tmr how ?
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ok this is what i have planned for tmr...
got a feeling it's gonna screw up/
anyway
tmr wait for her to be like..doing something not impt like playing html games?
then send the msg and wait for her reply ?
msg something like " hi, i am ... year2 biotech.. i am keen to make friends with you. do you mind?"
in a way, i do hope to be friends with her first then hope to see if things work out for us....
in a way there seems to be something fundamentally wrong with this ?
then another confusing thought.....was thinking shld i be doing this or not...because right now there's too many things to be done and next sem..i will be doing my FYP...and whether it's the right time to have a r/s ?
any opinions ? -
right time... if u never move, u will hav no time...
make the move now Bismarck...
good luck to u for your wednesday's mission
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grab the chance
do it step by step ....
soon or later
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x2 x 2 x2 x 2 !!!! Gogogo! Bis power!!!Originally posted by sgboy2004:right time... if u never move, u will hav no time...
make the move now Bismarck...
good luck to u for your wednesday's mission -
shd go directly to her... hello... may i know your nameOriginally posted by bismarck:ok this is what i have planned for tmr...
got a feeling it's gonna screw up/
anyway
tmr wait for her to be like..doing something not impt like playing html games?
then send the msg and wait for her reply ?
msg something like " hi, i am ... year2 biotech.. i am keen to make friends with you. do you mind?"
in a way, i do hope to be friends with her first then hope to see if things work out for us....
in a way there seems to be something fundamentally wrong with this ?
then another confusing thought.....was thinking shld i be doing this or not...because right now there's too many things to be done and next sem..i will be doing my FYP...and whether it's the right time to have a r/s ?
any opinions ?
be confident, cordial and polite
then see her daily... a few simple hellos will do.. then perhaps say "may i join u for a meal?"
and etc
and be consistent
did that once to get to know a stranger from NTU
pretty nice girl
shd not send e msg cos its easy to cock up. easy to miss. easy to...
shd be more direct and ask her
rem psycho urself all the negative things abt her and it will help to calm urself down -
maybe u are handsome etc...and i am not ?Originally posted by ntu slacker:shd go directly to her... hello... may i know your name
be confident, cordial and polite
then see her daily... a few simple hellos will do.. then perhaps say "may i join u for a meal?"
and etc
and be consistent
did that once to get to know a stranger from NTU
pretty nice girl
shd not send e msg cos its easy to cock up. easy to miss. easy to...
shd be more direct and ask her
rem psycho urself all the negative things abt her and it will help to calm urself down -
dunno lah...
tmr
heck care, dun give a fark abt it
just msg her...
i have got nothing to lose.
if nothing goes then too bad lah...the only consolation is that i still got my friends to stick ard with in sch...and more eye candy in sch
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no worries ....... at 23 going on 24, i still get butterflies in my stomach
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im hearing impaired.Originally posted by bismarck:maybe u are handsome etc...and i am not ?
the girl i love (not her) most is gone.
if a disabled (no offense to others) person can pull it off, why not you.
have confidence
and oh yeah dun be too excited. rem psycho urself she's smthing like a frd frd... or u really darn lonely and wan a frd -
"hi. nice boobs."
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same! 4 years already... gg to ask her out before i leave for overseas or start my new life...Originally posted by eutjin:no worries ....... at 23 going on 24, i still get butterflies in my stomach
missed her so much... 4 years of heartache and tears.
now im at a loss hoiw to ask her out for i was faithful to her those 4 years even we werent physically tog.. never dated -
have respect for girls pls lehOriginally posted by www:"hi. nice boobs."
though i know u meant it to be funny but i beg to differ
its like a girl joking to her pal to tell a cute guy "hey nice Ferrari" its a bit insulting -
actually i purposely walked into her direction to 'intercept' her. so can get a direct glimpse at her and tried looking at her in the eyes...but she looked down...
dunno whether she didnt want to look at me or she is just in her own world...thinking abt something?????? -
dont think too muchOriginally posted by bismarck:actually i purposely walked into her direction to 'intercept' her. so can get a direct glimpse at her and tried looking at her in the eyes...but she looked down...
dunno whether she didnt want to look at me or she is just in her own world...thinking abt something??????
maybe she's shy
haha, i dun practise what i preach
unfortunate guy here
well maybe u shd intro urself
cos the way u erm going abt it can creep out peeps
i felt this way with girls before -
i WAS trying to be funny.Originally posted by ntu slacker:have respect for girls pls leh
though i know u meant it to be funny but i beg to differ
its like a girl joking to her pal to tell a cute guy "hey nice Ferrari" its a bit insulting
IT IS a bad pickup line.
anyway, no pickup line is better compared to being yourself and be confident about it. ka cheong also no use. -
hehe relax mateOriginally posted by www:i WAS trying to be funny.
IT IS a bad pickup line.
anyway, no pickup line is better compared to being yourself and be confident about it. ka cheong also no use.
i aint that shallow -
good luck bismarck...Originally posted by bismarck:ok this is what i have planned for tmr...
got a feeling it's gonna screw up/
anyway
tmr wait for her to be like..doing something not impt like playing html games?
then send the msg and wait for her reply ?
msg something like " hi, i am ... year2 biotech.. i am keen to make friends with you. do you mind?"
in a way, i do hope to be friends with her first then hope to see if things work out for us....
in a way there seems to be something fundamentally wrong with this ?
then another confusing thought.....was thinking shld i be doing this or not...because right now there's too many things to be done and next sem..i will be doing my FYP...and whether it's the right time to have a r/s ?
any opinions ? -
Originally posted by bismarck:dunno lah...
tmr
heck care, dun give a fark abt it
just msg her...
i have got nothing to lose.
if nothing goes then too bad lah...the only consolation is that i still got my friends to stick ard with in sch...and more eye candy in sch -
aaugh... I guess any gals will be flattered by what you are going to do! Dun worry so much! Just do it! - Nike Slogan
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Biz, do you really think you're going to succeed with that attitude? If you're going to do something, commit 100% to it. If not, forget about it. Going in with a half-baked atittude like what you've shown above is the surest way to have a balls-up.Originally posted by bismarck:dunno lah...
tmr
heck care, dun give a fark abt it
just msg her...
i have got nothing to lose.
if nothing goes then too bad lah...the only consolation is that i still got my friends to stick ard with in sch...and more eye candy in sch
You say you've got nothing to lose, but at the same time it's important enough for you to start a thread about this. Sure you're nervous, sure you're somewhat paranoid about what will happen - anybody would be. On the other hand, you're putting up a lot of defenses that are going to trip you up if you're not careful.
I concur with ntu slacker - face-to-face is the best way to go, and I've already asserted that point ad nauseum on the other thread, so I'll leave it at that. -
i am not saying that it will work.Originally posted by Gedanken:Biz, do you really think you're going to succeed with that attitude? If you're going to do something, commit 100% to it. If not, forget about it. Going in with a half-baked atittude like what you've shown above is the surest way to have a balls-up.
You say you've got nothing to lose, but at the same time it's important enough for you to start a thread about this. Sure you're nervous, sure you're somewhat paranoid about what will happen - anybody would be. On the other hand, you're putting up a lot of defenses that are going to trip you up if you're not careful.
I concur with ntu slacker - face-to-face is the best way to go, and I've already asserted that point ad nauseum on the other thread, so I'll leave it at that.
but what i am afraid of doing asking her direct would scare her off. and it would be easier for her to "xia tai" -
haha.Originally posted by www:i WAS trying to be funny.
IT IS a bad pickup line.
anyway, no pickup line is better compared to being yourself and be confident about it. ka cheong also no use.
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hmmm
ask u hor
biotech is work in lab 1 rite???
tat means grad liao still in lab rite???
hope i made the rite choice of appealing for Business studies after getting posted to Medical Technology...
nnnn
grab your chance.aiyo wan chase gal muz b thick skin.best is u find those frenz who will support u de den ask them da qi... -
From what advice I've seen the other posters give, I personally would conclude that it is entirely possible to do it face-to-face without scaring her off. Chances are that you'll be more scared than she will!Originally posted by bismarck:i am not saying that it will work.
but what i am afraid of doing asking her direct would scare her off. and it would be easier for her to "xia tai"
From what I've seen, you're swinging from one end of the scale to the other. You're getting all nervous about it, then you say you don't care. Get yourself sorted out and get into that comfortable space in the middle before you do anything. It's casual, not "the end of the world" or "I don't care". All the best!