i'm confused!!! anyone out there????
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the 1st time i met him was a total mistake.. i shouldnt have agree my friends to go down devils.. when i 1st saw him i was total attracted to him.. he's jus another ordinary guy.. normal looks.. slightly pump.. dun ask mi whats in him that attract mi.. i dun know too.. jus a kind of feeling maybe he resembles my ex riding the same class 2 bike model.. the only thing they have in common is their bike.... argh,,, i dun know what got into mi and i walk over to get his num.. i was thinking if i dun get it now when shld i get it!!! world so small so he was atually staying at my next blk yet i nv see him of his bike b4.. neverthless the impt point was the following day we meet up at my void deck.. we were talking abt everthing under the sun and i knew that i like him and i guess he sense it thats y he kept teasing mi saying that if he wans to cont his studies and his mum is not paying i wld pay for him and at 1 point he held my hand a little while and said u wld right my sweetie dear.. i was shock.. but little most happy.. but just that evening.. LX (a friend of both of us) call and told mi that he actuallt LX that he thinks thatt i and him not suitable ... im not his type..then y he held my hand y call mi those initials?
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Follow your heart, not the voices.
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Wake up ba..sometimes a guy hold a girl's hand is juz for the fun of it. Dun take it too seriously..and why would he ask if you were to pay his school fees when you have only met him once..that's really strange~
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i have been cutting short on what i wanted to say if not its going to be very long winded... he was jus joking abt it,,, what i wanted to say was he din told mi that he would reject mi yet LX came and told mi so im confuse is he wanted to tell mi or he ask LX to tell mi????
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just move on.Originally posted by ron33:i have been cutting short on what i wanted to say if not its going to be very long winded... he was jus joking abt it,,, what i wanted to say was he din told mi that he would reject mi yet LX came and told mi so im confuse is he wanted to tell mi or he ask LX to tell mi????
he wasn't really serious. -
ok moved on with life... always saying is easy...
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dont think u can decide rationally for now.
but to at least minimise any future regret of urs, do u feel like wanting to be with him?
if no, say no.
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saying is easy, doing it is hard.Originally posted by ron33:ok moved on with life... always saying is easy...
but it didn't mention that doing it is impossible
girl move on -
i wanted to say i dun know but u ask mi yes say yes then its a yes la
aint it obivous -
why dun U go out and ask him urself.
He may wnt to tell ur frenz dat so ur frenz can tell U N C how U react.
AnyW...be more hack care N see how.. -
i dun dare to la...
any way i decided le although only few of u replies
is enough to let mi know what i wana do -
if he truly desires you,
if you go, he'll chase.
if he doesn't chase, it means he isn't really sure.. and since you're not sure with yourself.
why commit? -
i dun dare to la...
any way i decided le although only few of u replies
is enough to let mi know what i wana do -
ok end this topic no need to say more abt this like wat ever u ppl say ...
anyway thanks -
As if sticking on with him would be any easier?Originally posted by ron33:ok moved on with life... always saying is easy...
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ahhh these modern girls, always running off with men just because they have a large bike between their legs... haiz...
Xian zai de nian ching ren ahhh, zen de tai guo fen le! -
Well, maybe cos they look like bad boys.
Anyways, how could u be attracted to someone who you haven't even spoke to ONCE?
If u said that u spoke to him for a while and u gt attracted to him that might still be possible, but not at all?? -
i intro u my friend,got RVF,R1,KuKu bu sa,Sp...TZM...!!!!
but sad to say the 1 ride tzm look lik fong de lun.... -
Originally posted by ron33:the 1st time i met him was a total mistake.. i shouldnt have agree my friends to go down devils.. when i 1st saw him i was total attracted to him.. he's jus another ordinary guy.. normal looks.. slightly pump.. dun ask mi whats in him that attract mi.. i dun know too.. jus a kind of feeling maybe he resembles my ex riding the same class 2 bike model.. the only thing they have in common is their bike.... argh,,, i dun know what got into mi and i walk over to get his num.. i was thinking if i dun get it now when shld i get it!!! world so small so he was atually staying at my next blk yet i nv see him of his bike b4.. neverthless the impt point was the following day we meet up at my void deck.. we were talking abt everthing under the sun and i knew that i like him and i guess he sense it thats y he kept teasing mi saying that if he wans to cont his studies and his mum is not paying i wld pay for him and at 1 point he held my hand a little while and said u wld right my sweetie dear.. i was shock.. but little most happy.. but just that evening.. LX (a friend of both of us) call and told mi that he actuallt LX that he thinks thatt i and him not suitable ... im not his type..then y he held my hand y call mi those initials?
You like him, a heavy crush/impression (due to a day's worth of chat), futhermore - its a love at first sight. (Bar)
He doesn't like you - how could he since you are the one that approach him? But well, he doesn't mind knowing any decent lady (in his impression) and since you stay so close to him, there is no harm asking you out and chat.
He held your hands and calls you sweetie because he enjoys the affection you gave him. In return, he did. Did he like you? My answer is HOW to? Below is an example of what he would say if he posted his stuff here.
'It was a clubbing day where me and my friends agreed to to chill out at Devils. I was dancing/drinking, enjoying the ambience and music - suddenly this girl came up to me and ask for my number. Well, she looked decent and I gave it to her in the end. The best part is that she stayed a block away from me....'
This was probably was took place - no emotions, no love at first sight, no nothing - how can he fall for you because nothing was made to further this friendship and it all happened within a short span of time? He is standing at an advantage - knowing that you are interested and he could remain where he was and still enjoy whatever is there to gain.
You have two options:
I) Take time to know him as a friend. Doesn't mean that you have to jump into a relationship or anything - with the assistance of time, the godly image you have in him may be ruin when you discovered his human side.
II) Forget about this whole thing - he resembled your ex-bf, which contributes to a whole chunk of reasons why you had the courage and foolishness to do something like that. You may be sourcing qualities of your ex in him - you could be moving on the wrong track if you are blinded and confused by emotions.
Cheers -
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Hold hands only must responsible eh? Then I have to responsible to some many people already.
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Try to avoid him for 1-2 weeks and see if he looks for you. If he does, it'll probably mean that he really loves you. When you find the right opportunity, ask him if he is really interested in you and wants to start a serious relationship. Oh and try not to use the word "serious relationship" as guys are quite afraid to commit themselves to this kind of things.
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somehow i get the impression tt he is those ..... like bad boys type
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Plump boy...ride motorcycle...no money....like that also you want? have some standard lah
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x2...Originally posted by Nelstar:Follow your heart, not the voices.