I just had a bad dream

• confused123

  24 Mar 04, 09:06

  It wasn't really a bad dream as in I woke up sweating and screaming or anything of that sort.
  Look, let me explain. It was about this girl, my ex. We went steady a few months back and we broke up after a few weeks. She said it was because she could concentrate on her studies because her 'O' levels was coming up. But I just took it as another excuse for her to break up with me 'gently'. I wasn't that hurt by it. It took like 1-2 days for me to get over it.
  
  But recently, she's beginning to express interest in me again (unless I'm too sensitive). And I had a dream yesterday that she was holding and hugging another guy (a friend who has interest in her but she doesn't like him) in front of me. Then I woke up for school. What ever the hell does it mean?
• the Bear

  24 Mar 04, 09:10

  it means that you're dreaming..
  
  that's all... not too good with dream things but maybe you have feelings for her that are deeper than you know? hence the jealousy?
  
  but in the meantime, be friends with her, go through your studies together?
  
  heck! it may even help the both of you achieve better results!
• confused123

  24 Mar 04, 09:20

  I didn't have dreams like that the last time we were together. And I think my feelings for her although still there, are somewhat lesser then before.
  And we're taking different subjects in different schools. She's in JC and I'm in a Polytechnic.
  So I shouldn't get back together with her again?
  
  Thanks for the quick reply. What you doing online in the wee hours of the morning?
• the Bear

  24 Mar 04, 09:25

  it's my day off.. and the blasted neighbour's contractors have started their jackhammers..
  
  as for different paths, studying together, taking breaks together and all that, still helps
  
  at least some motivation to actually go somewhere to study yah? and you'll both be developing your friendship and maybe relationship?
  
  it all adds up...
  
  so don't worry about your dreams, be her friend, and go with that for the time being... and if fates allow it, you'll both be great friends and maybe a great couple
  
  

  Originally posted by confused123:

  I didn't have dreams like that the last time we were together. And I think my feelings for her although still there, are somewhat lesser then before.
  And we're taking different subjects in different schools. She's in JC and I'm in a Polytechnic.
  So I shouldn't get back together with her again?
  
  Thanks for the quick reply. What you doing online in the wee hours of the morning?

• foga

  24 Mar 04, 09:25

  dear confused123, ask yourself if you still have feelings for her. if your answer is yes, give it another shot. if things work out, it's the best. if things dun, at least you tried. from there we'll move on and perhaps you'll find a better one in poly? pls accept my sincerest regards.
  
  

  Originally posted by confused123:

  I didn't have dreams like that the last time we were together. And I think my feelings for her although still there, are somewhat lesser then before.
  And we're taking different subjects in different schools. She's in JC and I'm in a Polytechnic.
  So I shouldn't get back together with her again?
  
  Thanks for the quick reply. What you doing online in the wee hours of the morning?

• bjork

  24 Mar 04, 12:39

  Originally posted by confused123:

  It wasn't really a bad dream as in I woke up sweating and screaming or anything of that sort.
  Look, let me explain. It was about this girl, my ex. We went steady a few months back and we broke up after a few weeks. She said it was because she could concentrate on her studies because her 'O' levels was coming up. But I just took it as another excuse for her to break up with me 'gently'. I wasn't that hurt by it. It took like 1-2 days for me to get over it.
  
  But recently, she's beginning to express interest in me again (unless I'm too sensitive). And I had a dream yesterday that she was holding and hugging another guy (a friend who has interest in her but she doesn't like him) in front of me. Then I woke up for school. What ever the hell does it mean?

  Like wat Bear say its a dream.
  It might be 'cos wat ur dreaming is wat u fear most.
  Or u are simply thinking too much and it reflect in ur dreams.
  Relax abit... Ur being too tense up, tresure ur schooling days u will miss them. trust me.
• wuming78

  24 Mar 04, 12:41

  couldnt remember my dreams for quite some time... think i haven been sleeping enuff.
• Devil1976

  24 Mar 04, 13:33

  Originally posted by confused123:

  It wasn't really a bad dream as in I woke up sweating and screaming or anything of that sort.
  Look, let me explain. It was about this girl, my ex. We went steady a few months back and we broke up after a few weeks. She said it was because she could concentrate on her studies because her 'O' levels was coming up. But I just took it as another excuse for her to break up with me 'gently'. I wasn't that hurt by it. It took like 1-2 days for me to get over it.
  
  But recently, she's beginning to express interest in me again (unless I'm too sensitive). And I had a dream yesterday that she was holding and hugging another guy (a friend who has interest in her but she doesn't like him) in front of me. Then I woke up for school. What ever the hell does it mean?

  Probably means you're still dreaming...?
• confused123

  24 Mar 04, 15:31

  BTW, I forgot to mention that her 'O' levels are long over already. So there is probably not much need for me to study with her or anything like that. She's much smarter than me in studies.
  
  And, I don't know if I love her still. How do I find out?
• bjork

  24 Mar 04, 16:26

  Originally posted by confused123:

  BTW, I forgot to mention that her 'O' levels are long over already. So there is probably not much need for me to study with her or anything like that. She's much smarter than me in studies.
  
  And, I don't know if I love her still. How do I find out?

  search ur heart. Only u know the answer.