What's on her mind....
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i knew a gal for a month, but she is not my gf. she will call me everyday, and i will wait for her call everyday. When we first chatted thru the phone, i didn take it very serious as it was another phone session. But after a few more times, i found out that we clicked really well...thinking very alike and i like her straight forward nature. This is when i found out that i was serious this time....
But when we meet up, she seems very 'far away' from me. We will still laugh at simple things between us, her brother also call us crazy fellas. But something is not correct...i can't feel the affection from her when face to face......dunno why. She has a straight forward character and is a pretty gal.
I would like to ask gals in this forum, will you call a guy everyday if you dun have any affections for him? -
Sometimes the gal call to show care and concern for her frens?Originally posted by civic_ESi:i knew a gal for a month, but she is not my gf. she will call me everyday, and i will wait for her call everyday.
But when we meet up, she seems very 'far away' from me. We will still laugh at simple things between us, her brother also call us crazy fellas. But something is not correct...i can't feel the affection from her when face to face......dunno why. She has a straight forward character and is a pretty gal.
I would like to ask gals in this forum, will you call a guy everyday if you dun have any affections for him?
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she has ALOT of guys going after her.....but she told me once: "i have so many ppl to call in my phone book, but why i choose to call you?" i was drunk that time, did not probe much into it.Originally posted by Dj_Shadow:Sometimes the gal call to show care and concern for her frens? -
Maybe, you think too much liao...Originally posted by civic_ESi:she has ALOT of guys going after her.....but she told me once: "i have so many ppl to call in my phone book, but why i choose to call you?" i was drunk that time, did not probe much into it.
She may be treating you as a sibling figure, for e.g. a brother whom she can talk to...
Dun think too much...
and, I am saying, MAYBE!
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she called u becoz both of ur topic dat u both chat clicks. nth else more.
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she will call u because she feel comfortable talking to u
she enjoy talking to u jus treat u as her soul mate -
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It depends on individual leh. If she is a very outgoing girl, maybe calling a fren for a chat to pass time etc is really nothing special. One of my girl frens can also call her guy frens 'darling' etc. So it all depends on the character and thinking of that person.Originally posted by civic_ESi:i knew a gal for a month, but she is not my gf. she will call me everyday, and i will wait for her call everyday. When we first chatted thru the phone, i didn take it very serious as it was another phone session. But after a few more times, i found out that we clicked really well...thinking very alike and i like her straight forward nature. This is when i found out that i was serious this time....
But when we meet up, she seems very 'far away' from me. We will still laugh at simple things between us, her brother also call us crazy fellas. But something is not correct...i can't feel the affection from her when face to face......dunno why. She has a straight forward character and is a pretty gal.
I would like to ask gals in this forum, will you call a guy everyday if you dun have any affections for him? -
wow .
darling? -_-" .. i wonder how her bf(if she had one) wld feel -
it berry hard to figure wad's person's thinking
mabbie she/he my not know wad she/he want at all
calling ppl dear... darling .... sweetie doesnt mean anything
it's jus a way of calling some1 does it mind so much to ppl -
Originally posted by civic_ESi:i knew a gal for a month, but she is not my gf. she will call me everyday, and i will wait for her call everyday. When we first chatted thru the phone, i didn take it very serious as it was another phone session. But after a few more times, i found out that we clicked really well...thinking very alike and i like her straight forward nature. This is when i found out that i was serious this time....
But when we meet up, she seems very 'far away' from me. We will still laugh at simple things between us, her brother also call us crazy fellas. But something is not correct...i can't feel the affection from her when face to face......dunno why. She has a straight forward character and is a pretty gal.
I would like to ask gals in this forum, will you call a guy everyday if you dun have any affections for him?
Why not? You could just be a phone companion - afterall, talking on the phone is just voice hearing, with impression based on what you think she is to you.
In reality, she may still talk the same way and everything else, looks, blar blar - but your subconscious pick up subtle body language and this message probably clashes with your subconscious impression you thought of her - therefore there isn't any feelings and affection when you see her face to face.
P.S: Take your time to know the real her as well. There is no rush.
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Yun's reply always nv fail 2 disappoint mi... I totally agree wif wat u say...Originally posted by Yunhaier: Why not? You could just be a phone companion - afterall, talking on the phone is just voice hearing, with impression based on what you think she is to you.
In reality, she may still talk the same way and everything else, looks, blar blar - but your subconscious pick up subtle body language and this message probably clashes with your subconscious impression you thought of her - therefore there isn't any feelings and affection when you see her face to face.
P.S: Take your time to know the real her as well. There is no rush.
Cheers -
Sorry, I totally disagree. Don't listen to any of the advice above. If this girl has been picking up the phone to call you everday, and its not to seek consolation for any problems that she has that she finds only you understand, then she clearly likes you.
People, especially teens, like to talk about girls as if they're some behaviourally complex creatures and you can never know if they like you. Well the news is that they're not. They give off exactly the same vibes as men do, and calling you everyday just to chit chat is a clear sign.
BUT whether she'd admit that she likes you or not is a totally different story. Women, especially in their teens to early 20s, are a confused bunch who are emotionally unstable, afraid to commit when they're young, and want the best of all worlds. Depending on the type of character she is, there's a good chance that if a passionate romance doesn't spark off soon, she'll just be content to keep the company, attention and close friendship until the next guy comes along to sweep her off her feet.
If my comments above sound chauvinistic in any way, I'm completely unapologetic for it. They're just facts. -
Nice answer.Originally posted by Rexdriver:there's a good chance that if a passionate romance doesn't spark off soon, she'll just be content to keep the company, attention and close friendship until the next guy comes along to sweep her off her feet.
High possiblity, Caller might find reciever very nice and comfortable to talk to. Hence, a soul mate/ phone companion category was formed.
Hint: If she place you in soul mate/ companion....extremely hard for you to be in her potential boyfriend category
If reciever started asking relationship questions.
Caller might use this typical answer. 'I don't know, see how first ba.'
Caller doesn't want the relationship to change.
Slight Possiblity, Caller likes you. But she's shy. Let time tell... Take time to know her more and understand her lifestyle.
At the same time. You gotto work on your social network so that there are other options.
Take care and continue posting
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Agree.Totally.Originally posted by Rexdriver:Sorry, I totally disagree. Don't listen to any of the advice above. If this girl has been picking up the phone to call you everday, and its not to seek consolation for any problems that she has that she finds only you understand, then she clearly likes you.
People, especially teens, like to talk about girls as if they're some behaviourally complex creatures and you can never know if they like you. Well the news is that they're not. They give off exactly the same vibes as men do, and calling you everyday just to chit chat is a clear sign.
BUT whether she'd admit that she likes you or not is a totally different story. Women, especially in their teens to early 20s, are a confused bunch who are emotionally unstable, afraid to commit when they're young, and want the best of all worlds. Depending on the type of character she is, there's a good chance that if a passionate romance doesn't spark off soon, she'll just be content to keep the company, attention and close friendship until the next guy comes along to sweep her off her feet.
If my comments above sound chauvinistic in any way, I'm completely unapologetic for it. They're just facts. -
yes... cos guys can be friends too. not neccessary muz have something special den can call. the gal may just be bored and need companion.
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Well...anything is possible..
Wait for more hints loh...
If not then just frenz she treat u as -
Look at it this way loh, she's currently curious about u and probably finds u interesting. It's a good start.
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But you should try to accelerate the process into a romance if that's where you want to take it. Taking it slow and easy doesn't work with most girls unless they're madly into you.Originally posted by Magnus:Look at it this way loh, she's currently curious about u and probably finds u interesting. It's a good start.
