how do u noe if u r a les?
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anyone knows how to define a les? other than liking other gers.. how do u differentiate between admiration and pure liking? i keep thinking of this other person every single day, wishing i can see her and all tt but i duno if it's considered having tots of les??
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if u want to pia her, u r probably homosexual lor
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Originally posted by iF oNly:anyone knows how to define a les? other than liking other gers.. how do u differentiate between admiration and pure liking? i keep thinking of this other person every single day, wishing i can see her and all tt but i duno if it's considered having tots of les??
I promise you this will be long.
A significiant percentage of girls will undergo this les-like thingy, especially during teens. You are NOT a lesbian unless you acknowledge and wants to be one. Even acting like has nothing to do - (Have a good friend who became a butch for popularity sake - don't ask me why, girls sch usually have such politics)
Before you define a lesbian, you must understand how a lesbian is form. There are many school of thoughts in this case, but mine will make you fully understand (at least a good insight - but of course, if you are a christian - you can stop reading totally and probably seek help from your pastor if things are getting harsh inside you. My theory would probably conflict with religions ones)
First, you have to believe in the existence of reincarntion. (If there was a God, no God will create a homosexual man/woman).
Next, you will understand basis science theory. (Like pole repel and unlike pole attracts)
Third, you have to understand simple maths theory. (Two negative equal positive. E.g. 1- -1 = 2. Positive + positive is still positive. E.g. 1+1 = 2 )
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A soul and a body is different. Soul contains two energies - one mascline and one feminine. (Gonna skip another theory which will explain the existance of true love). During reincarnation, the soul and unite with the body - a life is created. What makes a person's gender can be explained by scientific means. (What XY, etc). Then after birth, a biological girl/guy is born.
Throughout countless of reincarnation - you will be re-born from man and woman or either one of them generally. For a lesbian to form, you must understand that a soul that is born many times of a woman will be a feminine soul. During one reincarnation and this soul is born a man - there will be a free will conscious decision later in teens stage. (Biological growth pouring in and Higher Twin Self theory seeking for other half).
This girl may feel more man than a woman - because biologically she is a woman, but her soul is inclinced towards the abundance of mascline energy. Astrology theory of South/North Nodes is applicable here. (South Nodes: we are familiar with what we are good at, our past, our achievement. But we receive zero growth because we have already been-there-done-that. North Nodes: This is where we must go. We must move to new areas, learn new things. But this area is dark and bleak. Future is uncertain. But if we never try, we never know)
In very simple words: This girl's soul, being very mascline, would want to revert back to its original feel and reject the current lesson of her being a woman. Psychologically, people are more comfortable with things that they know and familiar with. This is same for the soul.
Then all your psychological theory comes in - if your environment, blar blar blar, influence you, this will affect your decision to succumb to your soul. You acknowledge them, you became a lesbian and reject your biological gender. Then, emotional, mental and spiritual conflicts will hang around for as long as you re-accept your life lesson again.
What is a lesbian? A girl falling in love with another girl. Maths theory says two negative makes it positive. That's the reason why people are more comfortable in seeing lesbians than gays. (Woman are negative and man are positive).
But I thought falling in love must be unlike poles? You are right. Only unlike poles attracts.
Then how come a girl fall in love with a girl?
Love is spiritual. The answer is your soul's energy. Mascline and feminine energy attracts. And since negative and negative = positive, girls are more prone to such thingy because it seemed 'more ok'. Both can be girls - but one has mascline soul and the other feminine soul.
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Thinking of her is nothing. Everything is pure admiring on your part. You connect with her, but doesn't mean anything. Unless you wants to be - its all about free will and your decision. Some people don't have a choice - actually they have, but their situation is heavily link with their personal karma, it's difficult.
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tt was indeed looonngg n i had to re-read qt a few times
but i kind of understood u i guess.. thanks!! i'm not very religious so nothing reali guides mi in this kind of thing..
i think yar it's all the growing up phase thingy budden i realize it's not the 1st time i'm getting this kind of feelings.. which reali makes mi start to think twice abt y izit i keep liking the females whom i think r nice but i jus dun find guys nice tt frequently?
i oni reali liked 2 guys b4, one of them my ex, but i've liked 4 gers.. one of them for 4 years.. but tt was in sec sch so i'll jus label tt as "growing up".. rite now i'm 20 yet i can't stop thinkin of this i-shud-say-woman (coz she's ten yrs older) i think i treat her as my role model but the extent to which i think of her n miss her.. when she was sick i felt so helpless.. when her mood was down all i dared to do was sms her take care.. i'm constantly thinkin of her n wondering wat she's doing.. i always wish i can see her in the next sec.. i reali duno wat's this exactly.. which is y i got troubled n decided to cum in here hopin some pple can gif some enlightenment.. tnx all! -
No worries at all. You are normal.Originally posted by iF oNly:tt was indeed looonngg n i had to re-read qt a few times but i kind of understood u i guess.. thanks!! i'm not very religious so nothing reali guides mi in this kind of thing..
i think yar it's all the growing up phase thingy budden i realize it's not the 1st time i'm getting this kind of feelings.. which reali makes mi start to think twice abt y izit i keep liking the females whom i think r nice but i jus dun find guys nice tt frequently?
i oni reali liked 2 guys b4, one of them my ex, but i've liked 4 gers.. one of them for 4 years.. but tt was in sec sch so i'll jus label tt as "growing up".. rite now i'm 20 yet i can't stop thinkin of this i-shud-say-woman (coz she's ten yrs older) i think i treat her as my role model but the extent to which i think of her n miss her.. when she was sick i felt so helpless.. when her mood was down all i dared to do was sms her take care.. i'm constantly thinkin of her n wondering wat she's doing.. i always wish i can see her in the next sec.. i reali duno wat's this exactly.. which is y i got troubled n decided to cum in here hopin some pple can gif some enlightenment.. tnx all!
Anyway, enjoy your stay at Aunt Agony.
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when i fall in luv wit honghong, mappy,. bufpuf,, carin,,.angeline..shan cai...jewel...and alot...
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Originally posted by Ah Ma:when i fall in luv wit honghong, mappy,. bufpuf,, carin,,.angeline..shan cai...jewel...and alot...
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Of course lar... ah ma more yandao than f4 lehOriginally posted by Ah Ma:when i fall in luv wit honghong, mappy,. bufpuf,, carin,,.angeline..shan cai...jewel...and alot...
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Maybe you're a Bi?Originally posted by iF oNly:tt was indeed looonngg n i had to re-read qt a few times but i kind of understood u i guess.. thanks!! i'm not very religious so nothing reali guides mi in this kind of thing..
i think yar it's all the growing up phase thingy budden i realize it's not the 1st time i'm getting this kind of feelings.. which reali makes mi start to think twice abt y izit i keep liking the females whom i think r nice but i jus dun find guys nice tt frequently?
i oni reali liked 2 guys b4, one of them my ex, but i've liked 4 gers.. one of them for 4 years.. but tt was in sec sch so i'll jus label tt as "growing up".. rite now i'm 20 yet i can't stop thinkin of this i-shud-say-woman (coz she's ten yrs older) i think i treat her as my role model but the extent to which i think of her n miss her.. when she was sick i felt so helpless.. when her mood was down all i dared to do was sms her take care.. i'm constantly thinkin of her n wondering wat she's doing.. i always wish i can see her in the next sec.. i reali duno wat's this exactly.. which is y i got troubled n decided to cum in here hopin some pple can gif some enlightenment.. tnx all! -
hey..ur prob is rather similar to mine..
can't seem to stop tinkin' abt HER..
hard to find guys whom i'll feel as much for..
to mi..i still don't really consider myself a lesbian..
cos lesbians have also to be sexually attracted to girls..
i don't..
girls don't turn me on.. -
reali?? qt confusin rite.. duno leh i also dun feel sexually attracted, jus like her a lot a lot a lot.. until i find it strange n abnormal ha.. sighz..
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Pretty normal what? I also like my buddies alot? Certainly don't make me a gay?Originally posted by iF oNly:reali?? qt confusin rite.. duno leh i also dun feel sexually attracted, jus like her a lot a lot a lot.. until i find it strange n abnormal ha.. sighz.. -
it's like i can do ANYTHING..anything at all..for her..
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Hmm... That is BLIND LOVE? Not much to do with sexuality...?Originally posted by MovieGirl:it's like i can do ANYTHING..anything at all..for her.. -
you are normal. gals are better-looking than guys any day.Originally posted by iF oNly:anyone knows how to define a les? other than liking other gers.. how do u differentiate between admiration and pure liking? i keep thinking of this other person every single day, wishing i can see her and all tt but i duno if it's considered having tots of les?? -
mista, itz a totally diff thing alrite??Originally posted by Devil1976:Pretty normal what? I also like my buddies alot? Certainly don't make me a gay? -
do u noe that if a guy has more feminine features, he would look more appealing to ladies? (of cuz not a total makeover la hehe)Originally posted by boy in blues:you are normal. gals are better-looking than guys any day.
well itz a phase to some females. some cont that way, some let it be history. it might be an infatuation for all u noe~. -
ya. that is why guy heroes in japanese cartoons have feminine features. more appealing to both sexes.Originally posted by tha_schizophrenic:do u noe that if a guy has more feminine features, he would look more appealing to ladies? (of cuz not a total makeover la hehe)
well itz a phase to some females. some cont that way, some let it be history. it might be an infatuation for all u noe~. -
Not really...?Originally posted by tha_schizophrenic:mista, itz a totally diff thing alrite?? 
Sometimes it's quite a 'mixture'...? Like she've mentioned, it's nothing quite sexual? Just a strong liking...? Just like a student looking up to a teacher or a child to an uncle... Usually sort of like a mentor's rule... Relationship would develop...? Sometimes unknowingly... (especially for people who's not so aware of their directional control...) A strong liking just develop... Sometimes into 'love'... Sometimes into something like that... (love, but not a BGR thing)... Hence the confusions would flood in...
Just like a friendship developing into love? Just that that's pretty much the norm... And more readily accepted by people in terms of morality and common situational happenings... -
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not a question on les but on nodes... i've been reading up on nodes abit n it seems they need to be balanced/integrated (? how/what) (not focus on north as i previously thought?) i've problems with my leo/aqua nodes, would like to hear ur take on nodes...
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I was at this concert. then all of a sudden this two girls sitting in front of me kissed each other, like out of no reason. so weird.