Originally posted by tequila:
Same here.. ppl always think my expectation is too high but its really not.. How to be together if its not click? Sometimes really feel tired of having a relationships but sometimes will feel lonely if u r alone.. Haiz.. dun know what to do with it...
Love is like that or maybe it isn't love but we mistaken it as it... perhaps its just a lonely heart seeking for a place to settle in so that it will no longer be lonely... If we were rich and could travel the world and shop till u drop... we might dont even need anyone but the fact is we cant... we do not have such capital... so we seek for a person whom we thought we needed them to ease the pain. Just like my friend, loving a jerk...maybe some think its impossible... but sometimes, even being jerky, there are still people who are willing to stay... perhaps becos of challenge? maybe not but love? mayb we often mistaken lust for love, easing loneliness as love but back to the point, actually, what love is all about? sacrifices... doing something astounding to prove your love? all people have different definitions of love and many feel love a different way... not willing to let go, the kind of hurt felt is perhaps jus another lost battle rather than loving... you don feel too bad of u love someone... the main point is to see that they are happy... wanting them by ur side is possessive which can never work out well in a r/s. hopefully time can heal all wounds.
god blesses