Impt to buy/rent your own house/apt when you get married?
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How many of you think so?
How many will prefer to stay with your own parents or in laws?
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HDB...HDB...mi would like to hav mi own HDB...but...
but mi must find a new gf first...
should mi start a thread to ask forumites to apply to be Croc, the good boi, gf???
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I din noe there were female crocs here
Croco can try Mandai
RPOriginally posted by sgboy2004:HDB...HDB...mi would like to hav mi own HDB...but...
but mi must find a new gf first...
should mi start a thread to ask forumites to apply to be Croc, the good boi, gf???
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No lah... sgboy is a boi boi, must match him up with a ger ger! any sggirl out there?Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:I din noe there were female crocs here
Croco can try Mandai
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think its impt for a married couple to have time to themselves and privacy..... sometimes parents and their idiosyncracies can drive a wedge into a newly formed marriage....
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Yep totally agree, living with parents or in laws, will really kill the privacy and intimacy for newly weds....
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Ooops, yah, forgot he turned over a new leaf & has his own little bar now
Okie lah, I check my matchmaking database & see whether got any gd matches or Not
*click click click mouse*
RPOriginally posted by :No lah... sgboy is a boi boi, must match him up with a ger ger! any sggirl out there? -
wu suo wei....
dun mind staying with parents......they can help take care of kids.......
and i shd be out most time of the day so no need face them a lot.....reduce conflicts........ -
especially when engaged in 'special activities'Originally posted by KittynMeow:think its impt for a married couple to have time to themselves and privacy..... sometimes parents and their idiosyncracies can drive a wedge into a newly formed marriage....
But seriously, I think having some quality times with your partner at a place we can both relax IS very important, and a home to ourselves sounds promising.
Until the kids come along....
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Having kids can be v. fulfilling... I was out for lunch wif my cuz, her hubby, & their adorable little 1yo daughter (my niece).
She's so mischievous, & her eyes r so Notti. And she's always smiling & up to somethg cheeky.
Her parents haf the glow of happiness on their faces : ) And I think it's brot them closer together. I'm happee for them : )
RPOriginally posted by ChrisYX:especially when engaged in 'special activities'
But seriously, I think having some quality times with your partner at a place we can both relax IS very important, and a home to ourselves sounds promising.
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thanks...Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Ooops, yah, forgot he turned over a new leaf & has his own little bar now
Okie lah, I check my matchmaking database & see whether got any gd matches or Not
*click click click mouse*
RP
>sits patiently waiting for RP to reply<
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Quite true though, nowadays, most of us are only getting married in the 'sunsets' of our youth... so that does'nt leave much time to fully enjoy being together alone after marriage, as we would have to start the baby factory asap before its too late.Originally posted by ChrisYX:especially when engaged in 'special activities'
But seriously, I think having some quality times with your partner at a place we can both relax IS very important, and a home to ourselves sounds promising.
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what if you had no choice but had to live with your hubby's in laws? And they irritate the hell out of you? Then how?Originally posted by FireIce:wu suo wei....
dun mind staying with parents......they can help take care of kids.......
and i shd be out most time of the day so no need face them a lot.....reduce conflicts........
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bo bian loh.......Originally posted by :what if you had no choice but had to live with your hubby's in laws? And they irritate the hell out of you? Then how?
hope husband will stand out and mediate........
arbo threaten dun give them grandchildren............muehahahahhaha -
FI is so Evil!Originally posted by FireIce:bo bian loh.......
hope husband will stand out and mediate........
arbo threaten dun give them grandchildren............muehahahahhaha
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u do chu yi....
i do shi wu mah...........
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agree agree... i like kids... nowadays whenever meet up with my fren, I want to carry and play with their kid so much sometimes i wonder if i monopolising the kid... kekeke... only 3-month old but soooooooooo CUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTE!!! kekekeke...Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Having kids can be v. fulfilling... I was out for lunch wif my cuz, her hubby, & their adorable little 1yo daughter (my niece).
She's so mischievous, & her eyes r so Notti. And she's always smiling & up to somethg cheeky.
Her parents haf the glow of happiness on their faces : ) And I think it's brot them closer together. I'm happee for them : )
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yah i noe taking care of kid is diff from playing with the kid... but i dun see that as a prob... kekeke -
Not saying having kids are bad. Know of kids that my relatives have who are cute and adorable as well.Originally posted by RainbowPrincess:Having kids can be v. fulfilling... I was out for lunch wif my cuz, her hubby, & their adorable little 1yo daughter (my niece).
She's so mischievous, & her eyes r so Notti. And she's always smiling & up to somethg cheeky.
Her parents haf the glow of happiness on their faces : ) And I think it's brot them closer together. I'm happee for them : )
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Just that with their arrival, quality times with your partner alone is severely reduced. Maybe delay their arrival by a few years first to enjoy the bliss of marriage. -
x2Originally posted by ChrisYX:Not saying having kids are bad. Know of kids that my relatives have who are cute and adorable as well. Just that with their arrival, quality times with your partner alone is severely reduced. Maybe delay their arrival by a few years first to enjoy the bliss of marriage. -
I understand, tt "2 Pple World" bliss
Well, alternatively, can always ask in-laws to help wif taking care of the kids over the wkend, so husband & wifey can spend qlty time together?
Or I'm sure godmothers/godsisters/godaunties will always be willing to babysit.
My mum has offered her services to take care of tt little 1 yo niece I oso dun mind, she's soooooo adorable!
RPOriginally posted by ChrisYX:Not saying having kids are bad. Know of kids that my relatives have who are cute and adorable as well. Just that with their arrival, quality times with your partner alone is severely reduced. Maybe delay their arrival by a few years first to enjoy the bliss of marriage. -
I adore children!!!
I lurrve their scent, their soft skin, their cheeky grins & their plump little hands & feet
But if they grow up into brats, I'll ignore them oredi I can't stand children who're bratty. Mischief is 1 thg, brattishness is another
RPOriginally posted by KittynMeow:agree agree... i like kids... nowadays whenever meet up with my fren, I want to carry and play with their kid so much sometimes i wonder if i monopolising the kid... kekeke... only 3-month old but soooooooooo CUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUTE!!! kekekeke...
yah i noe taking care of kid is diff from playing with the kid... but i dun see that as a prob... kekeke -
Sorry ah... my chinese F9!Originally posted by FireIce:u do chu yi....i do shi wu mah...........
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important to have an asset on hand.
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so hav u applied for your "asset" yet?Originally posted by jusgal:important to have an asset on hand.
also good to have own home
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