
Is this after the first date?
Is this after getting a girl's number at some disco?
Is this after he has just dumped a girl?
Is this... I could really carry on...
Clarify pls
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Usually if my man dun call back he will get a thrashing from me.
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after being dating for sometimes. they changed suddenlyOriginally posted by :Jusgal you start the topic line with why men dun call back... then you start to dive into relationship and commitment followed on by marriage. Which is kinda linked but a separte topic.
As to why men dun call back?
Is this after the first date?
Is this after getting a girl's number at some disco?
Is this after he has just dumped a girl?
Is this... I could really carry on...
Clarify pls -
wah...u bully your "man" is it?Originally posted by bjork:Usually if my man dun call back he will get a thrashing from me.
'Why never listen to my call!' 
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Originally posted by sgboy2004: Not bully is concern.