I guess it's the way some view a relationship... you can say, tat one should not close one's heart even after a break up cos one won't know wat might happen next... and also if u neber tried, you won't know who is rite for you...
on the other hand, for some pple like me, i still believe tat a relationship is of great value and it's a lot of effort to keep it going... it's not juz abt trying to see if things can work, if not -> forget it... kinda thing... or if i reach my objective then i'll juz dump the other...
enter a relation only when you are sure you love the other wif all yr heart... love doens't happen over nite... and it takes time to build... if after a few mths and you still can't love the other 101% or still tink abt another, then i believe it won't work lor...
treat relations gently as they are fragile especially cos it involves emotions...
