Do you think life is all about finding the right one?
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pop by this part of the forum pretty frequently.
came across many signatures and more than half of them have the word "love" in it.
noticed quite a lot of threads that are about "finding the right guy/girl", "to have a bf/gf", "what is love", "what is fate" and etc.
i mean is that what most of us are always occupied with? is your objective in life always aiming to have a tremendous romantic experience like "titantic", "pearl habour", "bu liao qing" and etc? -
its diff at diff point in ur life... when u r young u prob thinking abt wat u wil be doing the nex day, tt trip to the zoo nex wk, etc... when u grow older, its the gf, the car to buy, the condo... dun think there is one thing tt we r all fixated on all our lives.
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life is not about finding the right one... because there will never be a right one....
we change in thinking, perceptions, character, expectations at different points in our lives, so how can there be a "right" one preset with every single one of our expectations?? -
life is not full of finding
but full of challenges
i wont know what will happens tml
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To me, life is about being happy.Originally posted by www:pop by this part of the forum pretty frequently.
came across many signatures and more than half of them have the word "love" in it.
noticed quite a lot of threads that are about "finding the right guy/girl", "to have a bf/gf", "what is love", "what is fate" and etc.
i mean is that what most of us are always occupied with? is your objective in life always aiming to have a tremendous romantic experience like "titantic", "pearl habour", "bu liao qing" and etc? -
hmm.. maybe my topic header aint the right one. hahaha.
rather, my question is to ask how many of you see your romance life as the top priority?
it is because i always come across posts, threads and live examples that goes "love here, love there", "sorrow here, sorrow there". it is like there is nothing else more important in life.
examples? those who attempted or committed suicide after breaking up. -
Originally posted by www:pop by this part of the forum pretty frequently.
came across many signatures and more than half of them have the word "love" in it.
noticed quite a lot of threads that are about "finding the right guy/girl", "to have a bf/gf", "what is love", "what is fate" and etc.
i mean is that what most of us are always occupied with? is your objective in life always aiming to have a tremendous romantic experience like "titantic", "pearl habour", "bu liao qing" and etc?
Life is all about finding right one?
*think*
*ponders*
*thinks again*
I didn't find it, I create the perfect love.
Cheers -
I just want more horsepower!
Speaking personally, finding The One is not my main mission. My main mission is to live life to its best and fullest extent, and to have fun while I'm doing it. The One is incorporated into that picture somewhere. -
It's all up to the indiv. For some, there comes a pt in time where thgs tt used to be seen as essential cease to matter as much (Disclaimer: I do NOT sez tt they're NOT impt, I sez they juz dun matter as much anymore). Pple change, & as they do, so do their goals, beliefs & attitudes.
Love will matter for some : ) Others may haf given up on it.
So in short, it's Not ev. body : )
RPOriginally posted by www:pop by this part of the forum pretty frequently.
came across many signatures and more than half of them have the word "love" in it.
noticed quite a lot of threads that are about "finding the right guy/girl", "to have a bf/gf", "what is love", "what is fate" and etc.
i mean is that what most of us are always occupied with? is your objective in life always aiming to have a tremendous romantic experience like "titantic", "pearl habour", "bu liao qing" and etc? -
Originally posted by www:
Delusionised.
hmm.. maybe my topic header aint the [b]right one. hahaha.
rather, my question is to ask how many of you see your romance life as the top priority?
it is because i always come across posts, threads and live examples that goes "love here, love there", "sorrow here, sorrow there". it is like there is nothing else more important in life.
examples? those who attempted or committed suicide after breaking up.[/b] -
coz pple always hope to hv smone to fall back on in times of needs? smone whom is there to share ur happiness and chase away ur sorrows...
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i guess everyone got diff tinking ba.. for mi if i find my love of my life, we can share burden mah, den happy oso happy together.Originally posted by www:pop by this part of the forum pretty frequently.
came across many signatures and more than half of them have the word "love" in it.
noticed quite a lot of threads that are about "finding the right guy/girl", "to have a bf/gf", "what is love", "what is fate" and etc.
i mean is that what most of us are always occupied with? is your objective in life always aiming to have a tremendous romantic experience like "titantic", "pearl habour", "bu liao qing" and etc?
being single like so sianz, need to find frens to entertain among ourself.. kinda bored after single for long time.. got 1 gf u tend to spend time with her, den know wad to do mah..
if not i now single, everyday after lesson , sure tink of a place to rot and go.. got gf, u sure noe after sch its time for her..
den slowly proceed lor, if its the right wan den get married have kids and establish family... i mean beside juz working for living im sure u haf family den will want u to work mah. if u work juz for the sake of working and getting $$ den like no use...
ah, crap.. i dun even noe wad am i talking abt.. -
Different stage of our life, we search for different things.
I think life is about find urself walking the right path, with the right thing and with the right person at the right time and the right place..
But comes to think of it, it may not be so..
life is full of contradictions
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Originally posted by www:
Hm... Romance life as top priority is very hard to do so in the current fast paced moving society such as Singapore.
hmm.. maybe my topic header aint the [b]right one. hahaha.
rather, my question is to ask how many of you see your romance life as the top priority?
it is because i always come across posts, threads and live examples that goes "love here, love there", "sorrow here, sorrow there". it is like there is nothing else more important in life.
examples? those who attempted or committed suicide after breaking up.[/b]
Youngest age for romance made possible would be secondary school.
But so if romance was to start from there, how many people end up marrying their sec sch lovers? Ie if they were the right one.
Chances are very few nowadays...
I know many sgaporeans who have to leave their love ones behind and go to UK, USA, aussie, HK, even New Zealand to study. I would say 60% of all LDRs fails miserably.
Those to stay in Singapore, have to cope with going to a different school or courses, when they enter the work force, priorities in life start to change again.
Ie the saying those who wear their hearts on their sleeves tend to get hurt more, then those who keep it deeper in their pockets.
To alot of people, careers, school, work, takes first priority... more so for guys than to girls.
Its possible to keep romance life as top priority, but in reality, you have to please your parents, friends, colleagues, bosses... yourself.... wah you can't please everyone!!! haha... I did'nt include love one yet....
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not really lar, think it's just a small part of our life...
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it's not about finding the best but finding the right one for u....
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well, if she comes along, good
life is what you make of it... -
life is abt finding urself...