love = chance or choice?
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When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place. At
the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's
chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together
because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that
infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you
want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you
decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance.
That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even
if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive,
smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate
just the same, that's
choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that
lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so
true about this:
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I
do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for
you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do
something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but
loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love ... BUT to
learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly!
There's a miracle called friendship that dwells within the heart, and you
don't know how it happens or where it gets its starts, but the happiness
it brings you always gives a special lift, and you realize that friendship
is God's most precious gift
Bottom line..... we're all given the chance to make a choice~ -
So it's actually luck. -
check out my signature...Originally posted by jusgal:Bottom line..... we're all given the chance to make a choice~
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jus treasure wad u have now
grab every moment u have
if u love some1
go n tell him(her)
u love him (her)
who knows he might ends up to be yr ideal one....
dun feel regret
there is no way back
(we cant turn time backwards)
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My friendship started as chance, & to let it grow & blossom, is choice : )
RPOriginally posted by jusgal:When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place. At
the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's
chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together
because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that
infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you
want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you
decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance.
That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even
if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive,
smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate
just the same, that's
choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that
lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so
true about this:
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I
do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for
you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do
something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but
loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love ... BUT to
learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly!
There's a miracle called friendship that dwells within the heart, and you
don't know how it happens or where it gets its starts, but the happiness
it brings you always gives a special lift, and you realize that friendship
is God's most precious gift
Bottom line..... we're all given the chance to make a choice~ -
hope it happen on me
I hope to be the chosen one.
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Everything is life is destined, may it be love or work or study. It;s simply everything that you do and will happen to you. If we have our ways, there will surely be chaos!
Love is also destined. There are billions of people around but why this lady or man? Why not the other people? -
love = chance + choice?
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Good piece of essay.Originally posted by jusgal:When we meet the right person to love when we're at the right place. At
the right time, that's chance.
When you meet someone you're attracted to, that's not a choice. That's
chance.
Being caught up in a moment (and there's a lot of couples who get together
because of this) is not a choice. That's also a chance.
The difference is what happens afterwards. When will you take that
infatuation, that crush, that mind-blowing attraction to the next level?
That's when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate whether you
want to make this into a concrete relationship or just a fling. If you
decide to love a person, even with his/her faults, that's not a chance.
That's choice.
When you choose to be with a person, no matter what, that's choice. Even
if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive,
smarter, and richer than your mate, and yet, you decide to love your mate
just the same, that's
choice.
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by chance. But true love that
lasts is truly a choice. A choice that we make.
Regarding soul mates, there's a beautiful movie quote that I believe is so
true about this:
"Fate brings you together, but it's still up to you to make it happen." I
do believe that soul mates do exist. That there is truly someone made for
you. But it's still up to you to make the choice if you're going to do
something about it or not. We may meet our soul mates by chance, but
loving and staying with our soul mate is still a choice we have to make.
We came to the world not by finding someone perfect to love ... BUT to
learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly!
There's a miracle called friendship that dwells within the heart, and you
don't know how it happens or where it gets its starts, but the happiness
it brings you always gives a special lift, and you realize that friendship
is God's most precious gift
Bottom line..... we're all given the chance to make a choice~ Love is always there - being in a relationship is a matter of choice. If love is like the soul and relationship is like the body, even if you die, your soul remains. Of course, there are cases where people lose their soul even if they are physically well.
Cheers -
I believe so also.. fate + destiny + chance. Sometime things work out cos of fate n chance to proceed on. When things is not on ur side...it may juz meant he/she is not the fated one or maybe loving one another at the wrong time n wrong place.Originally posted by josephting:Everything is life is destined, may it be love or work or study. It;s simply everything that you do and will happen to you. If we have our ways, there will surely be chaos!
Love is also destined. There are billions of people around but why this lady or man? Why not the other people?
But if he/she is the chosen one of your life, no matter wat, going thru the whole big hassle (break, quarrels, spilt etc) , he/she will still be the one eventually. Life is unpredictable. Learn n proceed wif the way of life. -
i guess for mi love = fate + chance + luck.. i guess u need a little luck to find the right one for u..
and even if u dun contact frens for years, and turn out after some mit up and end up couple i tink its fate.. i do belief in fate, but we haf to find fate ourself i guess... -
Give the chance to love then got the choice to love or not to love
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i will say more like being ready when e chance comes....
opportunity knocks but once....
r u ready to love or be loved everytime u meet someone new?that's e question i always ask myself....