am i being too unreasonable?
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ok, here goes.
There's this girl. Met her in december last year. Fell in love instantly. She likes me too. Then we started msging each other and talking to each other on the phone.
Then now April liao, i want to bring the relationship forward. I believe that its impossible to build a good relationship with sms and phone calls only. So i kept asking her out and stuff. But she is seriously busy, schedule so packed that she does'nt have a single day free to herself until July.
I kept suggesting reasons we can see each other, but all kena reject by her. Then just now on the phone..
Me: So we can't see each other for one month?
she: Yeah
Me: Yeah? Serious??! (i was quite fustrated at this point)
she: Yeah... for the time being (she sounded quite apologetic)
Me: For the time being??! (I was wondering at this point how many years the time bring could be measured in.)
She: Im so sorry.. gtg.. call u later (She sounded damn sad)
I think im being a little unreasonable here. I love her so much. All i want is for her to be happpy. And i don't also want to go out if she has to be forced.
Is there anything i can do? What do you guys think? -
I think u may be unreasonable here. I guess u can be a little more bearing and reasonable and try to endure it. Or u can make arrangements to go see her or wat. GIve in on your part b4 u ask others to give in to u.Originally posted by Koolsgdude:ok, here goes.
There's this girl. Met her in december last year. Fell in love instantly. She likes me too. Then we started msging each other and talking to each other on the phone.
Then now April liao, i want to bring the relationship forward. I believe that its impossible to build a good relationship with sms and phone calls only. So i kept asking her out and stuff. But she is seriously busy, schedule so packed that she does'nt have a single day free to herself until July.
I kept suggesting reasons we can see each other, but all kena reject by her. Then just now on the phone..
Me: So we can't see each other for one month?
she: Yeah
Me: Yeah? Serious??! (i was quite fustrated at this point)
she: Yeah... for the time being (she sounded quite apologetic)
Me: For the time being??! (I was wondering at this point how many years the time bring could be measured in.)
She: Im so sorry.. gtg.. call u later (She sounded damn sad)
I think im being a little unreasonable here. I love her so much. All i want is for her to be happpy. And i don't also want to go out if she has to be forced.
Is there anything i can do? What do you guys think?
Try to understand why she is so busy and that she has her reasons for doing so. If u are not patient enuff, i guess u can always move on. REm that u are not the only onw hoe is frustrated. Being refused a few times isnt a bad thing at all, u get to train ur patience!
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yups.. apologised to her just now..
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Hell-ooo!??!!?!
There are about 2 million other women in Singapore to choose from.
Forget this schmuck and find other girls. -
Originally posted by Koolsgdude:ok, here goes.
There's this girl. Met her in december last year. Fell in love instantly. She likes me too. Then we started msging each other and talking to each other on the phone.
Then now April liao, i want to bring the relationship forward. I believe that its impossible to build a good relationship with sms and phone calls only. So i kept asking her out and stuff. But she is seriously busy, schedule so packed that she does'nt have a single day free to herself until July.
I kept suggesting reasons we can see each other, but all kena reject by her. Then just now on the phone..
Me: So we can't see each other for one month?
she: Yeah
Me: Yeah? Serious??! (i was quite fustrated at this point)
she: Yeah... for the time being (she sounded quite apologetic)
Me: For the time being??! (I was wondering at this point how many years the time bring could be measured in.)
She: Im so sorry.. gtg.. call u later (She sounded damn sad)
I think im being a little unreasonable here. I love her so much. All i want is for her to be happpy. And i don't also want to go out if she has to be forced.
Is there anything i can do? What do you guys think?
Right now, apart from giving her the benefit of the doubt, there is little you could do? What you have been trying to do is good and logical for a proper friendship to blossom even further - don't worry; good stuff is worth a little waiting? Or maybe that little waiting will make you discover more about her, which indirectly, didn't waste any time of yours at all.
There could be more than meets than eye, but possibilities are limitless. Just go with the flow for now.
Cheers -
somehow.... i get the feeling shes attached.... hmmmmzzzzzz.z....z.z....
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hahas. thanks guys. and nope, she isn't attatched.
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give urself more time and maybe more option. maintain as a friend first and see how things goes
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me feels the same too.... sounds like she got some unfinished matters!!Originally posted by KiMMi:somehow.... i get the feeling shes attached.... hmmmmzzzzzz.z....z.z....