my story
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I currenlty had a gf (our relation not yet stable). There is this close friend of mine (know 10yrs) love me very deeply. But i don love her. sometimes when she did do things for me i feel moved. Then today she said she never wan to see me anymore. I feel very sad as she is my close friend but i respect her decision. I understand she wan to forget about me. I agreed as i don wan to harm her. But right now i still feel vexed and sad. Why cant we be good friends..
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She knows that the longer she'll have to stay with you
The longer she'll have to suffer.
How can a person stay with one whom she loves but seeing him already made his decision.
Two choices she'll make.
To stay by your side and support you.
Or
Leave this friendship and Move on.
Even when moving on...she'll still miss you lot more then you do.
Because she loves you.
Some things are meant to be.
Let it be.
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thank u m square. thing life need to go on. it part of life. thank you.
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Take heart my friend and pray for her day and night if you really treasure her.Originally posted by blowfish:thank u m square. thing life need to go on. it part of life. thank you.
Missing her at times is worth a whole lot more.
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Originally posted by M©+square:Take heart my friend and pray for her day and night if you really treasure her.
Missing her at times is worth a whole lot more.
Cheers
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Originally posted by M©+square:Take heart my friend and pray for her day and night if you really treasure her.
Missing her at times is worth a whole lot more.
Cheers
Well said -
Well, only a person who have been thru it can give a heartfelt advice.Originally posted by Patrik:
Well said
To all the girls i've Loved before - Juilio Eglesias
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since it is time for her to move on to a new chapter,
you should wish her all the best..
you cant expect her to be stuck by your side all the while... -
since it is time for her to move on to a new chapter,
you should wish her all the best..
you cant expect her to be stuck by your side all the while... -
Dun worry dude, one fine day down the road u will see her again....after all singapore is so damn small.... By then both of u will have settled ur hearts and ur friendship will rekindle.... In the mean time just pray for her.....
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Originally posted by blowfish:I currenlty had a gf (our relation not yet stable). There is this close friend of mine (know 10yrs) love me very deeply. But i don love her. sometimes when she did do things for me i feel moved. Then today she said she never wan to see me anymore. I feel very sad as she is my close friend but i respect her decision. I understand she wan to forget about me. I agreed as i don wan to harm her. But right now i still feel vexed and sad. Why cant we be good friends..
guess all things need come to an end. I sincerely hoped the best for her.
Woah, ten years friendship - I am quite sure this liking has sunk in many years back.
Yes; if she cannot see a friendship apart from her liking for you, she sure need time for herself to clear up issues in her life and vision. I am sure your feelings for her is very much different from her to you - for relationship and love would have already blossom in the past if mutual feeling and everything else is there. (Then again, unless external factors are overwhelming)
P.S: You did the right thing? Let her walk on her own for a while. If this friendship is meant to be - it will return later.
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yeah, if you dun let her go, you are being selfish....
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Well said... R u working as a advisor coz from a number of thread u post, ur reply are all clear...Originally posted by M©+square:She knows that the longer she'll have to stay with you
The longer she'll have to suffer.
How can a person stay with one whom she loves but seeing him already made his decision.
Two choices she'll make.
To stay by your side and support you.
Or
Leave this friendship and Move on.
Even when moving on...she'll still miss you lot more then you do.
Because she loves you.
Some things are meant to be.
Let it be.
Cheers
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Thank you for your compliments(i supposeOriginally posted by Dj_Shadow:Well said... R u working as a advisor coz from a number of thread u post, ur reply are all clear... ) I post as a learner. Learner of Love and relationship, sweetness and pain.
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Oh I c... Well done... It seems that now u r the teacher...Originally posted by M©+square:Thank you for your compliments(i suppose ) I post as a learner. Learner of Love and relationship, sweetness and pain.
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There are many many teachers here.Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:Oh I c... Well done... It seems that now u r the teacher...
Look out for them!
Look out for me in DT lah.
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Originally posted by M©+square:Well, only a person who have been thru it can give a heartfelt advice.
To all the girls i've Loved before - Juilio Eglesias 
Indeed? In order to understand pain, you'll 1st have to receive a punch? -
To fully comprehend the pain.Originally posted by Devil1976: Indeed? In order to understand pain, you'll 1st have to receive a punch?
Yes, one has to recieve.
Want one from me as a gift?
Understand pain of a punch from a friend.
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Oh something to add.Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:Oh I c... Well done... It seems that now u r the teacher...
A learner speaks what he has experienced, theories changes thru time and situations. He walks the way, seeking unseen paths and valleys.
He/she still recieves and imparts wisdom at the same time.
A teacher imparts principles and theories which he would rarely alter. Alteration only comes when the teacher experiences a new dimension of what he/she had learnt.
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To see someone u love and yet he/she is with another person, tt will be hurting. Not everyone can face that fact the the one u love most dun love u at all. Hence she choose to leave and not see u anymore.Originally posted by blowfish:I currenlty had a gf (our relation not yet stable). There is this close friend of mine (know 10yrs) love me very deeply. But i don love her. sometimes when she did do things for me i feel moved. Then today she said she never wan to see me anymore. I feel very sad as she is my close friend but i respect her decision. I understand she wan to forget about me. I agreed as i don wan to harm her. But right now i still feel vexed and sad. Why cant we be good friends..
guess all things need come to an end. I sincerely hoped the best for her.
It took her much courage and of cos as much hurt as well to leave someone she loves. I hope she is feeling better too. And blowfish: Live well and let her be bah. -
Hahaha.. No thanks... I've experienced something like that before already... No need to experience so many times...Originally posted by M©+square:To fully comprehend the pain.
Yes, one has to recieve.
Want one from me as a gift?
Understand pain of a punch from a friend.