It' best to wait for the one you want than settle for the one available.
Best to wait for the love that you love than one's who around.
Best to wait for the right one because life's too short to be wasted on just someone.
An African proverb states, "Before you get married, keep both eyes open.... and after you marry, close one eye."
Before you get involve and make commitment to someone, don't let lust, desperation immaturity, ignorance pressure from others or a low self-esteem make you blind to warning signs.
Keep your eyes open, and don't fool yourself that you can change someone or that what you see as faults aren't really that important.
Once you decide to commit to someone, over time, their flaws, vulnerabilities, pet peeves, and differences will become more obvious.
If you love your mate and want the relationship to grow and evolve, you will have to learn how to close one eye and not let every little thing bother you.
You and your mate have many different expectations, emotional needs, values, dreams, weaknesses, and strengths.
Neither one of you are perfect, but are you perfect for each other?
Do you bring out the best in each other?
Do you compliment and compromise with each other, or do you compete, compare and control?
What do you bring to the relationship?
Do you bring past relationships, past hurts, past mistrust, past pain?
You can't take someone to altar because you wan to alter them.
You can't make someone love you, or make someone stay.
If you develop self-esteem, spiritual discernment, and "a life", you won't find yourself making someone else responsible for your happiness or responsible for your pain.
Manipulation, control, jealousy, neediness, and selfishness are not the ingredient of a thriving, healthy, loving and lasting relationship.
Seeking status, sex, and security are the wrong reason to be in a relationship.
what keeps a strong relationship?
- Communication
- Intimacy
- A sense of humor
- Sharing household task
- Daily exchange (a meal, shared activity, a hug, a call,
a touch, a note)
- sharing common goals and interests
- giving each other space to grow without feeling insecure
- giving each other a sense of belonging and assurances
and commitment
If these qualities are missing, the relationship will erode as resentment, withdrawal, abuse, neglect, dishonesty and pain replace the passion.
"As long as we have memories, yesterday remains. As long as we have have hope, tomorrow awaits."
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in the relationship and find out that you still care for that person.
Love is being able to walk arm in arm.... even when you don't see eye to eye!
Never say goodbye when you still want to try. Never give up when you still feel you can take it. Never say you no longer love a person when you can't let go.
If you love someone, tell them, for hearts are often broken by words left unspoken
remind me of her again... Thankz for these meaningful quote... 
I will never get the communication part right. Coz like girls dont talk much to meeeee... no one talks much to me.... its cool heh i aint pissed about that as much as before. But with regard to girls, communication is just tough with me and them coz of the race/culture/ factor.