Can Someone HELP or Advise me
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Sometime I wonder how high is the chance of me getting into any local poly. I'm someone who feels that I'm born into the wrong body. ie a female traps inside a male body. I hate the fact that I'm a guy and feels very uncomfortable been a guy. B4 NS, i keep long hair, not those untidy hair, I always tie them up with a scarchin. I do wear female T-shirt, those more toward unisex type one.
I know I can simply lie to the poly and get into a course but by doing so, it do me no good. I din do well in secondary school, drop out of jc, drop out of poly becasue, my inner soul is in conflict. The school expect me to behave like a guy, present myself like a guy, I can't and I fail badly.Unless I'm allow to be who I am, I can't do well.
What should I do
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i can't offer much, except to tell you if things aren't resolved within urself, it's not just ur school work that will suffer.
this might plague the other areas of your life, work, family, relationships. come to terms with who u are, and be proud of it. it's not like u're doing great harm to anyone, are you? -
I don't have much advice for you , but don't get too stressed over it , if you really need to talk , you can always talk to a cousellor , call the SOS or post here.
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Ditto that , wow u post faster than meOriginally posted by jOhO:i can't offer much, except to tell you if things aren't resolved within urself, it's not just ur school work that will suffer.
this might plague the other areas of your life, work, family, relationships. come to terms with who u are, and be proud of it. it's not like u're doing great harm to anyone, are you?
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wat to do, pple sad, faster offer comfort.Originally posted by boariggy:Ditto that , wow u post faster than me -
Acturally, if I'm offer a place in poly, this is my second chance le. The First time, I drop out becasue I got alot of problem from school, 1st with long hair, second with my attire.... No matter how good is my O level, it's of no use.
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i thot poly is more lax with regard to hair and attire?
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as long as u are a male student, u can't keep long hair....Originally posted by jOhO:i thot poly is more lax with regard to hair and attire? -
I Agree.Originally posted by jOhO:wat to do, pple sad, faster offer comfort. -
What if you keep it tied neatly?Originally posted by clarinet:as long as u are a male student, u can't keep long hair.... -
also cannot... will not be allow to take exam... happen to me many yrs back that why i drop out.....Originally posted by boariggy:What if you keep it tied neatly? -
Originally posted by clarinet:also cannot... will not be allow to take exam... happen to me many yrs back that why i drop out.....
You really can't afford to cut your hair short just for a while? for your exams? -
By doing so, It's like killing myself, willmalfunction one.Originally posted by boariggy:
You really can't afford to cut your hair short just for a while? for your exams?
Then the wearing of female attire? will the poly allow??? I double so . -
Originally posted by clarinet:Sometime I wonder how high is the chance of me getting into any local poly. I'm someone who feels that I'm born into the wrong body. ie a female traps inside a male body. I hate the fact that I'm a guy and feels very uncomfortable been a guy. B4 NS, i keep long hair, not those untidy hair, I always tie them up with a scarchin. I do wear female T-shirt, those more toward unisex type one.
I know I can simply lie to the poly and get into a course but by doing so, it do me no good. I din do well in secondary school, drop out of jc, drop out of poly becasue, my inner soul is in conflict. The school expect me to behave like a guy, present myself like a guy, I can't and I fail badly.Unless I'm allow to be who I am, I can't do well.
What should I do 
Your soul conflicts with your current life lesson - your freewill chose security; you choses your soul's energy.
Taken from here, which I wrote about the long part on Lesbian - this applies to you as well.
I am sure there are heavy affliction link with karma within your astrological birth chart, especially Moon and Venus in probably Pisces or Scorpio.
It's not about being normal or what.
It's about accepting current life lesson as what you are born into and learn to be one - a guy. Your afflictions and south node will probably pull you nearer to your soul's energy; you need spiritual enlightenment if you wish to understand why is such thing happen and everything. (Usually psychological counselling can only do so much)
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Originally posted by clarinet:as long as u are a male student, u can't keep long hair.... I got a good way out and used before by my good friend's friend - wear a wig. Confirm plus chop can go exam, just take care not ruin the show halfway. His hair was long, damn long.
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sometimes...the world view homos in the wrong light...they believe that homos are perverts and child molesters...anyway i respect that you are gay and you dont deserve to be treated like this...but there are other gays i know who can fit in very well in society. why must you insist of dressing gay? just wear a tight jeans and a unisex shirt is fine...but if u wanna start wearing skirts and showing g-string...then of course people will not allow.
i say...just go sign up in poly...and get your diploma. if u wanna start dressing gay..i doubt u'd find people who wanna do project with you thats all. -
hmm i'm not so sure he's gay... but anyway it doesn't matter.
but like boariggy mentioned, cutting ur hair perhaps just for exams is the only way to go... i mean, there are just some things in life we have to follow. it's part of life, i hope u can endure it. -
why do u have the idea i'll start wear G-string with skirt? DO remembers, Not Evenyone like tt will work in Chnagi villageOriginally posted by Thailand_Hero:sometimes...the world view homos in the wrong light...they believe that homos are perverts and child molesters...anyway i respect that you are gay and you dont deserve to be treated like this...but there are other gays i know who can fit in very well in society. why must you insist of dressing gay? just wear a tight jeans and a unisex shirt is fine...but if u wanna start wearing skirts and showing g-string...then of course people will not allow.
i say...just go sign up in poly...and get your diploma. if u wanna start dressing gay..i doubt u'd find people who wanna do project with you thats all.
Please don't relate Gay, transexual with the stupid Sex industry -
beloved clarinet.. don't be angry
fret not.. soon you will really find your happiness
having much deep thoughts will do you no good..
why not just be yourself? grab your own chance and fate
i know you can do it!
/me huggies clarinet~ jia you bah! i will always be with you! -
have u approach any medical help?
may be injecting some male horomones wld do
i dun know anything
jus some replies