If U still miss your Ex, will U still tell him/her?

bus

19 Mar 04, 23:40

There is a thread on missing their EXs. Just curious to know

1. For gals: Will you hint/tell your ex about how U feel in hope of reunion together again?

2. For guys: Will U do the same?

Gedanken

20 Mar 04, 00:00

Nope - reheated leftovers never quite taste the same.

tha_schizophrenic

20 Mar 04, 00:30

Originally posted by Gedanken:
Nope - reheated leftovers never quite taste the same.

weidev

20 Mar 04, 00:43

no... i will NEVER get back with an ex... it is time for us to move on...

shinta

20 Mar 04, 12:16

i told him i missed him and the times we shared together....but added on that it's imposssible for us to get back together again..

Confused

jolin80

20 Mar 04, 15:45

for most of e relationship
there is no way back
wont turn back (patch back again no matter wad) Sad

jolin80

20 Mar 04, 15:47

if they do, dun think it will last long
as there's no crack there on it

Bochupi

20 Mar 04, 15:51

Will tell her I miss her but wont patch back lah. What's gone is gone.

Dj_Shadow

20 Mar 04, 17:05

Let go and move on... Twisted Evil

FireIce

20 Mar 04, 17:06

if still single and still miss him, will let him know...but not with intention to get back together........

if attached to someone else liao then wun miss ex.......but still remain in contact in icq, sms......

narz

20 Mar 04, 17:10

only after i'm told i'm missed too...

edited to add:
as for patching back... err...shun qi zi ran.. fate has a funny way of working... never say never.....

Churra

20 Mar 04, 17:15

yah.. i will tell him, if i'm hoping for a patch back.

bus

21 Mar 04, 01:23

I believed that when you tell your EXs that you still miss him/her, you are actually hoping for a patch up as well or else why there is one thread which mentioned that the gal who already had a BF still miss her EX....

Human are human, there are things that you really miss and would like to "get it back" if there is STILL a chance.

DeadPoet

21 Mar 04, 02:39

Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:
Let go and move on...

x2. Move on ..... NEXT! Twisted Evil

WrX_STi

21 Mar 04, 10:57

nope i die oso wun say.... but right now nv miss her liao la..

free_eagle

21 Mar 04, 13:06

Won't say. Missing one's ex is very normal sometimes can't control. But if missing my ex is becoming an obsession(day,night,eat etc....also think of her), I think have to find things to occupy time. The ex probably enjoying a new breath of life anyway.

thots

22 Mar 04, 00:57

oh well, i guess not.

Maya061

22 Mar 04, 01:23

if i still miss him, i would never break-up.
break-up --> no need to miss him anymore.
so the answer is NOPE.

Danisdead101times

22 Mar 04, 02:08

Originally posted by bus:
There is a thread on missing their EXs. Just curious to know

1. For gals: Will you hint/tell your ex about how U feel in hope of reunion together again?

2. For guys: Will U do the same?

i don't think so...if i want to i would have do it 6 years ago le...no need to wait untill now...still missing her so much... Sad

Lingos

22 Mar 04, 05:29

No way..
don't go there!

RainbowPrincess

22 Mar 04, 09:17

Let's put it this way, when there's a permanent split, I dun ever think of going back. If the r'ship cld've been saved, we wldn't haf split. Sure, I will miss an ex for awhile, but it's always better to pick ur life up & move on. Life is too short to wallow too long in self-pity.

RP

Originally posted by bus:
There is a thread on missing their EXs. Just curious to know

1. For gals: Will you hint/tell your ex about how U feel in hope of reunion together again?

2. For guys: Will U do the same?

Gedanken

22 Mar 04, 11:16

Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:
Let's put it this way, when there's a permanent split, I dun ever think of going back. If the r'ship cld've been saved, we wldn't haf split. Sure, I will miss an ex for awhile, but it's always better to pick ur life up & move on. Life is too short to wallow too long in self-pity.

RP

True, true. My usual thing is to keep them as friends, and I've got a couple of them who've turned out to be great mates!

Hehe - I actually had one of my exes drop by in Singapore for a weekend - my gf knew about it and gave her OK well in advance, of course. Anyway, 2 weeks after my gf takes off, my ex turns up - I received a (totally undeserved) reputation amongst my mates as a cananova! Mr. Green

Prec|ous

22 Mar 04, 11:31

i think it's all case by case studies lah... i always hear many stories of my frenz break up wif their bf/gf...after 1 or 2 yrs later, (i got 1, after 8 yrs), they patched again, now married happily, some wif kids liao... fate i guess... no matter wat.....if he/she is yours, will be yours. Of course during that break up period, they both found bfs/gfs, but still dunnoe y, they got back wif their exes...

But to a certain extent, i do believe that some are really a perm breakup...n they neber got back together. Let fate decide... Cool

jusgal

22 Mar 04, 11:47

I will....cos uncontrollable....but of cos knowing that he won't patch with me anyway.

just wanna him to know, i remember his goodness not his fault.

edithpiaf

23 Mar 04, 01:42

I told my ex after three months in the break-up that i wanted to give each other another chance and hope he will too.

But it just didn't happen and he 'took his time to think about it'.

It's a year and 4 months now. I still think about him, miss him, see him... i want to let him know that i still feel something, i still feel weak in the knees..

but if i do that... it will only make me more repulsive.

and i have a boyfriend now... i met my ex on a sat to give myself a 'closure' because i always thought there was something wrong with me so he broke up with me. But I look better now and i know it's not me. So it was a good meet-up though we never talked about our past relationship- and i never told my boyfriend about the meeting because there's no point in it.

it will only hurt him. So why should i do that? Some things are not meant to be said.