Frenship -> love?
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I guess many of you out there should have met this kind of situation before.
Develop a liking for your best friend.
I need some comments from you people.
Should I cross the line? -
happens all the time........
when u r too close to a person....nan mian will develop some feelings in the end......
how does the other party feel abt it?
it would get pretty awkward if it's one-sided
and the frenship might be jeopardised
and both end up dun tok to each other.......
get someone else to test water first? -
no man.. dun cross. wait u confess to her, and she reject. u both cant be bez fren anymore..Originally posted by Knapper:I guess many of you out there should have met this kind of situation before.
Develop a liking for your best friend.
I need some comments from you people.
Should I cross the line? -
Hmm... Good question...?Originally posted by Knapper:I guess many of you out there should have met this kind of situation before.
Develop a liking for your best friend.
I need some comments from you people.
Should I cross the line?
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thats a very common matter... perhaps u shd test out b4 u cross the line... b4 u made any embarrass moment for u...
try to ask urself, how does she treat u... mayb u can just casually ask her, are u just a normal fren to her? of course u need to bring in the atmosphere.. not too direct in order to cause any misunderstanding to her first... -
We talk almost about anything.
She shows care for me, comfort me when I'm down, and I do the same thing for her too.
We've known for years and we ever say to marry each other if we are not engaged by the age of 30.
We can say to be the best buddies.
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hey... thats a very gd sign... mayb she is waiting for u to make the first move? perhaps u shd, cos usually girls are too shy to make the first move... the age of thirty.. so how old are u now?Originally posted by Knapper:We talk almost about anything.
She shows care for me, comfort me when I'm down, and I do the same thing for her too.
We've known for years and we ever say to marry each other if we are not engaged by the age of 30.
We can say to be the best buddies. -
I'm 24Originally posted by shifeng:hey... thats a very gd sign... mayb she is waiting for u to make the first move? perhaps u shd, cos usually girls are too shy to make the first move... the age of thirty.. so how old are u now?
I think I never make clear about something.
She is engaged now, with a bf, for 2 years
But she seems unhappy from what I heard.
With this, should the situation be clearer? -
yes, the situation is much much clearer now.Originally posted by Knapper:I'm 24
I think I never make clear about something.
She is engaged now, with a bf, for 2 years
But she seems unhappy from what I heard.
With this, should the situation be clearer?
wth were you thinking? she is already engaged with her bf. if you are really her best friend, you shld really wish her all the best and not hang around like a vulture, ready to swoop in at any opportunity.
sorry if i sounded harsh. i can understand that you have feelings for her but i can only say the timing just isnt right. if she is single i would have strongly encouraged you since both of you are the best of friends, even if kena rejected, your r/s also wouldnt hit rock bottom. but sad to say, this isnt the case right now.
i suggest you sit down and think through what you want to do. if necessary, stay away from her for a while and cool down. if she breaks up with her bf in the end, i would say congrats, fate has given you a chance. else... -
Lucky I noe how to control... else ppl will see me as a gay... XPOriginally posted by Knapper:I guess many of you out there should have met this kind of situation before.
Develop a liking for your best friend.
I need some comments from you people.
Should I cross the line? -
agreed,, dun be the 3rd party.. but when the coast is cleared, go for it!Originally posted by simulacrum:yes, the situation is much much clearer now.
wth were you thinking? she is already engaged with her bf. if you are really her best friend, you shld really wish her all the best and not hang around like a vulture, ready to swoop in at any opportunity.
sorry if i sounded harsh. i can understand that you have feelings for her but i can only say the timing just isnt right. if she is single i would have strongly encouraged you since both of you are the best of friends, even if kena rejected, your r/s also wouldnt hit rock bottom. but sad to say, this isnt the case right now.
i suggest you sit down and think through what you want to do. if necessary, stay away from her for a while and cool down. if she breaks up with her bf in the end, i would say congrats, fate has given you a chance. else...
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x2Originally posted by DevilAngel77:agreed,, dun be the 3rd party.. but when the coast is cleared, go for it!
the largest risk is not taking any risks
all the best! -
YIKES!!!
This sounds like my best fren & moi
But we crossed the line
And BOY r we so darned happee together : )
RPOriginally posted by Knapper:We talk almost about anything.
She shows care for me, comfort me when I'm down, and I do the same thing for her too.
We've known for years and we ever say to marry each other if we are not engaged by the age of 30.
We can say to be the best buddies. -
i always keena this.
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