pls help my friend here...thanks
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Hi, i'm asking on behalf of my close female friend. she suspect that this guy likes her but his actions make her
bcos out of the sudden he will just ask her want go steady den after that make it appear like joking and sometimes just blurt out he love her but end up nv say anything when my friend said things like..cant be or divert attn,is he trying to test the market by seeing how my friend react so he wun be malu or is he just playing ard and joking?? pls help my friend..she is confused 
and me as a guy have no idea too and she's shy to post. Thanx ! and let me know what does this guy think or is trying to imply by doing such thing..
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Your gurl-friend likes him right? And all ready to accept him if he's serious right?
Otherwise why would she be confused?
The next time, ask your friend to tell him. 'If you're going to just fool around about relationship matters. The one who's really going to lose out is yourself. Be real and say what you mean.'
But if your friend really likes him....then don't bother. Chase after him instead!!!
Forsee : Ego bashing, lots of problems due to Face, pride problem. -
ya my friend kinda help him but is unsure how he feels towards her...btw..thanks for the reply...
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if girl likes guy then
girl chase guy lor
else
ignore
end if
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Both have great pride problem. Immature. But Cute!Originally posted by topboy:ya my friend kinda help him but is unsure how he feels towards her...btw..thanks for the reply... 
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How old your friend and that guy? At a young age, it's a higher chance that he don't really dare to make the approach than he's just joking... Then again, both are possible... It's hard to judge what it really means based on such limited facts?Originally posted by topboy:ya my friend kinda help him but is unsure how he feels towards her...btw..thanks for the reply... -
oh that guy and my friend they are 19 this year...
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Young young, fresh fresh.Originally posted by topboy:oh that guy and my friend they are 19 this year... -
lol she very troubled now..dunno is he for real or what..but what do u guys think? if u like this girl will u do such things?
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i think the guy is too shy or afraid to know whether your friend likes him too or not.. maybe he has no confidence in himself..
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I think you didn't read my thread well.Originally posted by topboy:lol she very troubled now..dunno is he for real or what..but what do u guys think? if u like this girl will u do such things?
Does she like him? If she likes him, then tell him.
He may like her but doesn't know how to approach the issue, being afraid of making a fool out of himself.
He might be trying to hide his feelings thru jokes and jeering with her. That's sometimes what guys would do. (TopBoy, you're a guy how come you cannot answer her leh?)
If this is the case, then have a third party to make things clear first.
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Kinda reminds me of javascript :pOriginally posted by sgboy2004:if girl likes guy then
girl chase guy lor
else
ignore
end if
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if ( girl lyk boi )
{ girl ask boi }
else
{ girl shld forget }
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Originally posted by topboy:Hi, i'm asking on behalf of my close female friend. she suspect that this guy likes her but his actions make her bcos out of the sudden he will just ask her want go steady den after that make it appear like joking and sometimes just blurt out he love her but end up nv say anything when my friend said things like..cant be or divert attn,is he trying to test the market by seeing how my friend react so he wun be malu or is he just playing ard and joking?? pls help my friend..she is confused and me as a guy have no idea too and she's shy to post. Thanx ! and let me know what does this guy think or is trying to imply by doing such thing..
Yes indeed - it is quite an obvious way of checking if she has feelings for him and of course, it may seemed to be a childish attempt - in fact many people do it all time.
Let me teach you a counter method - play along his game. He doesn't want to malu? Then show interest, but remain where she is. He wanna play game of bf/gf - then play along. He wanna declare love, she will playfully do it as well. In the end, he will be wondering what's next.
If he likes - he would come clean eventually. Remain where she is, until he is brave enough to avoid the jokes and be serious. Stall the feelings, first.
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[quote]Originally posted by sgboy2004:
[b]if girl likes guy then
girl chase guy lor
else
ignore
end if
nah thats visual basic not javascript lol . -
But it shld be like tt :Originally posted by sgboy2004:if girl likes guy then
girl chase guy lor
else
ignore
end if
If
Girl.likes.guy
then
Girl.chase.guy.lor
Else
Ignore
End if
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ask ur female friend to test tat guy also but make it as a joke also ,,,counter him..question his question...get wat i mean...
ask her to make tat guy think wat she want him to think...
but if she lik tat guy also den depends lor or its admire or a cruse.......mayb tat guy really lik her lik as wat u say, "test market 1st...." it really depends...i got a female buddy, i also always joke but wil keep a distance cos a guy without principal can go eat shit liao... -
thanks guys, i've told her to look at the replies.. hope she benefits from it
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Hey, i haven reply yet... Hmm, I'm too late...Originally posted by topboy:thanks guys, i've told her to look at the replies.. hope she benefits from it 
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yun says she plays along .. but then wat if the guy is ACTUALLY joking and then ur fren .. after a period of time actually sink in rather deep in love with tat guy .. then i think it would be more toturous for her to give him up and find tat he is jus joking all this while ..
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Originally posted by Saint`:yun says she plays along .. but then wat if the guy is ACTUALLY joking and then ur fren .. after a period of time actually sink in rather deep in love with tat guy .. then i think it would be more toturous for her to give him up and find tat he is jus joking all this while .. That's why when you decide to counter method - you must understand your motive in doing that. You may have good impression out of spirit and fun, but certainly, it wouldn't be deep-in-love kind.
Anyway, if he truely lack the guts to declare his love - but by playing his game, she are entering his spirit (Art of Seduction Phrase one; Law 7). If she does it well and without unpredicted external circumstances - within a month and half (usually about three weeks), everything will be much clearer. Then she can begin to consider other plans when things are more visible.
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does your friend likes that guy? if yes,just wait and see lor,i don't think that you want her to go and tell that guy that she likes him meh? if she don't like him then just hack care about that guy lor...Originally posted by topboy:Hi, i'm asking on behalf of my close female friend. she suspect that this guy likes her but his actions make her bcos out of the sudden he will just ask her want go steady den after that make it appear like joking and sometimes just blurt out he love her but end up nv say anything when my friend said things like..cant be or divert attn,is he trying to test the market by seeing how my friend react so he wun be malu or is he just playing ard and joking?? pls help my friend..she is confused and me as a guy have no idea too and she's shy to post. Thanx ! and let me know what does this guy think or is trying to imply by doing such thing.. -
Er...got this book selling, where can i get it..price..dun mind....you mean the lady slowely drop into the guys plam...??automatically lik the guy....Originally posted by Yunhaier: That's why when you decide to counter method - you must understand your motive in doing that. You may have good impression out of spirit and fun, but certainly, it wouldn't be deep-in-love kind.
Anyway, if he truely lack the guts to declare his love - but by playing his game, she are entering his spirit (Art of Seduction Phrase one; Law 7). If she does it well and without unpredicted external circumstances - within a month and half (usually about three weeks), everything will be much clearer. Then she can begin to consider other plans when things are more visible.
Cheers -
Originally posted by bo liao:Er...got this book selling, where can i get it..price..dun mind....you mean the lady slowely drop into the guys plam...??automatically lik the guy.... I don't really understand that plan about dropping into the guy's plan and automatically like the guy - there is no such thing as automatically like or anything. Book state theory - in the end, 95% depends on the action, behavior, personality, psychological and emotional function of the person.
Art of Seduction cost about 30+ to 40+ - the content is very extremely heavy, chim and such and very not applicable to local context. My stuff is remodified under CloUdiSm theory, which is not available anywhere. But you can get a good scan of the book in Kinokuniya or Borders.
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Yeah, the context is very foreign and dry.Originally posted by Yunhaier: I don't really understand that plan about dropping into the guy's plan and automatically like the guy - there is no such thing as automatically like or anything. Book state theory - in the end, 95% depends on the action, behavior, personality, psychological and emotional function of the person.
Art of Seduction cost about 30+ to 40+ - the content is very extremely heavy, chim and such and very not applicable to local context. My stuff is remodified under CloUdiSm theory, which is not available anywhere. But you can get a good scan of the book in Kinokuniya or Borders.
Cheers
Get the gist of it and digest.
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If I am the girl, I'll probably walk to the guy and ask him if he would seriously like to be in a relationship with me. Just find the right moment when he is alone and away from his friends especially. This way they won't have a chance to tease him and he won't need to come up with his silly half-hearted replies just to please his friends.