I feel so depressed
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the onus is really on you to decide how best you should move.. i agree that venting out ur feelings is better than bottling it up.. at least even here in the forums..
but then again, when it comes back down to reality, do you want to stay on in this state or would u want to make things better for yourself?
can you make yourself be in a better position or are ur hands tied?
so if there is a way to get out of it..itws always better to work towards that then sulk over ur woes..
everyone has its bad times, and in time maybe good ones.. it wont be dat bad all the time. dats perhaps the best thing i can use to hopefully bring some cheer.
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Dun feel so useless and sad... Life has still a long way to go... Try to balance ur studies and work together... If u need to vent ur anger or juz let everything out, it's good to do it... Coz u will eventually feel better...Originally posted by cooleo:I dun make it a habit to pour my woes over a forum....but i really can't take it anymore! My studies are not going well and my work is just going thru the motion. I feel really upset when others get promotions while i remain stagnant.
I dun really expect anyone here to help me. I guess i just need to express how i feel....i feel so useless and sad now. *sigh
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it is tough juggling work n studies at a same time.. espically when exams are ard the corner..wat u need is TIME MANAGEMENT.. with proper time managing, u will have time for ur studies as well as a reflection on ur jobOriginally posted by cooleo:I dun make it a habit to pour my woes over a forum....but i really can't take it anymore! My studies are not going well and my work is just going thru the motion. I feel really upset when others get promotions while i remain stagnant.
I dun really expect anyone here to help me. I guess i just need to express how i feel....i feel so useless and sad now. *sigh -
neber mind about dat.
do not compare your achievements with your frens. there is a limit to a person's abilities and not ever individual is equal. forget dat bad feelin about work and your career not taking flight. ask yourself why you are studying and working at the same time? coz your need paper qualifications for a better job that's why. try to concentrate on your studies and ignore that weird feelings about your monotonous work routine. get that cert and i am sure one day you will not get promoted but get a higher position in a new job elsewhere.
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hai... its ok...everybody feels that way sometimes.. I should know..
anyway..dun think so much about it. when you're ready... try to find some way to put interest back into what you do. that way, you won't be WORKING but actually doing something you ENJOY... -
jia you jia you... cheer up hor.. i always tell my fren to cheer up.. just think of mi lah.. coz no one life can be as bad and screwed up as mine now.. so they should be happy with theirs...
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Totally agree! I've been through it and am surviving now!Originally posted by claud:it is tough juggling work n studies at a same time.. espically when exams are ard the corner..wat u need is TIME MANAGEMENT.. with proper time managing, u will have time for ur studies as well as a reflection on ur job -
U should relax your mind and stare to te blue sky and think ...............what u should really do next.............Originally posted by cooleo:I dun make it a habit to pour my woes over a forum....but i really can't take it anymore! My studies are not going well and my work is just going thru the motion. I feel really upset when others get promotions while i remain stagnant.
I dun really expect anyone here to help me. I guess i just need to express how i feel....i feel so useless and sad now. *sigh -
Dont feel depress, as long as u know u have done ur best why worry promotions and all this $hit... When time comes plp will know how much hard work u have put in and u will get promoted. As for ur studies, jus go all out and try ur best too, maybe with some luck and the hard work u have put in u will do wellOriginally posted by cooleo:I dun make it a habit to pour my woes over a forum....but i really can't take it anymore! My studies are not going well and my work is just going thru the motion. I feel really upset when others get promotions while i remain stagnant.
I dun really expect anyone here to help me. I guess i just need to express how i feel....i feel so useless and sad now. *sigh 
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*Calling Gedanken*Originally posted by cooleo:Thanks everyone! Frankly speaking, i still feel down, but reading some of the encouraging comments does help to lift my spirits up albeit a little only. I've never feel so down for my entire life, i think i've hit rock bottom. Is there a place i can go to for some counselling? I wish i can be stronger, but the depressing thoughts can't seem to disperse.
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in real life, u get promotions not just because u can peform yr job well, u mus also knw how to carry balls to prefection...
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I reckon you might not really need 'counselling'? Just go for some 'la kopi' sessions with a friend or two?Originally posted by cooleo:Thanks everyone! Frankly speaking, i still feel down, but reading some of the encouraging comments does help to lift my spirits up albeit a little only. I've never feel so down for my entire life, i think i've hit rock bottom. Is there a place i can go to for some counselling? I wish i can be stronger, but the depressing thoughts can't seem to disperse. -
hey i feel the same way too....i feel so helpless
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Originally posted by cooleo:Well i've decided to move on and get another job. It may not pay me much more, but at least i will feel more appreciated. As for my studies, i am doing quite well, but the toll of doing so many projects is getting me down. Will and must try to be strong for the sake of my family.
Best of luck?